Filed 9/18/14 In re Trinity M.
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              IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA

                                     SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT

                                                   DIVISION SIX


In re TRINITY M. et al., Persons Coming                                       2d Juv. No. B254697
Under the Juvenile Court Law.                                               (Super. Ct. No. JV50216)
                                                                            (San Luis Obispo County)
SAN LUIS OBISPO COUNTY
DEPARTMENT OF SOCIAL SERVICES,
     Plaintiff and Respondent,
v.
ELIZABETH D.,
     Defendant and Appellant.


                   Elizabeth D. (mother) appeals from a February 14, 2014 order terminating
parental rights and freeing her children, Trinity M. and Waylon M. Jr., for adoption.
(Welf. & Inst. Code, § 366.26.)1 Mother contends that the beneficial parent-child
relationship exception precludes the children's adoption. (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).)
We affirm.
                                                Procedural History
                   On August 15, 2011, San Luis Obispo County Department of Social
Services (DSS) filed a dependency petition alleging that mother was abusing drugs and
neglecting Trinity (age 8) and Waylon Jr. (age 2). (§ 300, subd. (b).) When the social
worker visited the family, mother was under the influence of drugs, the electricity was

1   All statutory references are to the Welfare and Institutions Code.
turned off, and the children were unkempt and wearing dirty clothes. DSS placed the
children in protective custody based on reports that mother and the children's father
(Waylon M. Sr.) were using methamphetamine. The parents had a long history of child
neglect, physical and emotional abuse, and not providing for Waylon Jr.'s (age two)
medical needs.
              The trial court sustained the petition on December 14, 2011, and ordered
reunification services. Two year old Waylon Jr. was returned to appellant's care. Trinity
was placed in foster care.
                                     Section 388 Petition
              In April 2012, DSS filed a section 388 petition to reunite the family after
the parents tested clean for drugs. On April 11, 2012, the trial court returned Trinity to
mother's care and continued family maintenance services.
                                     Section 387 Petition
              On December 19, 2012, the trial court granted a section 387 petition to
detain the children after the parents suffered a drug relapse and lost their housing. Before
the detention, Trinity missed two weeks of school and reported intense arguing at home.
Trinity's stepbrother, David Y., was physically abused by Waylon Sr. Trinity and David
told the social worker that Waylon Sr. was using drugs and had a briefcase containing
needles, straws, and drug paraphernalia.
              After the children were placed with their maternal aunt and uncle, father
(Waylon Sr.) assaulted mother, was convicted of battery, and was involved in a physical
altercation with mother's boyfriend. DSS reported that mother was homeless, was
pregnant and unemployed, and had an on-ongoing relationship with Scott B., who has a
significant criminal history for substance abuse related offenses.
              On September 25, 2013, the trial court terminated services and set the
matter for a section 366.26 hearing. At the section 366.26 hearing, the trial court found
that the children were adoptable and terminated parental rights.

                             Beneficial Parent-Child Relationship



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              Appellant argues that the trial court erred in terminating parental rights
because the children will benefit from continuing the parent-child relationship. (§ 366.26,
subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).) "If the court finds that a child may not be returned to his or her parent
and is likely to be adopted, it must select adoption as the permanent plan unless it finds
that termination of parental rights would be detrimental to the child under one of [several]
specified exceptions. [Citations.]" ( In re Derek W. (1999) 73 Cal.App.4th 823, 826.)
The parent-child relationship exception precludes adoption where (1) the parent has
maintained regular visitation and contact with the child, and (2) the child would benefit
from continuing the relationship. (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).) In deciding whether the
parent-child beneficial relationship applies, "the court balances the strength and quality of
the natural parent/child relationship in a tenuous placement against the security and the
sense of belonging a new family would confer." (In re Autumn H. (1994) 27 Cal.App.4th
567, 575.)
              Historically, our courts have applied the substantial evidence standard of
review when the trial court finds that the beneficial parent-child relationship does not
apply. (Id., at p. 576.) In In re Bailey J. (2010) 189 Cal.App.4th 1308, the Court of
Appeal applied the substantial evidence standard to the trial court's determination
whether a beneficial relationship exists, and the abuse of discretion standard to the court's
determination whether the relationship is so important that it compels a plan other than
adoption. (Id., at pp. 1314-1315; see Cont.Ed.Bar ( thed. 2013) Cal. Juvenile
Dependency Practice, § 8.38A, pp. 663-664;, In re K.P. (2012) 203 Cal.App.4th 614,
621-622; In re J.C (2014) 226 Cal.App.4th 503, 530-531.) Here, we affirm under either
standard.
              Appellant claims that beneficial relationship exception was satisfied
because she maintained consistent and regular visitation with the children. (§ 336.26,
subd. (c)(1)(B)(i).) Although mother met the visitation prong, the evidence shows that
the child-parent relationship is qualitatively insufficient and does not outweigh the
benefit of adoption. (§ 336.26, subd. (c)(1)(B)(i); see e.g., In re J.C., supra, 226


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Cal.App.4th at p. 532.) "Satisfying the second prong requires the parent to prove that
'severing the natural parent-child relationship would deprive the child of a substantial,
positive emotional attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed.
[Citations.] . . .' Evidence that a parent has maintained ' "frequent and loving contact" is
not sufficient to establish the existence of a beneficial parental relationship.' [Citation.]"
(In re Marcelo B. (2012) 209 Cal.App.4th 635, 643.) Only in the "extraordinary case"
can a parent establish the exception because the permanent plan hearing occurs after the
court has repeatedly found the parent unable to meet the child's needs. (In re Jasmine D.
(2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 1339, 1350.)
              Mother argues that the children spent the majority of their lives in her care
and are emotionally attached to her. (See e.g., In re Amber M. (2002) 103 Cal.App.4th
681, 689.) But during that time, the children were neglected. Mother failed to provide
medical care for Waylon Jr. who suffered from impetigo, eczema, cellulitis, and a staph
infection. When Waylon Jr. was detained and placed in protective custody, he had
bruises on his forehead and back, open sores, and large clusters of infection and
inflammation on his lower extremities and abdomen.
              After Waylon Jr. was placed with the maternal aunt, DSS reported that he
was prone to temper tantrums and wetting his pants. The tantrums diminished when
visitation was decreased. Appellant visited Waylon Jr. once a week but the visits did not
progress beyond supervised visits and were later reduced to one hour a month.
              Trinity was also neglected. School officials reported that Trinity was filthy
and unkempt, could not focus in class or complete her homework, and that the school had
to buy her shoes. Trinity complained that appellant's boyfriend was present at scheduled
visits and that appellant brought a dog to the visits. Visitation was changed to supervised
visits after appellant violated a mediation agreement that no other adults would be present
during visits. The social worker noted that appellant was more interested in maintaining
a relationship with her boyfriend than providing the children a safe home or spending
time alone with them.


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              Although Trinity wants to be near mother, there is no evidence that the
parent-child relationship is so significant that Trinity will be greatly harmed by its
termination. (In re Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 575.) During the period
mother had custody, the children were subjected to an environment of abuse, neglect,
domestic violence, and illegal drugs. Little has changed. Trinity has been in dependency
since August 2011, reunified with mother after seven months of foster care, and was
placed in protective custody a second time after her parents suffered a drug relapse and
engaged in domestic violence. Despite 24 months of services, appellant is homeless,
unemployed, associates with men who have a history of drug and alcohol use, and is still
addressing substance abuse, domestic violence, and mental health issues.
              Trinity has formed a strong relationship with her aunt, is thriving under her
care, and has greatly improved at school. Shilpa Patel, a Court Appointed Special
Advocate, reported that Trinity has less and less of a connection with her parents and
wants to remain in her aunt's home which she considers her permanent home. The social
worker made a similar assessment: "Trinity and Waylon [Jr.] have made incredible
progress since placement with their maternal Aunt and Uncle. They both want to live in
that home and are observably bonded to [the family.] They are happy and thriving in the
home as they can count on their day to day needs being met."
              The trial court reasonably concluded that mother's relationship with the
children does not outweigh the permanency and stability of an adoptive placement that
the children so badly need. (In re Angel B. (2002) 97 Cal. App.4th 454, 468.) "The
reality is that childhood is brief; it does "wait while a parent rehabilitates himself or
herself. The nurturing required must be given by someone, at the time the child needs it,
not when the parent is ready to give it." (In re Debra M. (1987) 189 Cal.App.3d 1032,
1038.) Mother makes no showing that the trial court erred in terminating parental rights
and freeing the children for adoption. (In re K.P. , supra, 203 Cal.App.4th at pp. 622-
623; In re Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 577.)
              The judgment (order terminating parental rights) is affirmed.


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             NOT TO BE PUBLISHED.



                                YEGAN, J.


We concur:


             GILBERT, P.J.


             PERREN, J.




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                                Linda D. Hurst, Judge

                      Superior Court County of San Luis Obispo

                         ______________________________


             Michelle L. Jarvis, under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for
Appellant.


             Rita L. Neal, County Counsel, County of San Luis Obispo, and Susan
Hoffman, Deputy County Counsel, for Respondent.




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