[Cite as Malmon-Berg v. Malmon-Berg, 2014-Ohio-1784.]


STATE OF OHIO                  )                        IN THE COURT OF APPEALS
                               )ss:                     NINTH JUDICIAL DISTRICT
COUNTY OF WAYNE                )

THERESA K. MALMON-BERG                                  C.A. No.   13CA0005
nka BERG

       Appellant
                                                        APPEAL FROM JUDGMENT
       v.                                               ENTERED IN THE
                                                        COURT OF COMMON PLEAS
MICHAEL D. MALMON-BERG                                  COUNTY OF WAYNE, OHIO
nka MALMON                                              CASE No.   09-DR-0116

       Appellee

                              DECISION AND JOURNAL ENTRY

Dated: April 28, 2014



       CARR, Judge.

       {¶1}    Appellant Theresa Malmon-Berg, nka Berg (“Mother”) appeals the judgment of

the Wayne County Court of Common Pleas. This Court affirms.

                                                  I.

       {¶2}    Michael Malmon-Berg, nka Malmon (“Father”) and Mother had two children

during the course of their marriage, a daughter (“S.”) and a son (“A.J.”). The parties filed

competing complaints for divorce. Father submitted a proposed shared parenting plan to the

court for consideration. Although Mother opposed shared parenting and sought sole custody of

the children she too submitted a proposed shared parenting plan as an alternative. The trial court

crafted a shared parenting plan from portions of each party’s proposed plan. Mother became the

residential parent for school purposes of both children. Both parents lived in the Wooster, Ohio,

area at the time.
                                                2


       {¶3}    Mother later desired to relocate to California, where she had family and a job

opportunity. She filed a motion to relocate with both children, followed by a motion for

reallocation of parental rights and responsibilities and for modification of the shared parenting

plan. Mother incorporated into her second motion two concerns about the effect of Father’s

diagnosed sex addiction on the children. Father opposed the motions, and the court denied all of

Mother’s motions. Subsequently, the parties submitted an agreed revised shared parenting plan

to the court for approval. On August 31, 2011, the trial court adopted the revised shared

parenting plan as the order of the court. Under the revised plan, Mother’s home in California

became the primary residence of S., while Father’s home in Wooster became the primary

residence of A.J. The revised plan contained a provision indicating that the plan was premised

upon Father’s continued participation in treatment for his sex addiction. Father had already lost

his job as a psychologist at the College of Wooster at the time the parties executed the revised

parenting plan. In response to those circumstances, the plan contained a provision stating that

the plan would be “revisited and renegotiated” if Father obtained employment and relocated

outside of Wayne County. The plan further provided that the parties were to remain flexible in

the best interest of the children and that they would first seek co-parenting counseling,

mediation, or non-binding arbitration before seeking court intervention to resolve disputes.

       {¶4}    Father later obtained employment in Colorado, and he filed a notice of relocation.

Mother opposed Father’s relocation and filed a motion to restrain Father from relocating with

A.J. She premised both arguments on the language of the revised shared parenting plan that

stated that any relocation by Father would constitute a change of circumstances requiring the

parties to revisit and renegotiate the plan in the best interest of the children. On the day

scheduled for hearing on the above motions, Mother filed a motion for reallocation of parental
                                                  3


rights and responsibilities and for modification of the shared parenting plan, citing as grounds for

the motion that Father only gave 2 weeks’ notice of relocation and that there was inherent harm

to A.J. because he would have to move away from his friends, school, counselor, and support

system in Wooster. Mother also argued that the relocation would require Father to leave his sex

addiction support system. Mother did not argue that Father had behaved inappropriately or had

failed to continue to participate in his sex addiction treatment plan.

        {¶5}    The trial court held two hearings on February 15, 2012. In the morning, the

magistrate heard Mother’s argument that Father’s relocation automatically required a

modification of the shared parenting plan. Father argued, and the magistrate agreed, that the

language in the parties’ revised plan did not require modification. Rather, the plan merely

acknowledged that relocation by Father would constitute a change in circumstances.             The

magistrate concluded that Mother was free to move to modify the plan based on that change of

circumstances and that the court would then consider whether a modification of the plan was in

the best interest of the children.

        {¶6}    Later on the same day, the judge held a hearing to determine whether or not the

court should restrain Father from moving to Colorado with A.J. The court agreed with Father

that there was no prohibition in the parties’ agreed revised plan against Father’s relocation. The

court, therefore, denied Mother’s motion for an emergency restraining order.

        {¶7}    The magistrate subsequently held a hearing on Mother’s motion for reallocation

of parental rights and responsibilities and for modification of the shared parenting plan. The

magistrate held in camera interviews with each child, considered the deposition transcript of

A.J.’s prior counselor in Ohio, and heard the testimony of Mother and Father. The magistrate

issued a decision denying Mother’s motions. The trial court adopted the magistrate’s decision
                                                 4


the same day and ordered that the parties’ agreed revised shared parenting plan would remain

unchanged.    Mother filed objections to the magistrate’s decision and Father responded in

opposition. The trial court overruled Mother’s objections on November 6, 2012. Mother moved

the court for findings of fact and conclusions of law. On January 8, 2013, the trial court issued a

judgment entry of findings of fact, conclusions of law, and final order. The court expressly

denied her motion for reallocation of parental rights and responsibilities and for modification of

the shared parenting plan. Mother filed a notice of appeal on February 5, 2013.

       {¶8}    As a preliminary matter, we note that Father has moved to dismiss Mother’s

appeal as untimely because she filed her notice of appeal more than thirty days after the trial

court filed its ruling denying Mother’s objections.

       {¶9}    We have repeatedly recognized: “‘Even if a trial court’s journal entry is a

judgment or final order, it is not appealable if it does not comply with the rules prescribed by the

Ohio Supreme Court regarding the timing of appeals.’” Children’s Hosp. v. Paluch, 9th Dist.

Summit No. 26189, 2012-Ohio-4137, ¶ 7, quoting Zaffer v. Zaffer, 9th Dist. Lorain No.

10CA009884, 2011-Ohio-3625, ¶ 3.

       {¶10} App.R. 4(A) addresses the time for appeal and states:

       A party shall file the notice of appeal required by App.R. 3 within thirty days of
       the later of entry of the judgment or order appealed or, in a civil case, service of
       the notice of judgment and its entry if service is not made on the party within the
       three day period in Rule 58(B) of the Ohio Rules of Civil Procedure.

       {¶11} Accordingly, we have recognized that “‘App.R. 4(A) thus contains a tolling

provision that applies in civil matters when a judgment has not been properly served on a party

according to Civ.R. 58(B).’” Paluch at ¶ 9, quoting In re Anderson, 92 Ohio St.3d 63, 67

(2001). The Anderson court explained:
                                                   5


       Civ.R. 58(B) requires the court to endorse on its judgment a direction to the clerk
       to serve upon all parties * * * notice of the judgment and its date of entry upon the
       journal. The clerk must then serve the parties within three days of entering
       judgment upon the journal. The thirty-day time limit for filing the notice of
       appeal does not begin to run until after the later of (1) entry of the judgment or
       order appealed if the notice mandated by Civ.R. 58(B) is served within three days
       of the entry of the judgment; or (2) service of the notice of judgment and its date
       of entry if service is not made on the party within the three-day period in Civ.R.
       58(B).

(Internal quotations and citations omitted.) Id.

       {¶12} We need not, and do not, here consider whether Mother’s motion for findings of

fact and conclusions of law extended the thirty-day time for appeal. In this case, the trial court

never endorsed upon either judgment entry the required direction to the clerk to serve notice of

the judgment and its date of entry upon the journal upon all the parties as required by Civ.R.

58(B). In the absence of such a direction, the running of the time for appeal was tolled.

Accordingly, Mother’s appeal is timely. Father’s motion to dismiss is denied.

                                                   II.

                                 ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR I

       THE FINDING THAT THE ONLY CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES [IS] THE
       MOVE OF [FATHER] AND A.J. FROM WOOSTER, OHIO TO GREENWOOD
       VILLAGE, COLORADO IS AGAINST THE MANIFEST WEIGHT OF THE
       EVIDENCE IN THIS CASE AND AN ABUSE OF DISCRETION BY THE
       TRIAL COURT.

       {¶13} Mother purports to argue that the trial court erred in finding that the only change

in circumstances underlying its refusal to modify the parties’ shared parenting plan was Father’s

move to Colorado. This Court declines to address this assignment of error because Mother

abandoned the argument in her brief when she wrote:

       The fact in this case is that the issue of whether a change of circumstances has
       occurred or not is simply not at issue at all. This has already been stipulated to by
       the parties in their previously ordered Revised Shared Parenting Plan * * *
       [which] clearly states that “[i]f for any reason, Father relocates his residence
                                                6


        outside of Wayne County, Ohio or accepts an employment position outside of
        Wayne County or one of its immediately adjacent counties, this will be construed
        as a change in circumstances and this shared parenting plan will be revisited and
        renegotiated in the best interests of the children at that time.” So a change of
        circumstances is a stipulation by the parties at the time of the hearing. * * * So
        the hearing officer’s only job in this matter was to weigh the factors of [R.C.]
        3109.04(F) against the evidence presented to determine what course of action
        promotes the best interests of the children at this time.

Emphasis added.

        {¶14} Accordingly, as Mother has abandoned the first error assigned, we decline to

address it.

                                ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR II

        THE TRIAL COURT’S DETERMINATION THAT THERE WOULD
        VIRTUALLY BE NO BENEFIT TO A.J. BY MODIFYING OR
        TERMINATING THE REVISED SHARED PARENTING PLAN IS AGAINST
        THE MANIFEST WEIGHT OF THE EVIDENCE IN THIS CASE AND [IS]
        DIRECTLY OPPOSITIONAL TO THE CHILD’S BEST INTERESTS AS
        EXPRESSED BY HIS COUNSELOR, HIS MOTHER, AND HIS SISTER AND
        CONSTITUTES AN ABUSE OF DISCRETION.

                                ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR III

        THE TRIAL COURT’S DECISION NEGLECTS TO PROPERLY CONSIDER
        ALL THE FACTORS REQUIRED BY [R.C.] 3109.04 IN WEIGHING THE
        MOTION FOR TERMINATION OR MODIFICATION OF THE SHARED
        PARENTING PLAN. THIS IS AN ERROR AS A MATTER OF LAW AND AN
        ABUSE OF THE TRIAL COURT’S DISCRETION.

                                ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR IV

        THE TRIAL COURT’S DECISION FAILS TO PROPERLY CONSIDER THE
        EVIDENCE PRESENTED AT COURT AND TO ACCORD PROPER WEIGHT
        TO THE ADMITTED ACTIONS AND BEHAVIORS OF [FATHER] THAT
        HAS NEGATIVELY AFFECTED THESE CHILDREN AND IS NOT IN
        PROMOTION OF THE BEST INTERESTS OF ALL THE CHILDREN
        INVOLVED.

        {¶15} Mother does not segregate her arguments as to each assignment of error, but

rather argues them together. Accordingly, this Court considers the assignments of error together

for ease of discussion, because they implicate interrelated issues. In these assignments of error,
                                                7


Mother argues that the trial court did not properly consider the factors enumerated in R.C.

3109.04(F)(1) regarding the best interest of the children when it denied Mother’s motion to

modify or terminate the parties’ shared parenting plan. This Court disagrees.

       {¶16} As an initial matter, we note that the parties have tacitly agreed in their revised

shared parenting plan that any modification of the plan would be governed by R.C.

3109.04(E)(1)(a), which requires a change in circumstances in addition to a finding in the best

interest of the child, rather than by R.C. 3109.04(E)(2)(b), which allows for modification of a

shared parenting plan based solely on the best interest of the child. This tacit understanding is

evidenced by the parties’ agreement that any relocation or acceptance of employment by Father

outside Wayne County would constitute a change in circumstances necessitating reconsideration

of the shared parenting plan in the best interest of the children. Accordingly, any modification of

the parties’ agreed shared parenting plan, adopted on August 31, 2011, was subject to the

considerations in R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a). See also Buttolph v. Buttolph, 9th Dist. Wayne No.

09CA0003, 2009-Ohio-6909, ¶ 10 (concluding that, because a motion to modify parenting time

under a shared parenting plan constitutes a motion for reallocation of parental rights and

responsibilities, it must be considered pursuant to R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a)).

       {¶17} R.C. 3109.04(E)(1)(a) provides:

       The court shall not modify a prior decree allocating parental rights and
       responsibilities for the care of children unless it finds, based on facts that have
       arisen since the prior decree or that were unknown to the court at the time of the
       prior decree, that a change has occurred in the circumstances of the child, the
       child’s residential parent, or either of the parents subject to a shared parenting
       decree, and that the modification is necessary to serve the best interest of the
       child. In applying these standards, the court shall retain the residential parent
       designated by the prior decree or the prior shared parenting decree, unless a
       modification is in the best interest of the child and one of the following applies:
                                                8


       (i) The residential parent agrees to a change in the residential parent or both
       parents under a shared parenting decree agree to a change in the designation of
       residential parent.

       (ii) The child, with the consent of the residential parent or of both parents under a
       shared parenting decree, has been integrated into the family of the person seeking
       to become the residential parent.

       (iii) The harm likely to be caused by a change of environment is outweighed by
       the advantages of the change of environment to the child.

       {¶18} R.C. 3109.04(F)(1) directs the trial court to consider “all relevant factors” in

determining the best interest of the child.      The statute enumerates a non-exhaustive list,

including:

       (a) The wishes of the child’s parents regarding the child’s care;

       (b) If the court has interviewed the child in chambers * * * regarding the child’s
       wishes and concerns as to the allocation of parental rights and responsibilities
       concerning the child, the wishes and concerns of the child, as expressed to the
       court;

       (c) The child’s interaction and interrelationship with the child’s parents, siblings,
       and any other person who may significantly affect the child’s best interest;

       (d) The child’s adjustment to the child’s home, school, and community;

       (e) The mental and physical health of all persons involved in the situation;

       (f) The parent more likely to honor and facilitate court-approved parenting time
       rights or visitation and companionship rights;

       (g) Whether either parent has failed to make all child support payments, including
       all arrearages, that are required of that parent pursuant to a child support order
       under which that parent is an obligor;

       (h) Whether either parent or any member of the household of either parent
       previously has been convicted of or pleaded guilty to any criminal offense
       involving any act that resulted in a child being an abused child or a neglected
       child; whether either parent, in a case in which a child has been adjudicated an
       abused child or a neglected child, previously has been determined to be the
       perpetrator of the abusive or neglectful act that is the basis of an adjudication;
       whether either parent or any member of the household of either parent previously
       has been convicted of or pleaded guilty to a violation of [domestic violence] or a
       sexually oriented offense involving a victim who at the time of the commission of
                                                 9


       the offense was a member of the family or household that is the subject of the
       current proceeding; whether either parent or any member of the household of
       either parent previously has been convicted of or pleaded guilty to any offense
       involving a victim who at the time of the commission of the offense was a
       member of the family or household that is the subject of the current proceeding
       and caused physical harm to the victim in the commission of the offense; and
       whether there is reason to believe that either parent has acted in a manner
       resulting in a child being an abused child or a neglected child;

       (i) Whether the residential parent or one of the parents subject to a shared
       parenting decree has continuously and willfully denied the other parent’s right to
       parenting time in accordance with an order of the court;

       (j) Whether either parent has established a residence, or is planning to establish a
       residence, outside this state.

       {¶19} This Court reviews the trial court’s judgment regarding modification or

termination of a shared parenting plan for an abuse of discretion. Batcher v. Pierce, 9th Dist.

Summit No. 26785, 2013-Ohio-4677, ¶ 22. An abuse of discretion is more than an error of

judgment; it means that the trial court was unreasonable, arbitrary, or unconscionable in its

ruling. Blakemore v. Blakemore, 5 Ohio St.3d 217, 219 (1983). When applying the abuse of

discretion standard, this Court may not substitute its judgment for that of the trial court. Pons v.

Ohio State Med. Bd., 66 Ohio St.3d 619, 621 (1993). In considering a motion to modify a shared

parenting plan, the trial court considers “the circumstances as [they] existed at the time of the

filing of the motion.” Sims v. Durant, 5th Dist. Fairfield No. 2008-CA-27, 2008-Ohio-6442, ¶ 6.

       {¶20} As an initial matter, this Court notes that, while the trial court did not cite the

statutory best interest factors, it is apparent from the court’s reasoning that it considered those

factors relevant to its determination of Mother’s motion.

       {¶21} Mother’s argument that the trial court did not properly consider the best interest

factors in R.C. 3109.04(F) is effectively an argument that the trial court was unreasonable in

reaching the conclusion that a modification or termination of the shared parenting plan was not

in the best interest of A.J. Mother did not enunciate the best interest factors in either her
                                                  10


memorandum in support of her objections to the magistrate’s decision or in her appellate brief.

Instead, she merely recited facts purportedly before the trial court for consideration, and

concluded that those circumstances required modification or termination of the parties’ shared

parenting plan in the best interest of the children. This Court notes, however, that Mother has

misstated some evidence and relied on other evidence not relevant to the determination before

the trial court.

        {¶22} It is significant that the core concern raised by Mother in her motion to modify the

agreed shared parenting plan was “the inherent harm [to A.J.] in such a move [to Colorado] away

from his friends, school, counselor, and support system here in Wooster, Ohio.” Mother further

alleged that the move would also result in Father’s “leaving behind his support system and his

court ordered involvement in SAA group meetings and ongoing individual counseling for his

addiction.” Mother did not allege, however, that Father had ceased participating in treatment or

that Father had relapsed into addiction and that the children were being exposed to inappropriate

circumstances and behaviors to their detriment.

        {¶23} The crux of Mother’s argument on appeal is that Father’s sex addiction has

consumed him to the point that he is unable to provide the necessary daily care for A.J. The

evidence does not bear this out.

        {¶24} There is no dispute that Father is a diagnosed sex addict and that the parties’

agreed revised shared parenting plan was contingent on Father’s continuing to follow the

treatment plan recommendations as determined by the counselor who evaluated him pursuant to

court order.       Father testified that he participated in appropriate treatment prior to leaving

Wooster, and that he has established the requisite support system and ongoing treatment in

Colorado. Mother did not dispute that Father has provided her with proof of his compliance with
                                                 11


his treatment plan upon her request. The evidence established that Father obtained a counselor in

Colorado and that he was attending weekly Sex Addicts Anonymous (“SAA”) meetings as

required.

       {¶25} In addition, Father continued to maintain “net nanny,” a filtering software, on his

home computer. The software was described as a device to block internet sites based on the use

of certain key words relevant to pornography and other proscribed topics.          Although A.J.’s

former counselor in Wooster testified that A.J. reported that Father offered him $10 if he

discovered an inappropriate search in Father’s computer history, the counselor testified that that

discussion occurred during a session on October 12, 2011. Mother did not base her motion to

modify the shared parenting plan on that or any similar incident. In fact, she did not file her

motion until more than four months later, only after Father filed his notice of relocation.

       {¶26} Significantly, A.J.’s former counselor, who counseled the child from January

2009, until early February 2012, also testified that, although A.J. had felt some stress out of

concerns for Father’s addiction, the child reported that his concerns had abated as he came to

understand that it was not his job to protect his father. The counselor testified regarding other

stressors in A.J.’s life too, including his concern that Mother would no longer love him if he

chose to continue to live with Father as he desired. The counselor testified as to several sources

of stress for A.J., including: (1) the need “to keep his grades up or Mom will go to the Judge;”

(2) Father’s addiction which “already ruined a marriage and almost custody of me;” (3) being

apart from Mother after she moved to California with S.; (4) earning enough points in school to

be able to attend a special camp; and (5) Father’s unemployment and the possibility that Father

and he would have to move if Father found a job outside of Wooster. The counselor testified,

however, that stress associated with the fear of the unknown, e.g., a change in school or
                                                 12


residence, is normal. She concluded that A.J. understood that he would need to adapt to his

environment wherever his parents were and with whomever he lived.

       {¶27} The magistrate conducted separate in camera interviews with both S. and A.J.

prior to the hearing, and the transcripts are part of the record. S. admitted that she had not visited

with Father by her own choice for approximately seven months and that she had no plans to have

contact with him in the foreseeable future. She stated that she believes that Father still has a

problem with his addiction and that he does not mind exposing A.J. to the situation. The only

example she gave of what she believed was inappropriate behavior occurred in December 2011.

S. explained that she was with Father and A.J. in Arizona and she did not like the way that Father

and A.J. were interacting because they were sending text messages to one another. S. admitted

that she took A.J.’s cell phone without his permission while he was swimming to see what was

so important. S. told the magistrate that Father had asked A.J. in a text message about going to

an “adult mart.” When the magistrate later asked A.J. about the text, A.J. stated that he and

Father were joking.     Later during the hearing, Father testified that he knew that A.J. was

concerned about the possibility of Father’s relapsing into addiction, and Father used humor to

dispel A.J.’s anxiety. Father testified that A.J. once asked him what an “adult mart” was after

they passed one on the highway. After Father explained, A.J. was concerned that Father might

stop there when he was alone. Father testified that he later sent A.J. the text as a way of joking

about the situation and that the two of them understood the text to be a joke.

       {¶28} A.J. told the magistrate that he is no longer concerned about Father’s addiction or

any other issues. He stated that changing schools was difficult at first, but that he has made some

good friends, even spending the night at a friend’s house, and that he had joined a baseball team.

A.J. reported that he planned to try out for basketball and football during the next year. A.J.
                                               13


admitted that his grades were not as good in Colorado as they were in Wooster, but he said that

his new school had a much higher level of academics. He was now in middle school and taking

two advanced level courses, and his grades ranged from As to Cs. He reported that he continues

to see a counselor in Colorado every two weeks. Finally, A.J. informed the magistrate that he

wants to remain in Colorado with Father.       He explained that he has adjusted to his new

environment and a move to California to live with Mother would require a new adjustment. A.J.

told the magistrate that he now knows that Mother will still love him if he stays with Father. He

described his relationships with both Mother and S. as good, while he recognized that the

relationship between Father and S. is not good and “not fun to be around.”

       {¶29} Mother testified at the hearing as follows. She admitted that the parties’ agreed

shared parenting plan contemplated that Father and A.J. might leave Ohio, if Father had a job

opportunity out of state, but she only agreed because she felt “in a corner.” She had to move to

California (although she did not explain why she believed that move was necessary), and she

wanted A.J. to remain in Wooster with familiar friends, school, synagogue, and other activities.

She complained that she had difficulty monitoring A.J. in Colorado, because she found it hard to

remember the online access code to view A.J.’s school progress and she did not know the parents

of his new friends. Mother contacted A.J.’s counselor in Colorado once.

       {¶30} Mother expressed concerns that A.J. was tardy or had missed several days of

school before moving to Colorado, although the evidence established that his absences and

tardies were excused.    A.J. accompanied Father on two out-of-state trips to Chicago and

Washington, D.C., once for a conference and once for a job interview. A.J. did homework in the

hotel room while Father was away. Mother admitted that she no longer had family in Wooster,

so it would not have been feasible for Father to have left the child with family while he was
                                                 14


away for a few days. Mother did not suggest that it would have been better for Father to have

left A.J. alone in Wooster for those few days.

       {¶31} Mother was concerned that A.J. was no longer taking Hebrew classes or

participating in synagogue activities after his move to Colorado. She admitted, however, that she

had never taken A.J. to temple when he visited her in California and that the family was not even

affiliated with a synagogue in California. Mother testified that she and the children would

choose a synagogue together, if the court were to modify the shared parenting plan and allow

A.J. to move to California with her.

       {¶32} Mother expressed her major concern regarding A.J.’s relocation to Colorado as

the fact that he would have no grandparents or other extended family nearby (what she referred

to as a support system), while he would have a lot of family nearby in California. Mother

admitted that A.J. did not have any extended family nearby when he continued to live with

Father in Wooster after Mother moved with S. to California.

       {¶33} Mother also raised concerns that the children were not living together, although

Mother is the one who moved from Wooster to California and agreed that the children would

reside apart from one another. She expressed additional concerns that A.J. struggles with weight

issues, although those issues arose prior to the divorce and Mother admitted that she did not do

much about the problem at that time. She asserted that she would seek a nutritionist for A.J., if

he lived with her. Finally, Mother was concerned that A.J. felt “inhibited” when he spoke with

her via phone or Skype when Father was in the room, although she admitted that her then-12-

year old son acted similarly before the move to Colorado. Mother believed that the situation

became worse, however, after the relocation. Father acknowledged that A.J. needs privacy and

he asserted that he has attempted to facilitate that and will continue to do so.
                                                15


       {¶34} Father testified at the hearing as follows. He looked locally for employment after

losing his job at the College of Wooster after his supervisor received an anonymous letter

directing the supervisor to review public records related to Father’s divorce action and the issues

underlying the divorce. After being unable to find local employment, Father extended his search

on a national level. The only employment offer he received was the job he accepted in Colorado.

Father admitted he had taken A.J. out of school to accompany him on an out-of-state job

interview, but he got permission from the school to do so.

       {¶35} Before seeking housing in Colorado, Father conferred with a friend who lives in

that area. Father also did research online, and determined which school district was the best in

the Denver area. Father enrolled A.J. in that district and chose housing based on the residency

requirements for that school district. A.J. is enrolled in two advanced classes. Father conceded

that A.J. found the schoolwork challenging at first, but he earned better grades as the school year

progressed. Father and A.J. live in a 2-bedroom apartment, although he has enough beds to

accommodate S. should she agree to visit. He noted that S. earlier ceased contact with him, and

that Father’s relocation had no further effect on her relationship with him. In fact, S. did not

greet or speak with Father in the hallway before the hearing. Father expressed concern that,

other than enrolling S. in counseling, Mother has not done anything to facilitate or encourage

S.’s relationship with him, despite Father’s actions to ensure that A.J. maintains a relationship

with Mother. Father was concerned that Mother would not ensure that A.J. would return his

texts and calls or remember him on his birthday (as he encouraged A.J. with respect to Mother) if

the court were to order that A.J. reside with Mother.

       {¶36} Father discussed A.J.’s involvement in baseball, the friends the child has made,

and that Father was an assistant coach for the child’s team. He admitted that A.J. is no longer
                                                 16


involved in Hebrew classes or temple, but he explained that, while he was raised in the Jewish

faith, he does not participate in temple as an adult. Father believed that A.J. enjoyed attending

temple in Wooster because he had friends there. He further believed that A.J.’s disappointment

in not having a bar mitzvah arose because he would not have a big party. Father acknowledged

that he believed that it was important to Mother that A.J. participate in synagogue activities.

       {¶37} Father described A.J.’s daily life in Colorado. A.J. is alone at home for a couple

of hours after school until Father returns from work. The child starts his homework in earnest

after Father gets home. A.J. and Father both attend counseling, and Father attends a weekly

SAA meeting. Father has made A.J. aware of his past struggles with sex addiction in the hope

that the child will avoid similar behaviors. He has used humor, like sending the text about an

adult mart, to help ease A.J.’s anxiety about the situation. Father acknowledged that he has a

deal with A.J. that he will pay him $10 if the child catches Father being dishonest. He has paid

the child once for a pornography-related incident and once for a different dishonest act. Father

was emphatic that he has not entered into any agreement with A.J. that the child monitor Father’s

access to internet sites. A.J. does not have the access code for net nanny and cannot discern any

sites that may have been blocked by the filtering software. Father’s former SAA sponsor has the

net nanny code, however, and has the ability to hold Father accountable for any impropriety.

       {¶38} A review of the trial court’s judgment indicates that the court considered the

relevant factors in determining that modification of the parties’ agreed shared parenting plan was

not in the children’s best interest. Several of the enumerated factors were not relevant to this

case. The court interviewed both children and considered A.J.’s wishes to remain with Father.

The court considered A.J.’s adjustment to his new environment and the interaction and

interrelationship with his family members, including his ongoing visitation with Mother and S.
                                                17


The court was well aware of Father’s sex addiction, but received no evidence that Father had

relapsed and that A.J. was being adversely affected as a result.

       {¶39} Even though Mother argues on appeal that Father’s sex addiction compels

modification of the parties’ shared parenting plan, she admitted at the hearing that she did not

file her motion to modify on the basis of becoming aware of the text message incident or after

speaking with A.J.’s prior counselor. Instead, she filed her motion only after Father filed his

notice of relocation from Wooster and in reliance on those circumstances. In addition, the other

incidents to which Mother refers in her appellate brief, including an incident when Mother and a

child walked into a room where Father was masturbating in front of a computer (the child did not

see the incident, as Mother admitted that she was able to shield the child), an incident when S.

saw nude pictures of Father on his iPod Touch, and incidents where Father arranged sexual

encounters with women he met online, all occurred either before the parties’ divorce was

finalized or before the parties’ entered into their agreed revised shared parenting plan. As such

incidents did not cause Mother concern so as to prevent her from entering into the agreed shared

parenting plan whereby A.J. remained with Father while Mother moved to California with S., it

is unclear why those past incidents require modification of the plan in A.J.’s best interest only

because Father and the child have moved more than 1000 miles closer to Mother.

       {¶40} Based on a review of the evidence, this Court concludes that the trial court did not

abuse its discretion by denying Mother’s motion to modify the parties’ agreed revised shared

parenting plan. Father wished to maintain A.J.’s residence as his own. Mother earlier agreed

that A.J. would live with Father after she moved out-of-state with S. A.J. expressed his desire to

stay with Father to both the magistrate and his counselor. A.J. continued to visit with Mother

and S. under the same schedule as that set out in the parties’ agreed shared parenting plan. He
                                                18


also continued to have almost daily contact with Mother via text, phone, or Skype, often at

Father’s encouragement. On the other hand, Mother presented no evidence of her efforts to

encourage S. to repair and maintain a relationship with Father. Father initiated counseling for

both A.J. and himself upon their relocation to Colorado. Father established a local support

system to address his sex addiction issues including obtaining a sponsor and attending weekly

SAA meetings. Father has provided Mother with information verifying his compliance with

court ordered treatment recommendations upon Mother’s request. Mother left the state of Ohio

first with one of the children, initiating the children’s separate living conditions.   Father’s

subsequent move from Ohio brought A.J. more than 1000 miles closer to Mother. A.J. has

adjusted to his new environment, where he is engaged in a more challenging academic

environment. He has made friends and participated in one sport, with plans to try out for two

additional sports. Based on a review of the record, this Court concludes that the trial court did

not abuse its discretion as it was not unreasonable when it concluded that a modification of the

parties’ agreed shared parenting plan was not in the best interest of the children. Mother’s

second, third, and fourth assignments of error are overruled.

                                               III.

       {¶41} Mother abandoned her first assignment of error and this Court declines to address

it. Mother’s remaining assignments of error are overruled. The judgment of the Wayne County

Court of Common Pleas is affirmed.

                                                                             Judgment affirmed.




       There were reasonable grounds for this appeal.
                                                19


       We order that a special mandate issue out of this Court, directing the Court of Common

Pleas, County of Wayne, State of Ohio, to carry this judgment into execution. A certified copy

of this journal entry shall constitute the mandate, pursuant to App.R. 27.

       Immediately upon the filing hereof, this document shall constitute the journal entry of

judgment, and it shall be file stamped by the Clerk of the Court of Appeals at which time the

period for review shall begin to run. App.R. 22(C). The Clerk of the Court of Appeals is

instructed to mail a notice of entry of this judgment to the parties and to make a notation of the

mailing in the docket, pursuant to App.R. 30.

       Costs taxed to Appellant.




                                                     DONNA J. CARR
                                                     FOR THE COURT




MOORE, P. J.
CONCURS.

BELFANCE, J.
CONCURRING IN JUDGMENT ONLY.

       {¶42} I concur in the judgment. With respect to the first assignment of error, while I do

not believe that the assignment of error was abandoned, I would not find that Mother has

demonstrated prejudice. With respect to the remaining assignments of error, I agree that, based

upon the overall record, the trial court did not abuse its discretion in overruling mother’s motion

to modify the shared parenting plan.

       {¶43} Consistent with most post-decree matters, the court had to determine A.J.’s best

interests through evaluating all of the best-interest factors as made relevant by the evidence. The
                                                20


record suggests that A.J. wished to remain in Wooster where he could stay at his school and

continue with his activities, including studying Hebrew. The record also reflects that the court

considered the best-interest factors and accorded weight to A.J’s wishes in making its

determination that A.J. should reside with Father in Colorado.

        {¶44} It is evident that there were areas of concern. For example, the record reflects that

A.J. feels great responsibility for his Father’s well-being and that he indicated to his counselor

that he feared that, if he did not continue to live with Father, Father would “fall apart” and fall

back into his bad habits. In addition, one could reasonably question the judgment of an adult

who jokes about a sexual addiction with a pre-teenager. However, the court also heard that A.J.

continues to attend counseling such that any unhealthy behaviors might be addressed and there

was evidence that A.J. was successfully adapting to the new living situation in Colorado.

Accordingly, in weighing all of the evidence and given that the trial court was able to observe

and assess the demeanor of all of the witnesses, I concur that the trial court’s decision was not an

abuse of its discretion.


APPEARANCES:

RENEE J. JACKWOOD, Attorney at Law, for Appellant.

R. J. HELMUTH, Attorney at Law, for Appellee.
