 Pursuant to Ind.Appellate Rule 65(D), this
 Memorandum Decision shall not be
 regarded as precedent or cited before any
 court except for the purpose of establishing
 the defense of res judicata, collateral
 estoppel, or the law of the case.

                                                             May 31 2013, 9:35 am

APPELLANT PRO SE:

THOMAS M. SLAATS
Newburgh, Indiana




                               IN THE
                     COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

THOMAS M. SLAATS,                                   )
                                                    )
       Appellant,                                   )
                                                    )
               vs.                                  )     No. 87A01-1210-DR-474
                                                    )
SALLY E. SLAATS,                                    )
                                                    )
       Appellees.                                   )


                     APPEAL FROM THE WARRICK SUPERIOR COURT
                         The Honorable Earl G. Penrod, Special Judge
                               Cause No. 87D01-0602-DR-74


                                           May 31, 2013

                MEMORANDUM DECISION - NOT FOR PUBLICATION

FRIEDLANDER, Judge
        Thomas M. Slaats (Father), pro se, appeals orders issued by the trial court regarding

Father’s obligation to reimburse Sally E. Slaats (Mother) for half of all agreed extracurricular

activity fees. Father asserts eight issues on appeal. To the extent he challenges the February

23, 2012 order, we dismiss the appeal as untimely. With respect to issues related to the order

of September 25, 2012, we find the issues waived.

        We affirm.

        Mother and Father were married in July 1997, and three children were born during the

course of their marriage. Mother filed a petition for dissolution in February 2006. During

mediation, the parties reached an agreed settlement. On May 8, 2006, the trial court

dissolved the marriage and approved the Mediated Summary Final Decree of Dissolution of

Marriage (the Decree). Of particular import to this appeal, the Decree provided in part:

        4.      OTHER CHILD RELATED COSTS. Father and Mother shall equally
        split the cost(s) of work related childcare for the Children, the cost(s) of
        preschool…, all agreed extracurricular activity fees, school book fees, other
        school related fees and the cost of school supplies.

Appendix at 132 (emphasis supplied). The children were ages 4, 6, and 8 when the Decree

was entered.

        This case became exceedingly contentious beginning in the summer of 2009, with a

flurry of generally meritless contempt petitions filed by Father. 1 Around this time, Father

had a change in employment, resulting in substantially reduced earnings. On October 2,

2009, he filed a petition to modify child support. Following a hearing, the trial court


1
  By our count, Father filed at least fifteen contempt petitions against Mother from June 2009 to May 2011,
upon which the trial court found only two minor instances of contempt.


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modified/reduced Father’s support obligation. Father appealed on several grounds, and

another panel of this court affirmed the trial court’s judgment by memorandum decision on

September 26, 2011. Slaats v. Slaats, No. 87A01-1009-DR-523, trans. denied.

        Beginning in July 2010, Father ceased paying any portion of the fees related to the

children’s extracurricular activities, indicating to Mother that he no longer agreed to these

fees. 2 Father, however, expressed no disagreement with regard to the extracurricular

activities in which the children were involved. Rather, he stated simply that he could no

longer afford to pay for these activities.

        On August 26 and December 2, 2011, the trial court heard evidence on, among other

things, seven pending motions for contempt filed by Father, a petition to modify the Decree

with respect to child care expenses filed by Father, and Mother’s contempt petition in which

she sought to recover Father’s share of extracurricular activity fees incurred since July 2010.

The trial court issued its findings, conclusions, and order on February 23, 2012 (the February

2012 order). Relevant to this appeal, the order provided:

        10.     As to Mother’s request for the Father to pay half of extracurricular
        activities, the Court finds that the Father shall be responsible for those
        expenses on Mother’s Exhibit #2, to the extent those expenses are for present
        activities that the children were also participating in at the time the Mediated
        Final Decree was entered. Specifically, the Court finds that the Father is
        obligated to continue to pay one half of extracurricular expenses for activities
        the children participate in so long as those are activities in which the children
        were involved at the time of the Mediated Final Decree.
                The Court rejects the Father’s interpretation of the language in the

2
  Although the order is not included in the record, it is evident that a contempt order was issued in the spring
of 2010 regarding Father’s failure to pay extracurricular activity fees. In the instant action, Father
acknowledges he owed Mother for fees up to that point but notes that he subsequently informed Mother that he
would no longer agree to pay fees for these activities.


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        Mediated Final Decree…to mean that he has no obligation for extracurricular
        expenses unless he now agrees. Contrary to Father’s interpretation, “all agreed
        extracurricular activities fees” means that the extracurricular fees were agreed
        upon at the time of the entry of the Decree and it does not give the Father
        unilateral authority to withdraw or withhold his ‘agreement’ for any or all of
        the extracurricular fees.
                Likewise, if the children were not participating in the particular activity
        at the time of the Mediated Final Decree, the Mother is not entitled to recover
        half of the fees from the Father. If the Father wishes to be relieved of his
        obligation to pay agreed fees for extracurricular activities or if the Mother
        wishes to be reimbursed for extracurricular activity fees for activities in which
        the children were not involved at the time of the entry of the Mediated Final
        Decree, the party may file a Petition to Modify. However, until such relief
        may be granted, the Father remains obligated to pay his share of the fees for
        extracurricular activities that the parties agreed upon at the time the Mediated
        Final Decree and in which the children continue to participate.
                The Father is now ordered to pay within 90 days the amount of
        $3,540.18 after which the amount shall bear statutory interest of 8%.

Appendix at 41-42. Father did not appeal the February 2012 order, nor did he file a timely

motion to correct error.

        Father filed a pro-se petition to modify the February 2012 order on April 2, which

effectively amounted to an untimely motion to correct error. See Ind. Trial Rule 59(C)

(motion to correct error, if any, shall be filed not later than “30 days after the entry of final

judgment is noted in the [CCS]”). In his petition, Father asked that the court rescind its

award of $3540.18 to Mother because the activities related to these fees “were not a

continuation of any activity the children were involved in nor participating in at the time of

the Mediated Final Decree.” Id. at 98. On April 25, 2012, the trial court summarily denied

Father’s petition, as well as a competing petition filed by Mother. 3 Father did not appeal.


3
  This summary denial of both parties’ motions to modify had the effect of leaving unchanged the February
2012 order. Contrary to Father’s assertion on appeal, the denial did not result in a denial of Mother’s “right to

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         Thereafter, on May 30, 2012, Mother filed a petition for contempt against Father for

failure to pay $3540.18 as required by the February 2012 order. She also alleged that Father

had failed to pay his share of additional fees for extracurricular activities incurred since the

order. The trial court held a hearing on August 17, 2012. At the hearing, the parties

relitigated what the phrase “all agreed extracurricular activity fees” meant and discussed

changed circumstances, and Mother indicated a willingness to have a cap placed on the

yearly amount of these fees. On September 25, 2012, the trial court issued an order on

Mother’s contempt petition (the September 2012 order). The court found that Father had

willfully violated without just cause the February 2012 order by not paying Mother

$3540.18. 4 The court then went on to “clarify” paragraph 10 of the February 2012 order

regarding fees for extracurricular activities. Id. at 46. The Court explained:

                The Court reiterates that the Father does not have the right to
         unilaterally withdraw or withhold his agreement for extracurricular activities
         and the resulting fees. In fact, in this case it is clear that the Father has agreed
         to extracurricular activities in that he is active with the children in some of
         those activities. The Father merely wishes to withhold his agreement to pay
         any portion of the associated fees. And as the Court found in the Order and
         reaffirms here, the Father does not have the right to unilaterally withdraw or
         withhold his agreement.
                However, the Court concedes that the present arrangement in which the

collect on the judgment.” Appellant’s Brief at 23. The February 2012 order stood, and Father was required to
pay the $3540.18 judgment.
4
    With respect to these fees, the court observed:
             While those activities may not be exactly the same activities in which the children were
     involved at the time of the Mediated Final Decree, the activities are of like character but
     appropriately age adjusted. That is, the athletic and personal enrichment activities of children
     evolve somewhat as the children get older but the activities, if of sufficiently similar character, are
     to be considered continuing activities for which the Father remains obligated to pay his share of
     the expenses for those activities.
             Id. at 46.


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         Mother is permitted to arrange, without consulting the Father, extracurricular
         activities for the children so long as they are the same or of like character is
         unwieldy. Therefore, the Court will clarify [the February 2012 order] by
         noting that for the calendar year 2012 (and including December, 2011) and for
         each subsequent calendar year, the Father shall be obligated to pay one-half of
         the “agreed extracurricular fees” for the children up to $500.00 per child per
         year, so long as the activities are the same or of like character to those
         activities in which the children participated at the time of the Mediated Final
         Decree. The Mother shall submit an itemization to the Father on or before
         June 1 and December 31 each year after which the Father shall have 90 days to
         pay the amount due.

Id. at 47. Father now appeals. 5

         We initially observe that Father makes several arguments addressed to the February

2012 order, which provided that Father was to pay Mother $3540.18 within 90 days. Father

did not timely appeal that order. Therefore, he cannot attack the February 2012 order in the

instant appeal. See Ind. Appellate Rule 9(A)(5) (providing that unless a notice of appeal is

timely filed, the right to appeal shall be forfeited). Mother was entitled to this sum, plus

interest, and Father’s belated attempt to appeal the February 2012 order is dismissed.

         Turning to the September 2012 order, we observe that Father’s fundamental

misunderstanding of the appeals process is apparent in the following excerpt from his

appellate brief:

         The Appeals Court should undertake an independent review of the facts of the
         case as presented, and make an independent ruling based upon those facts,
         ignoring the findings of the Trial Judge in order to find a true and just
         assessment of the facts, the law, and a just result in favor of the Father and the
         Mediated Final Decree.

Appellant’s Brief at 18-19. This is not our role as an appellate court.


5
    Mother did not file a brief in this appeal.


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       It is well established that pro se litigants are held to the same standards as trained legal

counsel and are required to follow procedural rules. See Whatley v. State, 937 N.E.2d 1238

(Ind. Ct. App. 2010). Our appellate rules are not mere suggestions, and flagrant violations of

our rules may result in waiver of the issues presented. See Ramsey v. Review Bd. of Ind.

Dep’t of Workforce Dev., 789 N.E.2d 486, 487 (Ind. Ct. App. 2003) (“we will deem alleged

errors waived where an appellant’s noncompliance with the rules of appellate procedure is

‘so substantial it impedes our appellate consideration of the errors’”) (quoting Mullis v.

Martin, 615 N.E.2d 498, 500 (Ind. Ct. App. 1993)). “We will not become an advocate for a

party, nor will we address arguments which are either inappropriate, too poorly developed or

improperly expressed to be understood.” Terpstra v. Farmers & Merchants Bank, 483

N.E.2d 749, 754 (Ind. Ct. App. 1985), trans. denied.

       While lengthy, Father’s brief contains significant violations of Ind. Appellate Rule

46(A) and offers little assistance for our review of the September 2012 order. Of particular

note, we observe that Father’s statement of issues section reads more like a summary of the

argument section and does not concisely and particularly set forth the issues for review. See

App. R. 46(A)(4). The statement of facts section is improperly littered with argument and

does not state the facts “in accordance with the standard of review appropriate to the

judgment or order being appealed”, in violation of App. R. 46(A)(6)(b). Further, the

summary of argument section is anything but “a succinct, clear, and accurate statement of the

arguments made in the body of the brief.” App. R. 46(A)(7) (emphasis supplied).

       Most limiting to our review is Father’s wandering argument section. Father sets out


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no standard of review for any of the eight issues he presents. See App. R. 46(A)(8)(b)

(requiring “for each issue a concise statement of the applicable standard of review”).

Further, despite ample relevant authority being available, he does not cite to any statutes or

cases relevant to his arguments for reversal. 6 See App. R. 46(A)(8)(a) (requiring “cogent

reasoning” and support for each contention with citations to “authorities, statutes, and the

Appendix or parts of the Record on Appeal relied on”).

        In sum, we view Father’s appellate brief as an invitation for us to narrow the issues

and do the research for him. We decline. Father has provided us with no cogent argument or

relevant authority in support of reversing the September 2012 order, which had the effect of

modifying the existing child support provision regarding extracurricular activity fees. 7

Moreover, as set out above, Father cannot challenge the February 2012 order in this appeal.

        Judgment affirmed.

ROBB, C.J., and CRONE, J., concur.




6
   Father does briefly direct us to the Restatement (Second) of Contracts and the Lexis Nexis Capsule
Summary of Contracts, which have no bearing in this case. Contrary to Father’s apparent belief, the parties
cannot “rescind” the extracurricular provision in the Decree or the February 2012 order by agreement over
email without seeking modification by the trial court. Appellant’s Brief at 26.
7
    We direct Father to Ind. Code Ann. § 31-16-8-1(b)(1) (West, Westlaw current through P.L. 171 with
effective dates through May 7, 2013), which provides for modification of a support order upon a showing of
changed circumstances so substantial and continuing as to make the terms unreasonable.


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