                       IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

                                      No. 19-0914
                               Filed September 25, 2019


IN THE INTEREST OF D.M., T.G., T.G., L.G., and T.G.,
Minor Children,

L.C., Mother,
       Appellant,

T.G., Father,
       Appellant.
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          Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Susan Cox, District

Associate Judge.



          A mother and father appeal the termination of their parental rights to five

minor children. AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.



          Christopher R. Kemp of Kemp & Sease, Des Moines, (until withdrawal) and

Deborah L. Johnson of Deborah L. Johnson Law Office PC, Altoona, for appellant

mother.

          Agnes G. Warutere of Warutere Law Firm, PLLC, Ankeny, for appellant

father.

          Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, and Anna T. Stoeffler (until withdrawal)

and Mary A. Triick, Assistant Attorneys General, for appellee State.

          Erin Mayfield of Youth Law Center, Des Moines, guardian ad litem for minor

children.
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Considered by Vaitheswaran, P.J., and Potterfield and Greer, JJ.
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GREER, Judge.

       A mother and father separately appeal the termination of their parental

rights to five minor children. On our review, we affirm.

       I. Background Facts and Proceedings.

       The father, T.G., and the mother, L.C., are the parents of five minor children

born in 2010, 2012, 2014, 2015, and 2017.1 Since 2015, when one of the children

was born with THC in his system, the family has been involved with the Iowa

Department of Human Services (DHS). Upon meeting the family, DHS noted

additional concerns, including the parents’ failure to enroll the oldest child in

school, the family’s unstable housing, warrants for the mother’s arrest, and the

father’s drug and domestic-violence criminal history.            Exposure to excessive

violence in the familial home triggered significant reactive and aggressive behavior

in the oldest four siblings. As a result, they required ongoing therapy throughout

the proceedings leading to termination.

       Because of these ongoing issues, on February 4, 2016, the juvenile court

removed the four oldest children from the home and placed them with the paternal

grandmother.      Following the removal, on March 8, all four children were

adjudicated children in need of assistance (CINA). In October, the grandmother

dropped the children off with the mother because she could no longer care for

them. Despite the earlier removal, the juvenile court allowed the children to stay

with the mother under DHS supervision.


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  At first, L.C. insisted her relationship with T.G. ended one year before the youngest child
was born. L.C. was adamant that her new paramour, and not T.G., was the biological
father of her youngest child. Paternity testing later established that T.G. is the child’s
biological father.
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       Multiple allegations of domestic abuse between the mother and father and

the mother and her new paramour required a second removal in June of 2017.

Despite claims of separate living arrangements, the parents conceived a fifth child,

born in December 2017. This child was removed from the parents at birth. The

court adjudicated her a CINA on January 12, 2018.             The court issued its

permanency ruling in December 2018 recommending the State proceed with

termination of parental rights of all the children.

       At the time of the termination hearing and for the twenty previous months,

custody of the four older children remained out of their parents’ care. The youngest

child was in foster care for the fourteen months since her birth.

       Citing the children’s best interests, on May 19, 2019, the juvenile court

found that the State had established grounds for termination and no exceptions

applied to prevent termination. The court terminated the mother’s and the father’s

parental rights to all five children. The parents appeal. We will discuss other facts

below, as relevant.

       II. Standard of Review.

       Our review of termination of parental rights proceedings is de novo. In re

L.T., 924 N.W.2d 521, 526 (Iowa 2019). We give weight to the juvenile court’s

factual findings, but they do not bind us. In re M.D., 921 N.W.2d 229, 232 (Iowa

2018). The paramount concern is the children’s best interests. Id.

       III. Analysis.

       To begin, we use a three-step analysis to review termination-of-parental-

rights cases under Iowa Code chapter 232 (2019). See In re P.L., 778 N.W.2d 33,

39–40 (Iowa 2010). If the State establishes a ground for termination under Iowa
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Code section 232.116(1), we then consider whether termination is in the children’s

best interests. Id. If the best-interests framework supports termination, we must

consider whether any statutory exceptions exist to preclude termination of parental

rights. See Iowa Code § 232.116(3); P.L., 778 N.W.2d at 39–40.

       The mother and father’s parental rights were terminated under Iowa Code

section 232.116(1)(f)2 as to the three oldest children, and under section

232.116(1)(h)3 as to the two youngest children. These parents separately appeal,

and we separately address the termination of their parental rights.

       A. Mother. On appeal, the mother argues: (1) the State failed to prove that

she could not assume custody of the children; (2) termination is not in the children’s




2 Termination is appropriate under section 232.116(1)(f) if the State can show all of the
following,
                (1) The child is four years of age or older.
                (2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of assistance
        pursuant to section 232.96.
                (3) The child has been removed from the physical custody of the
        child’s parents for at least twelve of the last eighteen months, or for the last
        twelve consecutive months and any trial period at home has been less than
        thirty days.
                (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that at the present time
        the child cannot be returned to the custody of the child’s parents as
        provided in section 232.102.
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  Termination is appropriate under section 232.116(1)(h) if the State can prove all of the
following,
                (1) The child is three years of age or younger
                (2) The child has been adjudicated a child in need of assistance
        pursuant to section 232.96.
                (3) The child has been removed from the physical custody of the
        child’s parents for at least six months of the last twelve months, or for the
        last six consecutive months and any trial period at home has been less
        than thirty days.
                (4) There is clear and convincing evidence that the child cannot be
        returned to the custody of the child’s parents as provided in section 232.102
        at the present time.
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best interests; and (3) the juvenile court should have granted her a six-month

extension to reunite with the children.

       1. Statutory grounds for termination. The mother only challenges the final

element of Iowa Code section 232.116(1)(f) and (h): whether she could resume

custody of the children. We conclude that the State has proved this element by

clear and convincing evidence. The mother has failed to address her housing

instability, inconsistently attended therapy, failed to follow through on substance-

abuse treatment, and only sporadically participated in domestic-violence services.

Despite the violence the father has perpetrated on the mother, the court found the

parents were still “in a toxic, dysfunctional relationship.” The court also noted that

the parents were deceitful about their living situation and relationship status. Even

at the time of the termination hearing, it was unclear whether they were living

together.

       As for parenting concerns, the mother lacked understanding of the negative

impact of domestic abuse on the children. Claiming that her parenting was not an

issue, she failed to appreciate that her children’s aggressive behaviors were

abnormal.    In that regard, follow-through with the children’s counselors was

missing. Given these ongoing issues, we conclude the State has proven that the

children could not be returned to the mother’s care.

       2. Best interests. The mother argues termination is not in the children’s

best interests. We disagree. After experiencing violence in the family home, all

four oldest children remain in therapy to address the impact of trauma and to

address their aggressive behaviors following visits with the mother. Because the

youngest child has never lived with her parents, she has no bond with them.
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Addressing the best interests, two of the children’s therapists recommended

ceasing visits with the mother because they harmed the child’s wellbeing. As an

example, a therapist reported that during a phone call between the mother and

another child, the mother “encouraged him to hit back if peers hit/hurt him.”

Eventually, DHS stopped visits between the mother and the children “due to her

unaddressed mental health and inability to control her emotions” after she had an

angry outburst at the DHS office before a visit. Despite all of this, the mother does

not understand or acknowledge her parenting deficiencies and her role in the

trauma the children have experienced. We conclude termination is in all the

children’s best interests.

       3. Six-month extension. Alternatively, the mother requests a six-month

extension to reunite with her children. “In order to continue placement for six

months, the statute requires the court to make a determination that the need for

removal will no longer exist at the end of the extension.” In re A.A.G., 708 N.W.2d

85, 92 (Iowa Ct. App. 2005).

       After considering all of the evidence and recommendation of specialists, the

juvenile court found no reason to give the mother another six months. We do not

either. History establishes that the mother cannot make the necessary changes in

the next six months.         Based on these facts, a six-month extension is not

appropriate.

       B. Father. The father challenges the statutory grounds for termination and

the State’s reasonable efforts to reunite him with the children, and he argues there

is an exception to termination for the oldest child because she is currently placed

with the paternal grandmother. We conclude all of his claims lack merit.
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       1. Grounds for termination.

       i. Youngest child. The father argues the court never removed the youngest

child from his physical custody and there were no grounds to remove the child after

his paternity was established. See Iowa Code § 232.116(1)(h)(3). There is no

evidence the father raised this issue at the juvenile court. See Meier v. Senecaut,

641 N.W.2d 532, 537 (Iowa 2002) (“It is a fundamental doctrine of appellate review

that issues must ordinarily be both raised and decided by the district court before

we will decide them on appeal.”). In any event, the father’s argument fails because

the child’s removal from the mother’s physical custody was for the requisite amount

of time. See In re W.D., No. 18-0151, 2018 WL 1433058, at *2 (Iowa Ct. App. Mar.

21, 2018) (“[T]he requisite removal time period . . . clock started running when the

child was removed from the mother. As we previously stated, ‘removal of the child

from the mother is sufficient to support termination of the father’s parental rights.’”

(quoting In re Z.G., No. 16-2187, 2017 WL 1086227, at *3 (Iowa Ct. App. Mar. 22,

2017))).

       Even if the father had raised this issue in the juvenile court, we have no

reason to believe the court would have placed the child in his custody. Although

he visited this child, he often lacked necessary supplies and visitation never moved

to an unsupervised status. More importantly, when the father filed a motion for

visits with the youngest child, he had not addressed the domestic-violence issues

that led to the older children’s removal. During his incarceration, the father failed

to participate in suggested services. After his release in January 2018, he did not

start therapy until April 30. Even then, his participation in the Iowa Domestic Abuse

Program did not start until August, and there is no indication in the record that he
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ever completed this program. Consequently, the effort required for reunification

was absent.

       ii. All children. The father also argues the State failed to prove the children

could not be returned to him at the time of the termination hearing. See Iowa Code

§ 232.116(1)(f)(4), (h)(4).     We disagree.      As the juvenile court noted in the

termination order, “The father cannot and/or will not understand his role in

exposing the children to violence and long lasting trauma[.]” He had not taken

accountability for his actions, and he was only beginning to understand trauma and

how it impacted them. The court noted the father had not adequately participated

in mental-health and substance-abuse treatment. We conclude the father could

not resume custody of the children at the time of termination.

       2. Reasonable efforts. The father argues DHS failed to make reasonable

efforts to return the children to him by (1) conspiring against him and (2) failing to

notify his mother of the June 2017 removal.             The DHS must “make every

reasonable effort” to return children to their home “as quickly as possible consistent

with” their best interests. Iowa Code § 232.102(9). But DHS need only provide

services that “are reasonable under the circumstances.” In re S.J., 620 N.W.2d

522, 525 (Iowa Ct. App. 2000).

       The juvenile court considered and rejected his first argument in a detailed

CINA ruling on July 12, 2018, denying the father’s motion for reasonable efforts.4




4
 Efforts included: family team meetings, substance-abuse evaluations, parenting classes,
domestic-violence services, FIP, employment assistance, protective daycare, child-care
reimbursement, free store referral, Caring Dad’s referral and classes, play therapy,
concurrent-planning staffing, bus passes, gas cards, supervised visitations, parent-partner
referral, and housing assistance.
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The father does not raise any new claims on appeal. We agree with the juvenile

court that DHS made reasonable efforts to reunite him with the children.

       As to the second argument, DHS has a duty to notify certain relatives of a

child’s removal from the parent. See In re N.V., 877 N.W.2d 146, 150–52 (Iowa

Ct. App. 2016). However, this right belongs to the relative and not the parent, and

the father lacks standing to argue his mother’s rights in this termination case. See

In re K.R., 737 N.W.2d 321, 323 (Iowa Ct. App. 2007) (holding one party did not

have standing to raise arguments on another party's behalf in an effort to obtain a

reversal of the termination order). But see In re R.B., 832 N.W.2d 375, 382 (Iowa

Ct. App. 2013) (finding father suffered no injustice where DHS failed to notify his

mother of the removal, after assuming, without deciding, his right to object on

behalf of his mother). In any event, the evidence supports the inability of the

grandmother to care for all the children after the June 2017 removal.5 Even after

the father went to stay with the grandmother in April 2018, she still did not reengage

with the children. Moreover, when the court allowed her motion to intervene and

granted her custody of the oldest child in December 2018, it declined to grant her

custody of the other children. There is no evidence she was willing or able to care

for the children in June 2017.

       3. Best interests. The father argues termination of his parental rights is not

in the children’s best interests. Although he blames others, the father has never

parented the children on his own and never progressed beyond supervised visits




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  The grandmother went nineteen months with no contact after relinquishing control of the
four grandchildren back to the mother and took medical leave for mental-health concerns
of her own.
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with any of the children. In fact, therapists for three of the children suggested

stopping visits with the father because of the children’s fear of their father and the

negative impact the visits had on the children.6 The father minimizes the abuse

he perpetrated on the mother as well as the trauma the abuse caused his children.

       As noted, the children are thriving in their current placements. Although one

of the children is not currently in a pre-adoptive placement, the court “will not refuse

to terminate the rights of parents who would otherwise be terminated because an

adoptive home has not been secured.” In re. M.L.T., No. 10–1633, 2011 WL

1584996, at *1 (Iowa Ct. App. Apr. 27, 2011). We agree with the juvenile court

that termination of the father’s parental rights is in the children’s best interests.

       4. Exception to termination. The father argues there is an applicable

exception to terminating his parental rights to the oldest child because she is in the

grandmother’s custody. See Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(a) (providing an exception

to termination when a relative has legal custody of the child). The court may apply

this permissive exception “based on the unique circumstances of each case and

the best interests of the child.” In re A.S., 906 N.W.2d 467, 475 (Iowa 2018)

(quoting In re M.W., 876 N.W.2d 212, 219 (Iowa 2016)). It is the father’s burden

to prove the exception applies. Id. at 476.

       We decline to apply any exception to termination under these facts. Given

the emotional struggles of the oldest child, permanency must be primary. She is

thriving in the paternal grandmother’s care. Thus, we see no reason to deny this


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  The juvenile court detailed the counselor descriptions of each of the older children’s
reactions to contact with the father based on the violent past they had all experienced with
him mitigating against further contact. As for the youngest child, no bond existed with the
father.
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child the stability and permanency she needs. We agree with the juvenile court

that no unique circumstances exist to warrant applying the section 232.116(3)(a)

exception to termination.

       IV. Disposition.

       For all of the above stated reasons, we affirm the juvenile court’s termination

of the mother and father’s parental rights to all five children.

       AFFIRMED ON BOTH APPEALS.
