
277 S.E.2d 865 (1981)
DURHAM COUNTY DEPARTMENT OF SOCIAL SERVICES and Margaret Thomas
v.
Jimmie WILLIAMS.
No. 8014DC764.
Court of Appeals of North Carolina.
May 19, 1981.
*867 Thomas Russell Odom, Durham, for plaintiff-appellee.
C. Horton Poe, Jr., Durham, for defendant-appellant.
VAUGHN, Judge.
A single issue is dispositive of this appeal: whether the district court had jurisdiction to enter the order of 2 October 1979, approving the support agreement when defendant's written acknowledgment of paternity was not simultaneously accompanied by the mother's sworn affirmation of paternity as required by G.S. § 110-132(a). We conclude that the mother's written affirmation of paternity was a prerequisite to the court's acquisition of jurisdiction in these circumstances and reverse Judge LaBarre's subsequent order of 28 April 1980 confirming the validity and binding effect of the support agreement executed by defendant.
At the outset, we note that one of the express purposes of Article 9 of Chapter 110 of the General Statutes is "to provide for enforcement of the responsible parent's obligation to furnish support" for his or her child. G.S. § 110-128. It is, therefore, at once clear that the provisions of Chapter 110 have no application, and there is no enforceable duty to support a child under that Chapter, until somebody is determined to be a "responsible parent." A responsible parent is "the natural or adoptive parent of a dependent child who has the legal duty to support said child and includes the father of an illegitimate child." G.S. § 110-129(3) (emphasis added). In this case, it appears that G.S. § 110-132 provided the sole means *868 for establishing and enforcing a legal duty on defendant's part to support Genelle Renee Mitchell.[1] It is elemental then that full compliance with the statutory requirements was necessary to confer proper jurisdiction upon the district court for the entry of an order approving the voluntary support agreement so as to make it "enforceable and subject to modification in the same manner as is provided by law for [support] orders of the court...." G.S. § 110-132(a).
G.S. § 110-132(a), in pertinent part, provides the following:
the written acknowledgment of paternity executed by the putative father of the dependent child when accompanied by a written affirmation of paternity executed and sworn to by the mother of the dependent child and filed with and approved by a judge of the district court... shall have the same force and effect as a judgment of that court; and a written agreement to support said child by periodic payments ... when acknowledged before a certifying officer or notary public ... filed with, and approved by a judge of the district court, at any time, shall have the same force and effect, retroactively or prospectively, in accordance with the terms of said agreement, as an order of support entered by that court....
This statute, in effect, makes a father's voluntary written acknowledgment of paternity, and agreement to support his illegitimate child, a binding and fully enforceable substitute for a judicial determination of paternity and order of support. Three requirements, however, must be met to achieve this result: (1) the father must, of course, acknowledge his paternity of the child in writing; (2) the mother must also affirm in writing that he is, in fact, the natural father of the child; and (3) these documents must be filed with and approved by a district court. With respect to the jurisdictional issue at bar, the pivotal term to be construed within the stated requirements of G.S. § 110-132(a) is the word "accompanied."
In plain language, G.S. § 110-132(a) permits the court to approve a father's acknowledgment of paternity when it is "accompanied" by the mother's corresponding statement of his paternity. The accepted meaning of the word "accompany" is "to go along with" or "to exist or occur in conjunction or association with." Webster's Third New International Dictionary, at 12 (1968). We must conclude, on this record, that the mother's affirmation of paternity did not accompany the father's acknowledgment in the manner contemplated by the statute. When Judge LaBarre entered the initial order approving defendant's acknowledgment of paternity and his agreement to support the child on 2 October 1979, the mother had not executed (or filed) her own written affirmation of defendant's paternity. This document was not executed until 9 October 1979, seven days after the court entered its order of approval and five days after defendant moved to set aside the agreement and court order.[2] In these circumstances, we simply cannot say that the *869 mother's affirmation of paternity "accompanied" that of the father when the judge entered the order approving defendant's acknowledgment of paternity and the support agreement. Moreover, the contents of the acknowledgment of paternity form itself clearly indicate that the parties understood that the execution and filing of the mother's affirmation of paternity was a prerequisite to the court's exercise of jurisdiction to approve the documents submitted by defendant in this case. The form signed by defendant included the following statement:
I understand that this written Acknowledgment of Paternity shall have the same force and effect as a judgment of the District Court as provided in NCGS Chapter 110 when accompanied by the sworn, written Affirmation of Paternity by the natural mother named above and filed with the Clerk of Superior Court and approved by the District Judge. (emphasis added).
In sum, we are compelled to hold that the court had no jurisdiction to accept or enforce defendant's acknowledgment of paternity under G.S. § 110-132 on 2 October 1979 because it was not simultaneously supported by the mother's written affirmation of paternity.[3]
The Department and the mother, nonetheless, argue that the court, even if it did not have jurisdiction to approve defendant's acknowledgment of paternity under G.S. § 110-132(a), still had jurisdiction to enter a judgment accepting the voluntary support agreement in accordance with G.S. § 110-133. We disagree.
G.S. § 110-133 provides a mechanism for the judicial enforcement and modification of a written agreement "executed by the responsible parent" to support his or her dependent child. In the instant case, "responsible parent" is the critical statutory phrase. We have already stated that a responsible parent is one "who has the legal duty to support" a dependent child, G.S. § 110-129(3), and that defendant's legal duty to support Genelle Renee Mitchell had to be established under the provisions of G.S. § 110-132(a). Here, a legal duty to support the child on defendant's part could not exist until his acknowledgment of paternity was accompanied by the mother's affirmation of the same and approved by the court. Thus, defendant was not a "responsible parent," and the court had no authority to enter an order approving the support agreement under G.S. § 110-133.
Defendant's motion to dismiss the order of 2 October 1979 for lack of jurisdiction should have been granted, and the order appealed from is reversed.
Reversed and remanded.
WELLS and BECTON, JJ., concur.
NOTES
[1]  Although Judge LaBarre found as a fact that defendant "provided limited support, gifts and remembrances at birthdays and holidays" until October 1979 in his order of 28 April 1980, he did not conclude, as a matter of law, that defendant had acknowledged his paternity of the child by making payments for her support. Thus, it seems that defendant could not have been prosecuted for wilful nonsupport of an illegitimate child because (1) three years had elapsed since the child's birth (3 February 1972); (2) his paternity had not been judicially determined within that period; and (3) he had not acknowledged his paternity by making support payments during the first three years of the child's life. G.S. § 49-4(1)-(3). Defendant was also not subject to a civil suit to establish his paternity (and obligation to support the child) because no action was commenced within three years of the child's birth or within three years of the date of the last payment of child support. G.S. § 49-14(c)(1)-(2).
[2]  We would also observe that the record does not show that the mother's affirmation, once executed, was ever presented to the district court for the express purpose of fulfilling the requirements of G.S. § 110-132(a) with respect to the order entered on 2 October 1979. Rather, her affirmation was only filed as an exhibit in the hearing on defendant's motion to set aside the court order of approval on 17 March 1980.
[3]  It occurs to us that any other conclusion would create a curious result indeed. It is certainly true that the statutory requirement for the filing of the mother's written affirmation of paternity is intended to assure that men only become legally obligated to fulfill those "responsibilities" which they did, in fact, create and accept. It is equally true, however, that this requirements protects the mother and child from unfounded, and uninvited, intrusions into the independence and privacy of their own lives. Otherwise, a man of generous heart might simply declare his paternity of a child unilaterally and easily file for a court order approving his acknowledgment and agreement to support a child that is not his.
