                               COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA


Present: Judges Powell, Alston and Senior Judge Annunziata
Argued at Alexandria, Virginia


SHARON RUTH TUCKER
                                                              MEMORANDUM OPINION * BY
v.     Record Nos. 2496-09-4 and 2497-09-4                  JUDGE ROSEMARIE ANNUNZIATA
                                                                  FEBRUARY 22, 2011
JOHN HARRISON CLARKE


                      FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF FAIRFAX COUNTY
                                 Jane Marum Roush, Judge

                 Sharon Ruth Tucker, pro se.

                 David R. Clarke (Blankingship & Keith, on brief), for appellee.


       Sharon Ruth Tucker (mother) appeals a custody order in which the trial court awarded John

Harrison Clarke (father) physical custody of the parties’ child and final decision-making authority

over education and day care issues for that child. Mother argues that the trial court erred by

(1) depriving mother of her right to due process under the Virginia and United States Constitutions

by denying her request for an evidentiary hearing before her decision-making authority over

education and day care issues was terminated; (2) concluding that granting father ultimate

decision-making authority over education and day care issues did not impact mother’s legal custody

rights; (3) depriving mother of her right to receive notice under the Due Process Clauses of the

Virginia and United States Constitutions by limiting mother’s legal custody rights when both

father’s custody petition and mother’s amended cross-petition requested a change in physical

custody only; (4) applying improper legal procedure in denying mother’s motion to disqualify

father’s counsel by weighing factors without having first determined whether father’s counsel

       *
           Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication.
violated any ethics rules; (5) failing to find, as a matter of law, that the loans made by father’s

counsel to his client for living expenses constitute a violation of Rule 1.8(e) of the ethics rules,

given that the existence of these loans was factually not in dispute; (6) concluding that the various

factors (e.g. prejudice to father, hardship to mother, and timeliness of the filing) weighed against

granting mother’s motion to disqualify father’s counsel; (7) failing to sign mother’s written

statement of facts for the September 4, 2009 hearing on mother’s motion to disqualify father’s

counsel 1 ; (8) denying mother’s request for an order that would have enabled her to listen to certain

portions of the audiotape for the September 24, 2009 hearing and have it inspected by an

independent audio forensic examiner, or otherwise verify the transcript for the hearing under

conditions deemed reasonable by the court; and (9) not conditioning the award of primary physical

custody to father by ordering him to move out of an apartment building with a staircase that violates

building safety codes and poses a serious threat to the child’s health and welfare, or alternatively,

not addressing the issue in its ruling or providing any explanation as to why it placed the child in a

home that poses a safety risk. We find no error, and affirm the decision of the trial court.

                                           BACKGROUND

         On appeal, we view the evidence in the light most favorable to the party prevailing

below. D’Ambrosio v. D’Ambrosio, 45 Va. App. 323, 335, 610 S.E.2d 876, 882 (2005)

(citations omitted).

         The parties divorced on January 11, 2008. The final decree of divorce incorporated the

parties’ agreement, which provided for joint legal and physical custody of the parties’ minor

child.


         1
         On June 17, 2010, this Court remanded the case to the trial court to take appropriate
action as required by Rule 5A:8(c)(2) and (d). On August 18, 2010, the trial court prepared and
signed a statement of facts regarding the September 4, 2009 hearing. Mother subsequently filed
objections to the trial court’s statement of facts. The trial court has complied with Rule 5A:8;
therefore, we need not address mother’s objections.
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       On April 24, 2009, mother filed a motion to increase child support. Subsequently, father

filed a petition for modification of custody, and mother filed a cross-petition. Both parties

sought primary physical custody of the child.

       In conjunction with the upcoming hearing on the motions, mother filed a motion to

disqualify father’s counsel. Both it and her subsequent motion for reconsideration were denied.

       After a two-day ore tenus hearing on September 23 and 24, 2009, the trial court denied

mother’s motion to increase child support and granted father’s request for primary physical

custody. The court’s order reflecting its decision was scheduled for hearing and entry on

October 14, 2009. On the day prior to the scheduled hearing, mother filed a motion requesting

“clarification regarding her decision-making authority as joint legal custodian” and requested an

evidentiary hearing before the trial court issued any modified ruling “that would in any way limit

or terminate the Mother’s existing rights as a joint legal custodian.” Before entering its custody

order on October 14, 2009, the trial court denied mother’s motion for an evidentiary hearing and

granted father “ultimate decision making authority in matters of education and daycare, but only

after consultation with Defendant/Mother.” The trial court entered its custody order on October

14, 2009, and these appeals followed.

                                           ANALYSIS

                                                 I.

Did The Trial Court Violate Mother’s Due Process Rights Under the Virginia and United States
Constitutions By Denying Her Request for an Evidentiary Hearing Before Her Decision-Making
               Authority over Education and Day Care Issues was Terminated?

       Mother argues that her due process rights were violated when the trial court denied her

motion for an evidentiary hearing before modifying its previous ruling and awarding father

“ultimate decision making authority in matters of education and daycare, but only after

consultation with [mother].” We disagree.

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                 We recognize that questions of child custody, whether in a divorce
                 proceeding or a civil action by the Commonwealth, involve a
                 fundamental liberty interest of the parent. Accordingly, the parent
                 must be accorded the benefits of due process. Rader v.
                 Montgomery Co. Dep’t of Social Servs., 5 Va. App. 523, 528, 365
                 S.E.2d 234, 237 (1988). Nonetheless, “in any child custody
                 decision, the lodestar for the court is the best interest of the child,”
                 Smith v. Pond, 5 Va. App. 161, 163, 360 S.E.2d 885, 886 (1987),
                 and the due process rights of the parents must be tempered by this
                 guiding principle.

Haase v. Haase, 20 Va. App. 671, 681, 460 S.E.2d 585, 589-90 (1995).

       During the two-day trial on the issue of child custody, the trial court heard evidence

relating to the decisions each parent made regarding education and childcare.

       The trial court heard evidence that, when the child was in mother’s custody, he attended

numerous preschools. Evidence was presented showing that, since the child’s birth, 2 he had

been cared for by at least three babysitters and had attended at least three different day care

facilities. Evidence showing that a nanny cared for the child for extended periods of time was

also presented. Although the day care’s educational program began at 9:00 a.m., mother,

typically, brought the child to the program after 9:00 a.m., and although the child could have

remained at school for the entire day, the mother instructed the nanny to pick up the child around

12:00 p.m. 3 The child was then cared for by the nanny, often until 8:30 p.m. or later, when

mother arrived to pick him up Mother adhered to this schedule although she had the option of

beginning her workday at an earlier time and leaving at an earlier time. 4 Even when mother was

unemployed and searching for work, she continued to bring the child to the day care program


       2
           The child was three and one half years old at the time of the hearing.
       3
           Initially, the child attended the half-day program at the day care but, at the time of the
trial, the nanny would pick up the child between 3:30 p.m. and 5:00 p.m.
       4
        When mother was working at Marwood Group, for example, she could have worked
from 9:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., but instead, she arrived between 10:30 a.m. and 12:00 p.m. and
worked until 8:00 p.m.
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after 9:00 a.m., asking the nanny to pick him up at 12:00 noon and keep him until 7:30 p.m. At

times when mother worked late, the nanny kept the child overnight.

       Father testified that he was concerned that the child did not have a regular schedule or

regular sleeping habits because of mother’s choices. He also presented evidence of his plans to

enroll the child in Bright Horizons day care if he were awarded custody and submitted a

four-page exhibit regarding Bright Horizons and its offerings. Mother was given an opportunity

to cross-examine father but did not ask him about his plans to enroll the child in Bright Horizons

or his plans for childcare if he were awarded custody.

       After taking two days of evidence, the trial court ruled from the bench that primary

physical custody was to be awarded to father. In reaching its decision, the trial court found that

father was better able to decide issues relating to the child and, specifically, found that father

would be “most attuned to the child’s needs as he does enter more formal education besides the

type of education typically provided in preschool.” In addition, the trial court found that father

could more accurately assess the child’s emotional, intellectual, and physical needs.

       Before the court’s decision could be memorialized in a court order, mother filed a

fourteen-page motion, with attachments, in which she noted a disagreement had arisen between

the parties “as to whether or not the Father has the right to unilaterally make decisions regarding

[the child’s] preschool and after-hours child care providers without the Mother’s consent.” In

her motion, mother requested the trial court to clarify her decision-making authority at the

non-evidentiary hearing scheduled for October 14, 2009. Alternatively, mother requested that a

separate hearing be conducted to specifically address this issue.

       In her motion, mother alleged that father, as the child’s primary custodian, was asserting

the right to “unilaterally make all decisions regarding [the child’s] preschool and after-hours

child care providers without first obtaining the Mother’s consent.” In support of her prayer for

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relief, mother asserted that, prior to the custody hearing, she had made all the decisions regarding

the child’s preschool and almost all the decisions regarding the child’s after-hours childcare

providers. Mother also contended that father had hired a nanny who mother believed would not

exercise good judgment about the child’s safety. Mother conceded in her motion that the father

had, in fact, agreed not to use the nanny in question, but contended his judgment regarding

appropriate nannies had proved to be flawed since the earlier hearing. Mother also noted that

because father’s work hours changed after the two-day hearing, an after-hours nanny would be

needed and that further evidence should be taken to assure mother equal participation in the

decision. Finally, mother’s motion raised the parties’ disagreement about the preschool in which

the child should be enrolled, although father’s intent to choose the preschool he selected was

addressed at the prior custody hearing. Mother asked that the trial court permit her to “retain her

rights as [the child’s] joint legal custodian, so that she will have a deciding vote with regard to

who is entrusted to care for [the child].”

       We find no error in the trial court’s determination that no additional evidence was needed

regarding which parent was better able to decide the education and childcare issues in the event

the parties could not agree. Evidence addressing which parent had greater ability to make such

decisions was presented in the two-day hearing on custody, and mother was given a full

opportunity to counter father’s case and to present evidence in support of her parenting abilities.

We, thus, conclude that mother was accorded her due process rights under both the Virginia and

United States Due Process Clause. ‘“Due process requires only that . . . the opportunity for a

hearing must be provided, not that the party must actually have a hearing on the merits.’”

D’Ambrosio, 45 Va. App. at 339, 610 S.E.2d at 884 (quoting Blinder & Co. v. State Corp.

Comm’n, 227 Va. 24, 28, 313 S.E.2d 652, 654 (1984) (internal quotations omitted)). In this




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case, mother had the opportunity to be heard and present evidence on the issues she raised in her

post-hearing motion.

                                                 II.

   Did the Trial Court Erroneously Conclude That Mother’s Legal Custody Rights Were Not
 Impacted by Its Award of Ultimate Decision-Making Authority Over Education and Day Care
                                     Issues To Father?

       Mother contends the trial court erred in concluding that granting father ultimate

decision-making authority over the child’s education and day care issues did not impact mother’s

legal custody rights. Although the court’s decision impacted the mother’s joint custody rights,

we find no error.

               “Joint custody” means (i) joint legal custody where both parents
               retain joint responsibility for the care and control of the child and
               joint authority to make decisions concerning the child even though
               the child’s primary residence may be with only one parent, (ii)
               joint physical custody where both parents share physical and
               custodial care of the child, or (iii) any combination of joint legal
               and joint physical custody which the court deems to be in the best
               interest of the child.

Code § 20-124.1. As the statute and our cases make clear, the scope of this shared or coincident

responsibility for the care of a child is limited by a superceding principle of law that focuses not

on parental rights, but on the best interests of the child. See Smith v. Pond, 5 Va. App. 161, 163,

360 S.E.2d 885, 886 (1987) (“In any child custody decision, the lodestar for the court is the best

interest of the child.” (citing Venable v. Venable, 2 Va. App. 178, 186, 342 S.E.2d 646, 651

(1986))). Thus, where the parents’ exercise of joint responsibility for and authority to make

decisions for the child is not consistent with the child’s best interest, the court may modify their

joint legal status by fashioning and applying “any combination of joint legal and joint physical

custody which the court deems to be in the best interest of the child.” Code § 20-124.1.

       This is precisely what the trial court did here. Commenting on the impasse in

decision-making that had occurred in the short period of time following its custody decision from
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the bench, the trial court explained, “if the parents can’t come to an agreement, we can’t have the

child on stalemate.”

        We find no abuse of discretion in the court’s resolution of the problem presented by the

parties’ inability to resolve their differences. “Custody and visitation disputes between two fit

parents involve one parent’s fundamental right pitted against the other parent’s fundamental

right. The discretion afforded trial courts under the best-interests test, Code § 20-124.3, reflects

a finely balanced judicial response to this parental deadlock.” Griffin v. Griffin, 41 Va. App. 77,

83, 581 S.E.2d 899, 902 (2003).

        The trial court did not err in granting father decision-making authority regarding the

child’s education and day care arrangements. See, e.g., D’Ambrosio, 45 Va. App. at 339, 610

S.E.2d at 884.

                                                  III.

   Did the Trial Court Violate Mother’s Right to Notice Under the due process clause of the
  Virginia and United States Constitutions When Both Parties Requested a Change in Physical
                                        Custody Only?

        Mother argues the trial court erred by violating her right under the Due Process Clauses

of the Virginia and United States Constitutions to receive notice that her joint legal custody status

would be modified because both father’s custody petition and mother’s amended cross-petition

requested a change in physical custody only.

        The record does not support mother’s contention that her right to notice was violated.

Mother, herself, asked the court to address the nature of her joint legal custody status. Prior to the

October 14 hearing when the court’s custody order was to be entered, mother filed “Mother’s

Motion Requesting Clarification Regarding her Decision-Making Authority as Joint Legal

Custodian, and Request for an Evidentiary Hearing Before Any Modifications Are Made.” In the

motion, mother requested that the trial court resolve the parties’ differences regarding the child’s

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education and childcare and asked the trial court to clarify which parent was to make the decisions

with respect to those issues. Having raised the issues, mother cannot now be heard to complain.

See Parish v. Spaulding, 257 Va. 357, 362, 513 S.E.2d 391, 393 (1999).

        Moreover, although neither party requested a change in their joint legal custody status,

both parties requested the trial court to provide “further relief as the Court deems appropriate and

equitable and in the best interests of [the child],” father in his initial petition for modification of

custody and mother in her amended cross-petition to modify custody. Such a general prayer for

relief will support a remedy that comports with the best interest of the child when the

“‘allegations of material facts in the pleadings . . . sustain such relief.’” D’Ambrosio, 45 App. at

337, 610 S.E.2d at 883 (quoting Jenkins v. Bay House Assocs., L.P., 266 Va. 39, 45, 581 S.E.2d

510, 513 (2003)).

        The parties’ pleadings placed the issues of preschool and childcare in controversy and

sustain the relief granted. Father’s petition for modification of custody asserted mother’s “failure

to provide any semblance of a routine” for the child; her “failure to establish boundaries for [the

child], regularly failing to discipline and impress upon [the child] what is acceptable and

unacceptable behavior;” her “failure to abide by a schedule that allow[ed] [the child] adequate

sleep . . . [and] to provide [the child] with regular and nutritious meals;” her “failure to abide by

doctor’s orders concerning [the child’s] health;” and her failure “to actively support [the child’s]

contact and relationship with Father.” Father’s allegations further raised “Mother’s inappropriate

smothering of [the child], and her seemingly compulsive need to constantly declare her love to

[the child].” Father also claimed that mother “routinely dismisses” his expressed concerns about

the child’s welfare and that he had “exhausted all efforts and attempts to persuade Mother to

educate herself about the fundamental needs of a toddler and what constitutes good parenting.”




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       In her amended cross-petition to modify custody, mother alleged that she had been the

primary physical custodian of the child; that father “imposes a strict, authoritarian style of

discipline upon [the child] that is wholly inappropriate and entirely counterproductive to use with

a child as young as 3-years old;” that granting father physical custody would be “extremely

disruptive and detrimental” to the child; that father “acknowledges [the child’s] strong

attachment” to her; and that father “lacks the emotional capacity to provide [the child] with the

love and nurturing that he needs at such a young age.” Mother also set forth her disagreement

with father’s intention “to take [the child] out of the school he had been attending for over a year

and a half . . . and, likewise, remove [the child] from the care of the . . . nanny who has been

taking care of [the child] since he was 8-months old.” Mother further alleged that father’s intent

to do so was not in the child’s best interest, but a reflection of father’s “personal financial

interests.” In mother’s post-hearing motion, she reprised her concerns about what education and

childcare arrangements were best for the child, and the parties’ disagreement on those issues,

albeit with further specific allegations regarding her disagreement with the decisions that father

had made since the custody hearing and his unwillingness to adopt her position on those issues.

        Accordingly, we find no error in the relief the trial court granted because the pleadings

placed in controversy the parties’ decision-making authority over the child’s education and

childcare as well as the parenting abilities of each parent; they, thus, support the relief granted.

“[T]he trial court did not err in fashioning ‘an appropriate remedy that comports with the best

interest of the children, even [though it was not] specifically requested by the [parties].’” Id. at

338, 610 S.E.2d at 883 (quoting Cloutier v. Queen, 35 Va. App. 413, 424, 545 S.E.2d 574, 579

(2001)).




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                                                 IV.

    Did the Trial Court Apply Improper Legal Procedures in Addressing Mother’s Motion to
                                    Disqualify Counsel?

       Mother argues that the trial court applied improper legal procedures in denying her

motion to disqualify father’s counsel, contending that it should have first determined that father’s

counsel had, in fact, violated the relevant ethical rules, before examining the factors relevant to

its consideration.

       Father was represented by his brother at trial. During the pendency of the litigation,

father’s brother loaned father money and, on that basis, mother filed a motion to disqualify him. 5

She alleged that he violated Rule 1.8(e) of the Virginia Rules of Professional Conduct, which

provides that “A lawyer shall not provide financial assistance to a client in connection with

pending or contemplated litigation . . . .”

       On the same grounds, mother also alleged that father’s counsel violated Rule 2.1 of the

Virginia Rules of Professional Conduct, which provides that “In representing a client, a lawyer

shall exercise independent professional judgment and render candid advice.” 6

       In its letter opinion issued on September 23, 2009, the trial court denied mother’s motion

to disqualify father’s counsel and stated, “Even assuming such a rule was violated,

disqualification is an inappropriate remedy in this case.”




       5
          The first day of the trial for the child support and custody motions was scheduled for
September 23, 2009, less than one month from the time that mother filed her motion to disqualify
father’s counsel.
       6
          Father filed a response to mother’s allegations and denied any ethical violations.
Father’s counsel stated that the loans were extended to father due to their relationship as brothers
and not because of their attorney-client relationship. According to father, the loans were not
connected to the litigation. In addition, father questioned how mother would know whether
father’s counsel was providing independent and candid advice.

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          Mother cites no authority for the proposition that the trial court is required to make the

underlying factual finding before applying what is, essentially, a “harmless error” analysis. See

Rule 5A:20(e). We find that mother’s failure to comply with Rule 5A:20(e) is significant, so we

will not consider this issue. See Parks v. Parks, 52 Va. App. 663, 664, 666 S.E.2d 547, 548

(2008).

                                                   V.

  Did the Trial Court Err in Not Finding that the Loans Made by Father’s Counsel to his Client
                                      violated Rule 1.8(e)?

          Having concluded the trial court need not have decided that father’s counsel violated the

Rules of Professional Conduct in order to determine whether to grant mother’s motion, we

decline to address this question.

                                                   VI.

   Did the Trial Court Erroneously Conclude that Various Factors Weighed Against Granting
                       Mother’s Motion to Disqualify Father’s Counsel?

          In denying mother’s motion to disqualify father’s counsel, the trial court assumed without

deciding that the alleged violations had been committed and, after considering the factors

discussed in In re Chantilly Constr. Corp., 39 B.R. 466, 468-69 (Bankr. E.D. Va. 1984),

concluded they weighed against mother’s motion to disqualify father’s counsel.

                 A motion for the disqualification of counsel is one that requires
                 close inspection. A consideration involving the disqualification of
                 counsel requires that the court balance several important factors:
                 the right of a party to retain counsel of his choice and the
                 substantial hardship which might result from disqualification as
                 against the public perception of and the public trust in the judicial
                 system. See Powell v. Alabama, 287 U.S. 45, 53 (1932); United
                 States v. Smith, 653 F.2d 126, 128 (4th Cir. 1981); In re Asbestos
                 Cases, 514 F. Supp. 914, 925 (E.D. Va. 1981) (dicta). Further
                 complicating a court’s task is the possibility of a disqualification
                 motion being misused for the obvious tactical advantages.
                 Williamsburg Wax Museum, Inc. v. Historic Figures, Inc., 501 F.
                 Supp. 326, 331 (D.D.C. 1980); Ross v. Great Atlantic & Pacific
                 Tea Co., 447 F. Supp. 406, 409-10 (S.D.N.Y. 1978). As a result of
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               the above considerations, a high standard of proof is required of
               the party seeking disqualification. Government of India v. Cook
               Industries, Inc., 569 F.2d 737, 739-40 (2d Cir. 1978).

Id.

       In denying mother’s motion, the trial court found that mother had “fail[ed] to allege how

she would be harmed if her motion is denied” and that “[a]ny hardship to [mother] by [father’s

counsel’s] continued involvement in this case is attenuated at best.” The trial court, further,

concluded that the hardship to father would “likely be severe” because father had been

represented by his brother since the parties’ divorce in 2008. It also noted that father’s attorney

was familiar with the issues and had “develop[ed] a litigation strategy.” Finally, the trial court

noted that mother had filed her motion less than one month before trial, “on the eve of the

custody and support hearing.”

       The trial court did not err in concluding the factors weighed against granting mother’s

motion to disqualify father’s counsel.

                                                VII.

Did the Trial Court Err in Denying Mother’s Request To Allow Her to Listen to Certain Portions
 of the Audiotape for the September 24, 2009 Hearing and Have it Inspected by an Independent
Audio Forensic Examiner, or Otherwise Verify the Transcript for the Hearing under Conditions
                                     Deemed Reasonable?

       Mother argues that the trial court erred in denying her request to review the audiotape of

the September 24, 2009 hearing to verify the accuracy of the transcript.

       At the hearing on October 14, 2009 and in a motion filed November 23, 2009, mother

noted her objections to the transcript and requested that she be allowed to review the audiotape,

claiming the court reporter did not accurately transcribe the entire proceedings.

       The trial court denied her motion and issued an order on December 4, 2009 overruling

mother’s objections to the transcripts, stating that “Pursuant to Rule 5:11, the Court has reviewed

the transcripts of the trial of September 23-24, 2009 and the hearing of October 14, 2009 and
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finds them to be accurate. The Court has signed the transcripts in accordance with Rule

5:11(d).”

        Rule 5A:8(d) of this Court, the equivalent of Rule 5:11(d) of the Supreme Court of

Virginia, provides that “The judge’s signature on a transcript or written statement, without more,

shall constitute certification that the procedural requirements of this Rule have been satisfied.”

        Although mother disagreed with the trial court’s ruling that the transcripts were accurate,

mother provides no legal authority to support her argument that the trial court abused its

discretion in failing to permit her to listen to the audiotape of the hearing in light of the trial

court’s affirmation that it had reviewed the transcript for error. See Rule 5A:20(e). Mother had

the burden of showing that reversible error was committed. See Lutes v. Alexander, 14 Va. App.

1075, 1077, 421 S.E.2d 857, 859 (1992). Unsupported assertions of error “do not merit appellate

consideration.” Buchanan v. Buchanan, 14 Va. App. 53, 56, 415 S.E.2d 237, 239 (1992).

        Because we find that mother’s failure to comply with Rule 5A:20(e) is significant, we

will not consider this issue. See Fadness v. Fadness, 52 Va. App. 833, 851, 667 S.E.2d 857, 866

(2008) (“If the parties believed that the circuit court erred, it was their duty to present that error

to us with legal authority to support their contention.”).

                                                 VIII.

Did the Trial Court Err by Failing to Condition the Award of Primary Physical Custody to Father
by Ordering Him to Move Out of an Apartment Building with a Staircase that Violates Building
Safety Codes and Poses a Serious Threat to the Child’s Health and Welfare, or Alternatively, Not
Addressing the Issue in its Ruling or Providing Any Explanation as to Why It Placed the Child in
                                a Home that Poses a Safety Risk?

        Mother argues that the trial court abused its discretion in not ensuring the safety of the

child when it failed to consider the child’s exposure to an unsafe staircase in father’s apartment




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building. 7 Mother asserts that the staircase violates building codes and that its unsafe condition

led to the child suffering severe injuries when he was thirteen months old. Father countered that

the child was not aware of its location in the building and had not returned to the staircase.

       “In matters of custody, visitation, and related child care issues, the court’s paramount

concern is always the best interests of the child.” Farley v. Farley, 9 Va. App. 326, 327-28, 387

S.E.2d 794, 795 (1990). “As long as evidence in the record supports the trial court’s ruling and

the trial court has not abused its discretion, its ruling must be affirmed on appeal.” Brown v.

Brown, 30 Va. App. 532, 538, 518 S.E.2d 336, 338 (1999).

       Contrary to mother’s assertion, the record shows the trial court considered the condition

of the staircase, stating expressly that it had, and it further considered and weighed the father’s

testimony that the child no longer used the staircase and was unaware of its location. Based on

the evidence before the trial court, it could properly determine that there was no basis for

ordering father to move from his apartment building in order to grant him primary physical

custody. Accordingly, we conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding

physical custody to father without imposing the condition requested by mother.

                                                 IX.

                  Should this Court Award Attorney’s Fees and Costs to Father?

       Father asks this Court to award him attorney’s fees and costs incurred on appeal. See

O’Loughlin v. O’Loughlin, 23 Va. App. 690, 695, 479 S.E.2d 98, 100 (1996). On consideration

of the record before us, we grant father’s request for attorney’s fees and costs, and we remand for



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           In her question presented, mother contends the trial court erred by not conditioning its
award of physical custody to father so long as he moves out of his apartment building and that
the trial court erred by not providing an explanation as to why it placed the child in father’s
home. Mother did not preserve these issues for appeal; therefore, we will not consider them.
See Rule 5A:18; Ohree v. Commonwealth, 26 Va. App. 299, 308, 494 S.E.2d 484, 488 (1998)
(We “will not consider an argument on appeal which was not presented to the trial court.”).
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the trial court to set a reasonable award of attorney’s fees and costs incurred by father in these

appeals.

                                          CONCLUSION

       For the foregoing reasons, the trial court’s ruling is affirmed. We remand this case to the

trial court for determination and award of the appropriate appellate attorney’s fees and costs.

                                                                            Affirmed and remanded.




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