                                      2015 IL 117904



                                         IN THE
                                SUPREME COURT
                                            OF
                          THE STATE OF ILLINOIS



                                    (Docket No. 117904)

        In re PARENTAGE OF SCARLETT Z.-D., a Minor (James R.D., Appellee,
                            v. Maria Z., Appellant).


                               Opinion filed March 19, 2015.



        JUSTICE FREEMAN delivered the judgment of the court, with opinion.

        Chief Justice Garman and Justices Thomas, Kilbride, Karmeier, Burke, and
     Theis concurred in the judgment and opinion.



                                         OPINION

¶1       Scarlett Z.-D. is the adopted daughter of respondent, Maria Z. Petitioner, James
     R.D. (Jim), filed a petition in the circuit court of Du Page County seeking a
     declaration of parentage, custody, visitation, and child support regarding Scarlett.
     Prior to trial, the circuit court dismissed Jim’s claims brought under common law
     contract theories and, following trial, denied his claims brought under functional
     parent theories. A divided panel of the appellate court (2014 IL App (2d)
     120266-B) ultimately affirmed the rejection of Jim’s common law contract and
     functional parent theories, but vacated in part the denial of Jim’s claims and
     remanded for further fact finding with reference to the doctrine of equitable
     adoption as recognized in DeHart v. DeHart, 2013 IL 114137.
¶2       This court allowed Maria’s petition for leave to appeal. Ill. S. Ct. R. 315 (eff.
     Feb. 26, 2010). We hold that the doctrine of equitable adoption as recognized in
     DeHart does not apply to child custody proceedings. Accordingly, we now affirm
     the judgment of the appellate court in part and reverse in part.



¶3                                         I. BACKGROUND

¶4       In 1999, Maria and Jim met, fell in love, and began living together as a couple
     in Elmhurst. In 2000 or 2001, they became engaged to be married. Maria was born
     in Slovakia, immigrated to the United States, and frequently returned to Slovakia to
     visit family. During one such visit in early 2003, Maria met Scarlett, a 3½-year-old
     orphan. Born in June 1999, Scarlett was placed in an orphanage when her
     biological mother lost her parental rights. 1

¶5       Through several telephone conversations, Maria and Jim decided to bring
     Scarlett into their lives. Under Slovakian law, Jim was not permitted to adopt
     Scarlett because he was neither a Slovakian national nor married to Maria.
     Accordingly, Maria and Jim decided that Maria would adopt Scarlett. Maria
     commenced the year-long adoption process and lived in Slovakia during that time.
     Jim financially supported the process, traveled there approximately five times, and
     participated in a psychological evaluation. In 2004, Maria adopted Scarlett under
     Slovakian law, and the three of them returned to the United States.

¶6       The circuit court found that Maria, Jim, and Scarlett lived together “as an intact
     family unit as if they were bound legally.” Maria and Jim gave Scarlett the
     hyphenated form of their last names. Jim was the “father figure” to Scarlett, who
     referred to Jim as “daddy.” Jim’s name appears in Scarlett’s school records as
     Scarlett’s father. Jim paid all family expenses and provided economic support for
     Scarlett. In June 2006, he established a $500,000 irrevocable trust for Scarlett. The
     court found that Scarlett “learned English and clearly came a long way over this
     time period under the watchful eyes and good parenting from both Jim and Maria.”

¶7      However, Maria and Jim never married. Jim did not acquire legal recognition as
     Scarlett’s father by domesticating the Slovakian adoption in Illinois, by seeking to
     adopt Scarlett pursuant to Illinois law, or by other statutory means.

         1
          The custody evaluation report indicates that both of Scarlett’s biological parents had been drug
     addicts. The record does not indicate any contact between Scarlett and her biological father.
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¶8         The relationship between Maria and Jim deteriorated. In August 2008, Maria
       moved out of Jim’s home, taking Scarlett. Later that month, Jim filed a petition for
       declaration of parental rights. In May 2009, Jim filed his second amended petition,
       which framed the instant proceedings. In the six-count petition, Jim sought: a
       declaration of parentage and an order granting him and Maria joint legal and
       physical custody of Scarlett, or alternatively, granting him primary custody with
       reasonable visitation for Maria (count I), and an equitable division of child support
       (count II). Jim also alleged several common law contract claims. Jim alleged that
       Maria breached their oral agreement to be equal parents to Scarlett (count III); he
       was therefore entitled to relief based on promissory estoppel (count IV);
       alternatively, in the absence of an express agreement, Maria breached their implied
       contract in fact (count V); or a contract implied at law (count VI).

¶9         Maria filed motions to dismiss pursuant to sections 2-615 and 2-619 of the
       Code of Civil Procedure (735 ILCS 5/2-615, 2-619 (West 2012)), contending that
       Jim lacked standing to commence a custody proceeding. The circuit court
       ultimately dismissed Jim’s common law claims (counts III through VI) pursuant to
       section 2-615.

¶ 10       The case proceeded to trial. In count I, Jim alleged that he was Scarlett’s
       de facto, equitable, and psychological parent, and that he stood in loco parentis to
       Scarlett. Maria filed a response, in which she raised the affirmative defense of
       standing. At the close of the trial, the court concluded that Jim lacked standing and
       was not subject to paying child support. Accordingly, the court denied relief under
       counts I and II.

¶ 11       On appeal, the appellate court initially affirmed. In re Parentage of Scarlett
       Z.-D., 2012 IL App (2d) 120266. Jim filed a petition for leave to appeal with this
       court. We denied the petition, but entered a supervisory order directing the
       appellate court to vacate its decision and reconsider the appeal in light of DeHart v.
       DeHart, 2013 IL 114137, to determine if a different result was warranted. In re
       Parentage of Scarlett Z.-D., No. 115000 (Ill. May 29, 2013) (supervisory order).

¶ 12       On reconsideration, a divided panel of the appellate court reversed the circuit
       court’s denial of relief under counts I and II. The appellate court rejected Jim’s
       assertion of standing based on various functional parent theories. 2014 IL App (2d)
       120266-B, ¶¶ 33-50. However, the appellate court held that the equitable adoption
       doctrine as recognized in DeHart “might present a potentially viable theory of

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       standing for Jim.” Id. ¶ 64. The appellate court remanded the case to the circuit
       court with directions that the court make factual findings, with reference to DeHart,
       as to whether Jim could establish standing. Id. ¶¶ 65-68. Also, the appellate court
       again affirmed the dismissal of Jim’s common law contract claims. Id. ¶¶ 74-76. 2

¶ 13       Maria now appeals to this court. We granted the Family Institute at
       Northwestern University, Chicago Appleseed Fund for Justice, Family Equality
       Council and National Association of Social Workers, as well as the American Civil
       Liberties Union of Illinois and the National Center for Lesbian Rights, leave to
       submit amici curiae briefs in support of Jim. We also granted the Cook County
       public guardian leave to submit an amicus curiae brief. Ill. S. Ct. R. 345 (eff. Sept.
       20, 2010). Additional pertinent background will be discussed in the context of our
       analysis.



¶ 14                                            II. ANALYSIS

¶ 15       Before this court, Maria assigns error to the appellate court’s holding that the
       equitable adoption doctrine as recognized in DeHart might provide Jim with
       standing to seek custody of Scarlett. On cross-appeal, Jim assigns error to the
       appellate court’s rejection of his claims. We address each of their respective
       contentions where appropriate in our analysis.



¶ 16                             A. Forfeiture of Objections to Standing

¶ 17       Jim first contends that Maria forfeited the opportunity to contest Jim’s
       standing. 3 Maria filed a motion to dismiss Jim’s petition pursuant to section 2-615
       of the Code of Civil Procedure (735 ILCS 5/2-615 (West 2012)). She alleged that
       Jim’s petition failed to state a cause of action because it did not address the

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             The partially dissenting justice would have vacated the circuit court’s entire judgment and
       would have remanded the case for further proceedings regarding the issue of standing on all counts.
       Id. ¶¶ 81-94 (McLaren, J., specially concurring in part and dissenting in part).
            3
             The appellate court used the term “waiver” because the parties did so. However, the court
       correctly recognized the distinction between waiver and forfeiture: “ ‘[w]hile waiver is the
       voluntary relinquishment of a known right, forfeiture is the failure to timely comply with procedural
       requirements.’ ” 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶ 22 n.3 (quoting Buenz v. Frontline Transportation
       Co., 227 Ill. 2d 302, 320 n.2 (2008)).
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       threshold question of standing under either the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of
       Marriage Act (Marriage Act) (750 ILCS 5/101 (West 2012)) or the Illinois
       Parentage Act of 1984 (750 ILCS 45/1 (West 2012)). Jim filed a response, arguing
       that Maria had forfeited her standing argument because a section 2-615 motion was
       not the proper vehicle to raise the issue of standing.

¶ 18       The circuit court allowed Maria to file a memorandum in support of her section
       2-615 motion if she so desired. Within the time allowed for that memorandum,
       Maria filed a section 2-619 motion to dismiss (735 ILCS 5/2-619 (West 2012)),
       asserting lack of standing under the Marriage Act. Jim moved to dismiss Maria’s
       motion. He argued that Maria had forfeited the issue of standing by improperly
       raising it in a section 2-615 motion to dismiss. The circuit court found that Maria
       did not forfeit the issue of standing, and offered Jim additional time to submit
       affidavits and file a response to Maria’s section 2-619 motion. Jim accepted the
       offer. The circuit court ultimately denied Maria’s section 2-619 motion to dismiss
       regarding all counts of Jim’s complaint. The court granted Maria’s section 2-615
       motion to dismiss regarding counts III through VI, but denied the motion regarding
       counts I and II.

¶ 19       Repeating his argument before the appellate court, Jim argues that Maria
       forfeited the issue of his standing by failing to file a “timely” section 2-619 motion
       to dismiss. The appellate court correctly rejected this contention. 2014 IL App (2d)
       120266-B, ¶¶ 22-24.

¶ 20       A motion to dismiss under section 2-615 of the Code of Civil Procedure (735
       ILCS 5/2-615 (West 2012)) tests the legal sufficiency of the plaintiff’s claim, while
       a motion to dismiss under section 2-619 (735 ILCS 5/2-619 (West 2012)) admits
       the legal sufficiency of the plaintiff’s claim, but asserts certain defects or defenses
       outside the pleading that defeat the claim. Patrick Engineering, Inc. v. City of
       Naperville, 2012 IL 113148, ¶ 31; Wallace v. Smyth, 203 Ill. 2d 441, 447 (2002). A
       section 2-619 motion to dismiss must be brought “within the time for pleading.”
       735 ILCS 5/2-619(a) (West 2012). Lack of standing is an affirmative matter that is
       properly raised under section 2-619. Glisson v. City of Marion, 188 Ill. 2d 211, 220
       (1999). Specifically, lack of standing under section 601(b)(2) of the Marriage Act
       is an affirmative defense that is forfeited unless raised in a motion to dismiss during
       the time of the pleadings. In re Custody of K.P.L., 304 Ill. App. 3d 481, 486 (1999)
       (collecting cases).


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¶ 21       We reject Jim’s contention. Maria’s section 2-619 motion was not “untimely”
       because she filed it well within the time for pleading and prior to evidentiary
       hearings. In any event, Maria based both of her motions to dismiss on Jim’s lack of
       standing: either Jim’s failure to plead standing (section 2-615), or Maria’s
       affirmative defense of Jim’s lack of standing (section 2-619). Thus, Jim does not,
       and cannot, argue that he was prejudiced by Maria’s less-than-meticulous pleading.
       See Wallace, 203 Ill. 2d at 447; Illinois Graphics Co. v. Nickum, 159 Ill. 2d 469,
       483-88 (1994). Consequently, we uphold the appellate court’s rejection of this
       argument.



¶ 22                                  B. Equitable Estoppel

¶ 23       In opposing Maria’s motions to dismiss, Jim contended that Maria should be
       equitably estopped from challenging his standing to seek custody, visitation, and an
       allocation of child support. The circuit court rejected this contention, as did the
       appellate court. 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶¶ 25-32.

¶ 24       The general rule is where A, by his or her statements and conduct, leads B to do
       something that B would not have done but for such statements and conduct, A will
       not be allowed to deny his or her words or acts to the damage of B. Equitable
       estoppel may be defined as the effect of A’s conduct whereby A is barred from
       asserting rights that might otherwise have existed against B who, in good faith,
       relied upon such conduct and has been thereby led to change his or her position for
       the worse. Geddes v. Mill Creek Country Club, Inc., 196 Ill. 2d 302, 313 (2001).

¶ 25       To establish equitable estoppel, the party claiming estoppel must demonstrate
       that: (1) the other party misrepresented or concealed material facts; (2) the other
       party knew at the time the representations were made that the representations were
       untrue; (3) the party claiming estoppel did not know that the representations were
       untrue when they were made and when they were acted upon; (4) the other party
       intended or reasonably expected the representations to be acted upon by the party
       claiming estoppel or by the public generally; (5) the party claiming estoppel
       reasonably relied upon the representations in good faith to his or her detriment; and
       (6) the party claiming estoppel has been prejudiced by his or her reliance on the
       representations. Parks v. Kownacki, 193 Ill. 2d 164, 180 (2000). The representation
       need not be fraudulent in the strict legal sense or done with an intent to mislead or
       deceive. Although fraud is an essential element, it is sufficient that a fraudulent or
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       unjust effect results from allowing another person to raise a claim inconsistent with
       his or her former declarations. Geddes, 196 Ill. 2d at 314. The test is whether,
       considering all the circumstances, conscience and the duty of honest dealing should
       deny one the right to repudiate the consequences of his or her representations or
       conduct. Ceres Illinois, Inc. v. Illinois Scrap Processing, Inc., 114 Ill. 2d 133, 148
       (1986).

¶ 26       The party claiming estoppel has the burden of proving it by clear and
       convincing evidence. The availability of equitable estoppel depends on the
       circumstances of each case. Geddes, 196 Ill. 2d at 314. The circuit court’s decision
       regarding equitable estoppel will not be disturbed on review unless it is against the
       manifest weight of the evidence, or will be reviewed de novo if it is based on a legal
       conclusion. Morgan Place of Chicago v. City of Chicago, 2012 IL App (1st)
       091240, ¶ 33.

¶ 27       Applying these principles to the instant case, we conclude that the appellate
       court correctly rejected this contention for several reasons. Initially, there was no
       misrepresentation. As the appellate court observed, the record contains no evidence
       that Maria misrepresented to Jim that he was Scarlett’s biological or adoptive
       father. Jim testified that, through 2006, he had initiated discussions with Maria
       about adoption every three to six months. Maria’s response was always positive,
       but she did not act on his requests. Thus, Jim was aware at all times that he was not
       Scarlett’s biological father, that the Slovakian adoption did not pertain to him, and
       that domestication of the Slovakian adoption or formal adoption in Illinois would
       be necessary as to him. Also, Jim testified that he and Maria intended that both of
       them would pursue adoption of Scarlett in this country. However, the court
       correctly stated that “a promise to do something in the future does not constitute a
       factual misrepresentation.” 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶ 28; see Sinclair v.
       Sullivan Chevrolet Co., 31 Ill. 2d 507, 510 (1964) (stating that a misrepresentation,
       to be actionable, “must generally relate to an existing or past event, not to a promise
       or prognostication concerning a future happening”).

¶ 28       Assigning error to the appellate court, Jim attempts to base his equitable
       estoppel claim on then-existing circumstances rather than a future happening. Jim
       argues that Maria should be estopped from challenging his standing based on “her
       consistent course of conduct and express representations to Jim, Scarlett, and the
       outside world for years, on which both Scarlett and Jim reasonably relied, fostering
       a cherished parent-child bond that cannot be severed without causing psychological
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       harm to the child and great injustice to Jim.” According to Jim, “Maria’s
       representation was her promise to protect and respect forever Jim’s role in
       Scarlett’s life as her ‘Daddy,’ and her years of conduct consistent with that promise,
       on which both Scarlett and Jim detrimentally relied.”

¶ 29       We cannot accept Jim’s argument. Maria’s challenge of Jim’s standing was in
       no way inconsistent with Jim’s characterization of the circumstances. As the
       appellate court reasoned, Maria’s conduct in treating Jim like Scarlett’s father
       occurred when Maria and Jim were engaged to be married. Jim’s relationship with
       Scarlett was contingent upon his relationship with Maria, Scarlett’s only legal
       parent. For example, when asked what, if anything, he had done to secure United
       States citizenship for Scarlett, Jim testified that he, himself, could not do anything.
       He stated: “All I can do is work through Maria.” Thus, when Maria and Jim
       terminated their relationship, Maria’s assertion that Jim was not Scarlett’s legal
       parent was not inconsistent with, or a repudiation of, her prior behavior. 2014 IL
       App (2d) 120266-B, ¶ 29. Again, there was no misrepresentation of a material fact.

¶ 30        Further, Jim could not have reasonably relied on his characterization of Maria’s
       conduct. During their engagement, any words or conduct by Maria to encourage a
       relationship between Scarlett and Jim were gratuitous on Maria’s part. A promise
       founded upon considerations of affection or gratitude is a mere beneficence and
       cannot be the foundation for a legal action. See In re Marriage of Engelkens, 354
       Ill. App. 3d 790, 798 (2004); Lesnik v. Estate of Lesnik, 82 Ill. App. 3d 1102, 1107
       (1980); 2 Joseph M. Perillo & Helen Hadjiyannakis Bender, Corbin on Contracts
       § 5.18 (rev. ed. 1995).

¶ 31       Moreover, Maria’s conduct did not result in a fraudulent or unjust effect. Maria
       is Scarlett’s legal mother. Parents have the fundamental right to make decisions
       regarding the care, custody, and control of their children. Troxel v. Granville, 530
       U.S. 57, 65-66 (2000) (plurality opinion). “Encompassed within the
       well-established fundamental right of parents to raise their children is the right to
       determine with whom their children should associate.” Lulay v. Lulay, 193 Ill. 2d
       455, 473-74 (2000). Once Maria and Jim terminated their engagement, it was not
       unjust for Maria to refuse to allow custody or visitation between her daughter and




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       her ex-fiancé. 4 We hold that Maria was not equitably estopped from challenging
       Jim’s standing to seek custody, visitation, and allocation of child support.



¶ 32                                  C. Functional Parent Theories

¶ 33       Jim next contends that the appellate court erred in holding that he may not state
       an equitable claim for custody, visitation, and support based on various functional
       parent theories. 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶¶ 33-50. Jim argues that the circuit
       court found facts demonstrating his parent-child relationship with Scarlett.
       According to Jim, these facts permit him “to move forward with a claim in equity.”
       If necessary, we review the circuit court’s factual findings under a manifest weight
       of the evidence standard; however, we apply those facts de novo to the question of
       whether Jim has standing to pursue his custody petition. In re Marriage of
       Baumgartner, 237 Ill. 2d 468, 486-87 (2010); In re Guardianship of K.R.J., 405 Ill.
       App. 3d 527, 535-36 (2010).

¶ 34       At the outset, Jim correctly concedes that he lacks statutory standing. Section
       601(b)(2) of the Marriage Act provides that a nonparent may commence a custody
       proceeding, “but only if [the child] is not in the physical custody of one of [the
       child’s] parents.” 750 ILCS 5/601(b)(2) (West 2012). This section is a standing
       requirement for nonparents. “That is, for a nonparent to have standing to seek
       custody under the Marriage Act, the nonparent must first show that the child is not
       in the physical custody of one of his parents.” In re R.L.S., 218 Ill. 2d 428, 435
       (2006). Further, “when used in this sense, ‘standing’ does not have the traditional
       meaning of a requirement that a litigant has a justiciable interest in a controversy.
       Rather, it merely refers to a threshold issue that must be determined before the court
       may proceed to a ‘best interests’ determination.” Id. at 435 n.2; see In re A.W.J.,
       197 Ill. 2d 492, 496-97 (2001).


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            Jim continues to rely on In re Marriage of Schlam, 271 Ill. App. 3d 788 (1995), in support of
       his equitable estoppel argument. However, Schlam is distinguishable. In that case, a husband and
       wife divorced and entered into a joint parenting agreement. The wife was equitably estopped from
       challenging the joint parenting agreement, in which she made representations to the court. In the
       case at bar, there is no marriage, divorce, or joint parenting agreement. Maria made no
       representations to the court regarding a father-daughter relationship. 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B,
       ¶¶ 31-32 (distinguishing Schlam). The application of equitable estoppel in Schlam had nothing to do
       with either preventing a challenge to standing or a misrepresentation to the nonbiological father.
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¶ 35       The standing requirement of section 601(b)(2) of the Marriage Act safeguards
       the superior right of parents to the care and custody of their children. See A.W.J.,
       197 Ill. 2d at 497. Indeed, the superior right doctrine is of constitutional magnitude.
       The due process clause of the fourteenth amendment protects the fundamental right
       of parents to make decisions regarding the care, custody, and control of their
       children without unwarranted state intrusion. Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57,
       65-66 (2000); accord R.L.S., 218 Ill. 2d at 438; Wickham v. Byrne, 199 Ill. 2d 309,
       316-17 (2002).

¶ 36       The Marriage Act does not define the term “parent.” However, the Illinois
       Parentage Act of 1984 (750 ILCS 45/1 et seq. (West 2012)) provides a statutory
       mechanism for legally establishing a parent-child relationship. In re N.C., 2014 IL
       116532, ¶ 51. According to section 2 of the statute, a “parent and child
       relationship” means the legal relationship between a child and his or her natural or
       adoptive parents, incident to which the law confers rights and privileges, or
       imposes duties and obligations. 750 ILCS 45/2 (West 2012). Section 4(3) provides
       that a parent and child relationship between a child and “an adoptive parent may be
       established by proof of adoption.” 750 ILCS 45/4(3) (West 2012). 5 Section
       14(a)(1) expressly directs the court to determine custody or visitation issues in
       accordance with the relevant factors in the Marriage Act. 750 ILCS 45/14(a)(1)
       (West 2012). These factors include the requirement of standing. See In re Marriage
       of Mancine, 2014 IL App (1st) 111138-B, ¶ 23; In re Parentage of Unborn Child
       Brumfield, 284 Ill. App. 3d 950, 954 (1996).

¶ 37        Accordingly, in the case at bar, Maria alone has a statutory parent-child
       relationship with Scarlett, as she is Scarlett’s adoptive parent. Maria’s Slovakian
       adoption of Scarlett was final. Domesticating the Slovakian adoption decree in
       Illinois would not elevate or improve Maria’s status as Scarlett’s legal mother. See
       Shelley B. Ballard, Intercountry Adoptions: Avoiding Procedural Pitfalls and
       Common Problems, in Illinois Adoption Law § 10.14 (Ill. Inst. for Cont. Legal
       Educ. 2011) (describing domestication of final foreign adoption as optional).
       However, Jim lacks statutory recognition as Scarlett’s father. Accordingly, he is a
       statutory nonparent. Further, Maria has always retained physical custody of



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            An adoptive parent may establish the parent-child relationship also by records established
       pursuant to section 16 of the Vital Records Act (410 ILCS 535/16 (West 2012) (“Certificate of
       adoption”)). 750 ILCS 45/4(3) (West 2012).
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       Scarlett. Consequently, Jim does not meet the standing requirement for nonparents
       provided by section 601(b)(2) of the Marriage Act.

¶ 38       Before this court, Jim nonetheless asserts that he is Scarlett’s parent. Jim
       contends that he “is not foreclosed from bringing a claim for custody, visitation, or
       support simply because he lacks statutory standing.” Jim argues that he can state a
       claim in equity based on several descriptions of “functional parent-child
       relationships.” He alleged in count I: “Specifically, JIM is the de facto, equitable
       and psychological parent of, and stands in loco parentis to SCARLETT.” In count
       II, Jim sought an allocation of child support so that he and Maria could “plan
       financially and make the best possible decisions to ensure SCARLETT’s future.”

¶ 39      Jim invokes an area of family law that continues to be debated in legal literature
       and to evolve in case law. As one scholar explains:

              “Family law’s acknowledgment of the importance of adults who are not
          parents, historically referred to as ‘third parties’ or ‘legal strangers’ to the child,
          has extended to the point that today functioning in a parent-like role can lead to
          becoming a parent. Although it remains clear that only parents possess the
          constitutional right to control their children’s upbringing, who counts as a
          parent has become increasingly complex. *** Adults who formerly might have
          been considered a legal stranger to a child may now be recognized by the law as
          having rights and obligations towards a child with whom they have no
          biological or formal legal connection. The case law employs various legal
          formulations to describe functional parents and differing tests to screen out who
          qualifies as a functional parent. *** Modern family law’s ‘functional turn’ has
          exploded the notion that children have only two ‘natural’ parents who must be
          their sole caregivers, with the state as the only alternative in the absence of
          parents. This functional approach to the family exemplifies family law’s
          ongoing efforts ‘to reflect more accurately the reality of family life.’ ” Maya
          Manian, Functional Parenting and Dysfunctional Abortion Policy: Reforming
          Parental Involvement Legislation, 50 Fam. Ct. Rev. 241, 246-47 (2012).

       Accord Pamela Laufer-Ukeles & Ayelet Blecher-Prigat, Between Function and
       Form: Towards a Differentiated Model of Functional Parenthood, 20 Geo. Mason
       L. Rev. 419, 421-23 (2013); Jeffrey A. Parness, Federal Constitutional Childcare
       Interests and Superior Parental Rights in Illinois, 33 N. Ill. U. L. Rev. 305, 309-10
       (2013).

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¶ 40       Courts and commentators have used several overlapping descriptions of
       functional parent, as did Jim here. Common to the definitions of “psychological
       parent” or “de facto parent” is a relationship with deep emotional bonds such that
       the child recognizes the person as a parent from whom the child receives daily
       nurture and guidance, independent of the form of the legal relationship. In re
       E.L.M.C., 100 P.3d 546, 559-60 (Colo. App. 2004); V.C. v. M.J.B., 748 A.2d 539,
       550 (N.J. 2000). Whereas psychological or de facto parentage focuses primarily on
       the existence of a psychological relationship between the nonparent and child, the
       doctrine of in loco parentis focuses on whether the nonparent intentionally assumes
       parental status. A person who stands in loco parentis to a child has put himself or
       herself in the place of a legal parent by fully assuming all obligations incident to a
       parent-child relationship without going through the necessary formalities of a legal
       adoption. The rights, duties, and liabilities of such a person are the same as those of
       the legal parent. However, once the person alleged to be in loco parentis no longer
       discharges all duties incident to the parental relationship, that person is no longer in
       loco parentis and the parental relationship is terminated. In re Destiny S., 639
       N.W.2d 400, 406 (Neb. 2002) (collecting cases). Some courts have conflated the
       psychological parent, de facto parent, and in loco parentis doctrines and applied the
       four-prong test developed for de facto parentage: (1) whether the legal parent
       consented to or fostered the relationship between the de facto parent and the child;
       (2) whether the de facto parent lived with the child; (3) whether the de facto parent
       assumed the obligations of parenthood by taking significant responsibility for the
       child’s care, education, and development, including contributing toward the child’s
       support, without expectation of financial compensation; and (4) whether a
       parent-child bond was formed. In re Custody of H.S.H.-K., 533 N.W.2d 419,
       435-36 (Wis. 1995). These four factors cover the three-factor test for determining
       an “equitable parent” (Atkinson v. Atkinson, 408 N.W.2d 516, 519 (Mich. Ct. App.
       1987)). See Emmalee M. Miller, Note, Are You My Mother? Missouri Denies
       Custodial Rights to Same-Sex Parent, 75 Mo. L. Rev. 1377, 1388-94 (2010); Jason
       C. Beekman, Same-Sex Marriage: Strengthening the Legal Shield or Sharpening
       the Sword? The Impact of Legalizing Marriage on Child Custody/Visitation and
       Child Support for Same-Sex Couples, 18 Wash. & Lee J. Civil Rts. & Soc. Just.
       215, 242-46 (2012); Laufer-Ukeles & Blecher-Prigat, supra, at 422 n.9.

¶ 41       In addition to courts and commentators, the American Law Institute (ALI) has
       also contributed to this discussion. In 2002, ALI published its Principles of the Law
       of Family Dissolution: Analysis and Recommendations (Principles). Where state

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       courts generally use the terms “psychological parent,” “de facto parent,” and “in
       loco parentis” interchangeably, the Principles distinguish these terms and assign
       them different meanings. Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution: Analysis
       and Recommendations § 2.03 (2002); see generally Beekman, supra, at 247-49;
       Laufer-Ukeles & Blecher-Prigat, supra, at 449-51; Robin Fretwell Wilson,
       Trusting Mothers: A Critique of the American Law Institute’s Treatment of
       De Facto Parents, 38 Hofstra L. Rev. 1103 (2010).

¶ 42        In response to this legal evolution, state legislatures are providing statutory
       remedies. In fact, some legislatures have established parenthood gradations, such
       as with legal and equitable parents, or recognized childcare interests, such as with
       parental responsibilities and parenting time, in persons with neither biological nor
       adoptive ties. Parness, supra, at 310, 334-36. Some state courts, “while often
       sympathetic to nonbiological and nonadoptive parents, have deferred to elected
       legislators in their own state’s ‘representative democracy.’ ” Id. at 310. Our
       appellate court has concluded that standing to petition for custody or visitation is a
       complex issue that demands a comprehensive legislative solution. In re Marriage
       of Simmons, 355 Ill. App. 3d 942, 953-54 (2005); In re Visitation with C.B.L., 309
       Ill. App. 3d 888, 894-95 (1999). We agree.

¶ 43       Even advocates of a “functional parent” theory acknowledge the competing
       policy issues. For example, while observing that legal recognition of functional
       parents “generally has become more widely employed,” and exhorting the
       recognition of “diverse family forms,” one scholar acknowledges that:

          “functional definitions of parentage and recognition of third-party rights remain
          hotly contested in a number of jurisdictions. There are some who resist granting
          legal rights to functional parents and other third parties, particularly in the
          context of same sex families. Even scholars who favor more expansive
          definitions of parentage acknowledge that granting legal rights to third parties
          has costs to both parents and children.” Manian, supra, at 248.

       Further, the ALI’s Principles, which recognize functional parenthood, also
       acknowledge the competing public policy issues:

          “Giving rights to de facto parents may serve to weaken the commitment society
          has to legal parents, on which the ideology of responsible parenting is based;
          yet disregarding their connection to a child at the time of family dissolution

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          ignores child-parent relationships that may be fundamental to the child’s sense
          of stability.

              ***

               The law’s challenge is to identify an approach applicable to all cases that
          allows continued contacts by de facto parents whose participation in the child’s
          life is critically important to the child’s welfare and recognizes the importance
          that some families place on extended family, and yet is consistent with the
          autonomy of parents that is essential to their meaningful exercise of
          responsibility.” Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution: Analysis and
          Recommendations, Introduction, at 5-6 (2002).

¶ 44       Our description of the several overlapping concepts of functional parenthood,
       which merely scratches the surface of the issue, reflects the extent of the many
       possible public policy issues underlying Jim’s one-sentence allegation. The
       relevant policy considerations do not invariably point in one direction, and there is
       vehement disagreement over the validity of their underlying assumptions. The very
       difficulty of these policy considerations, and the legislature’s superior institutional
       competence to pursue this debate, suggest that legislative and not judicial solutions
       are preferable. Patsy v. Board of Regents of the State of Florida, 457 U.S. 496, 513
       (1982); see Hewitt v. Hewitt, 77 Ill. 2d 49, 61 (1979).

¶ 45        In sum, Jim correctly concedes that he lacks statutory standing. Further, he
       cannot petition for custody, visitation, and support as Scarlett’s “parent” because
       Illinois does not recognize functional parent theories.



¶ 46                    D. Applicability of Equitable Adoption Doctrine

¶ 47       Although the appellate court rejected Jim’s functional parent theories to confer
       standing, the court held on reconsideration that the equitable adoption doctrine as
       recognized in DeHart v. DeHart, 2013 IL 114137, might confer standing on Jim to
       seek custody, visitation, and support of Scarlett. 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶ 64.
       Maria assigns error to this holding.

¶ 48       Essentially, the doctrine of equitable adoption allows a person who was
       accepted and treated as a natural or adopted child, and as to whom adoption
       typically was promised or contemplated but never performed, to share in the
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       inheritance of the foster or stepparent. Estate of Ford v. Ford, 82 P.3d 747, 750
       (Cal. 2004); see 2 Am. Jur. 2d Adoption § 62 (2004).

¶ 49        DeHart was a model case for equitable adoption. That case involved an action
       against the executor of an estate to contest the decedent’s will. The plaintiff, James
       DeHart, born in 1944, was held out to be the son of decedent, Donald DeHart, for
       James’s entire life. Donald married James’s birth mother when James was
       approximately two years old. She and Donald agreed that he would adopt James.
       This agreement was kept secret for the good of the family. Donald hired an
       attorney, received a purported birth certificate that named him as James’s father,
       and believed that the adoption had been formalized and was legal. Throughout their
       lifetimes, both Donald and James used the purported birth certificate to conduct the
       affairs of life. However, in 2000, during the process of applying for a passport,
       James, then 56 years old, obtained his true birth certificate and first learned that he
       was not Donald’s biological son. By then, James’s mother was suffering from
       early-onset dementia and died in 2001. Even after this confrontation and the death
       of James’s mother, Donald continued to hold out James as his son and executed a
       will leaving him an inheritance. However, the record contained no legal
       documentation of an adoption. DeHart, 2013 IL 114137, ¶¶ 3-7. Four years later,
       Donald remarried at age 83. His new wife, the defendant, was approximately 54
       years old. The defendant allegedly exerted undue influence on Donald when he was
       not of sound mind. About one year later, Donald executed a will in which he stated
       that he had no children and bequeathed nothing to James. Id. ¶¶ 8-9.

¶ 50       When Donald died, the defendant was the executor of his estate, and she filed
       the second will in the circuit court. James contested the will in a complaint alleging
       testator incapacity, undue influence, fraudulent inducement, intentional
       interference with testamentary expectancy, contract for adoption, and equitable
       adoption. Id. ¶¶ 10-12. The circuit court granted the defendant’s motion to dismiss
       James’s entire complaint for failure to state a cause of action. The appellate court
       ultimately reversed the dismissal. Id. ¶¶ 13-14. This court affirmed the judgment of
       the appellate court. Id. ¶ 76.

¶ 51        Analyzing James’s equitable adoption claim, this court concluded that “in
       Illinois an equitable adoption theory should be recognized under the right
       circumstances.” Id. ¶ 58. Adopting the California Supreme Court’s holding in
       Ford, we held that “a plaintiff bringing an equitable adoption claim must prove an
       intent to adopt along the lines described in Ford and, additionally, must show that
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       the decedent acted consistently with that intent by forming with the plaintiff a close
       and enduring familial relationship.” Id. ¶ 59.

¶ 52       We agree with Maria that the doctrine of equitable adoption, as recognized in
       DeHart, is a probate concept to determine inheritance and does not apply to
       proceedings for parentage, custody, and visitation. Certainly, the equitable
       adoption doctrine is “one example of the functional approach” in that it “looks
       beyond legal status and into the actual relationship that the individual shared with
       the decedent.” Michael J. Higdon, When Informal Adoption Meets Intestate
       Succession: The Cultural Myopia of the Equitable Adoption Doctrine, 43 Wake
       Forest L. Rev. 223, 255-56 (2008). To that extent, it is not unlike the functional
       parent theories earlier rejected. However, the very definition of equitable adoption
       indicates its limited purpose. It is “a limited remedial doctrine devised by courts
       using their equitable powers” to permit such a child “to inherit by intestate
       succession from the child’s putative equitably adopting parent(s).” Irene D.
       Johnson, A Suggested Solution to the Problem of Intestate Succession in
       Nontraditional Family Arrangements: Taking the “Adoption” (and the Inequity)
       Out of the Doctrine of “Equitable Adoption”, 54 St. Louis U. L.J. 271, 272 (2009).
       The doctrine is employed “[t]o correct the injustice that would result were the
       intestacy laws woodenly applied.” Jan Ellen Rein, Relatives by Blood, Adoption,
       and Association: Who Should Get What and Why?, 37 Vand. L. Rev. 711, 767
       (1984).

¶ 53       Since the doctrine of equitable adoption is merely an equitable remedy, “it is
       not intended or applied to create the legal relationship of parent and child, with all
       the legal consequences of such relationship, nor is it meant to create a legal
       adoption.” Tracy Bateman Farrell, Modern Status of Law as to Equitable Adoption
       or Adoption by Estoppel, 122 A.L.R.5th 205, § 2(a), at 231 (2004); accord 2 Am.
       Jur. 2d Adoption § 63, at 784 (2004); Titchenal v. Dexter, 693 A.2d 682, 688 (Vt.
       1997) (stating that equitable adoption does not alter the status of parties, but merely
       permits inheritance). Courts specifically have not applied the doctrine to give an
       equitably adoptive parent the right to custody or visitation of the equitably adopted
       child. Farrell, supra, at 231, 282-83 (collecting cases).

¶ 54       For example, DeHart did not involve a child custody proceeding, but rather a
       will contest. We explained the limited nature of our holding:



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          “only in those cases where there is sufficient, objective evidence of an intent to
          adopt (or fraudulently or mistakenly holding out as a natural child on a
          continual basis), supported by a close enduring familial relationship, will an
          equitable adoption be recognized. The narrow nature of our holding forecloses
          claims against the estate of any foster parent or stepparent who merely treats a
          foster or stepchild lovingly and on an equal basis with his or her natural or
          legally adopted children.” DeHart, 2013 IL 114137, ¶ 62.

       Further, we expressly agreed with the Ford court’s view of the doctrine. Ford
       involved a probate proceeding and defined the equitable adoption doctrine as a
       probate concept. Ford, 82 P.3d at 749-50. We hold that the doctrine of equitable
       adoption as recognized in DeHart is limited to the context of inheritance, and does
       not apply to child custody.

¶ 55       We also observe that, after citing many cases, Jim argues that regardless of
       whether the doctrine is labeled “equitable adoption, equitable parent, de facto
       parent, in loco parentis, or simply as derived from general principles of
       equity—these cases confirm that courts continue to have plenary authority in equity
       in matters affecting child custody, visitation, and support, irrespective of the
       separate authority provided by statute.” Jim cited these cases before the appellate
       court, which adequately and correctly distinguished them. 2014 IL App (2d)
       120266-B, ¶¶ 45-48. Lastly, Jim and supporting amici cite to many cases that
       recognize the various functional parent theories. However, decisions from our
       sister state courts are not binding on the courts of this state. Illinois Bell Telephone
       Co. v. Industrial Comm’n, 131 Ill. 2d 478, 489 (1989). Further, they are not
       persuasive because they do not reflect Illinois law.



¶ 56                                 Constitutional Arguments

¶ 57       Before this court, Jim argues that the denial of his claims “would violate [his]
       fundamental right as a parent. The due process guarantee of the state and federal
       constitutions protects relationships between children and their equitable parents as
       they do other parent-child relationships.” Jim further argues that denial of his
       claims based solely on a lack of statutory standing “also would result in
       infringement on both Scarlett’s and Jim’s constitutionally protected rights to
       familial association and integrity,” and also deny Scarlett equal protection. Jim also
       argues that granting him custody or visitation regarding Scarlett would actually
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       respect “Maria’s express agreement with Jim and her encouragement of Scarlett’s
       understanding of Jim as her parent.” The issue of whether an individual’s
       constitutional rights have been violated is reviewed de novo. In re A.W., 231 Ill. 2d
       92, 106 (2008).

¶ 58       These constitutional arguments beg the question of whether Jim is a “parent” in
       the first place. Again, Jim concedes that he is a statutory nonparent. We have
       concluded that Maria made no representations to Jim that would estop her from
       challenging Jim’s assertion of functional parenthood, and that Illinois does not
       recognize the functional parent doctrine. Jim cannot be denied due process by the
       denial of claims premised on a theory that Illinois does not recognize.

¶ 59       Further, Jim and Maria do not begin on equal footing regarding the care,
       custody, and control of Scarlett. As a fit custodial parent, Maria has the
       fundamental constitutional right to determine with whom Scarlett should associate.
       Lulay, 193 Ill. 2d at 473-74. She enjoys the presumption that her decisions to deny
       or limit visitation are in Scarlett’s best interests. Wickham, 199 Ill. 2d at 318. The
       decision whether Jim’s sought-after relationship with Scarlett would be in her best
       interests is for Maria to make in the first instance. Id. at 320 (quoting Troxel, 530
       U.S. at 70). Of course, these constitutional rights are in no way lessened by Maria
       being a single parent. Id. at 318.

¶ 60       Regarding constitutional claims brought on Scarlett’s behalf, since Jim was not
       Scarlett’s legal parent or guardian, he is not within the class aggrieved by the
       alleged unconstitutionality. See In re M.I., 2013 IL 113776, ¶ 32; City of Chicago v.
       Lawrence, 42 Ill. 2d 461, 464-65 (1969). Thus, Jim may not assert Scarlett’s
       constitutional rights on her behalf. See In re Marriage of Nienhouse, 355 Ill. App.
       3d 146, 153 (2004). We affirm that portion of the appellate court’s judgment that
       upheld the trial court’s denial of relief under counts I and II of Jim’s complaint
       based on lack of standing. 6




           6
            Regarding count II, in which Jim seeks a determination of child support, nothing is preventing
       him from giving money to Maria for Scarlett’s use.

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¶ 61                                    F. Contract Claims

¶ 62       Jim raised several contract claims in counts III through VI of his petition. The
       circuit court granted Maria’s section 2-615 motion to dismiss, which the appellate
       court upheld. 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶¶ 74-76. Before this court, Jim assigns
       error to the dismissal. Our review is de novo. Patrick Engineering, 2012 IL 113148,
       ¶ 31.

¶ 63        In count III, Jim alleged a cause of action for breach of an oral contract. See
       Mannion v. Stallings & Co., 204 Ill. App. 3d 179, 186 (1990) (stating elements). In
       count IV, Jim alleged a cause of action for promissory estoppel. See Newton
       Tractor Sales, Inc. v. Kubota Tractor Corp., 233 Ill. 2d 46, 51-52 (2009)
       (discussing elements). In counts V and VI, Jim alleged causes of action for a
       contract implied in fact and a contract implied at law. See Century 21 Castles by
       King, Ltd. v. First National Bank of Western Springs, 170 Ill. App. 3d 544, 548
       (1988) (stating respective elements). Before this court, Jim contends that he
       properly pled these claims, none of which, according to Jim, “depend on any
       Illinois statute or a finding that [he] is a legal parent.” We disagree.

¶ 64       This court has emphasized that “the character of the pleading should be
       determined from its content, not its label. Accordingly, when analyzing a party’s
       request for relief, courts should look to what the pleading contains, not what it is
       called.” In re Haley B., 2011 IL 110886, ¶ 67; see Aebischer v. Zobrist, 56 Ill. App.
       3d 151, 154 (1977) (stating that in determining legal significance of plaintiff’s
       complaint court considers nature of relief sought rather than title of pleading);
       South Side Trust & Savings Bank of Peoria v. South Side Trust & Savings Bank of
       Peoria, 5 Ill. App. 3d 474, 479 (1972) (same).

¶ 65       Applying this principle to the instant case, we uphold the dismissal of counts III
       through VI. Although they sounded in contract, the relief sought in each count was
       a determination of custody, visitation, and child support. Accordingly, Jim’s lack of
       standing defeats counts III through VI. To hold that these claims are valid would
       allow Jim to circumvent the statutory standing requirements.

¶ 66       We note Jim’s reliance on In re Parentage of M.J., 203 Ill. 2d 526 (2003) and
       In re T.P.S., 2012 IL App (5th) 120176. In M.J., this court held that the Illinois
       Parentage Act, which pertains to artificial insemination (750 ILCS 40/1 et seq.
       (West 2012)), did not prohibit a common law action for child support. M.J., 203 Ill.
       2d at 540. In T.P.S., a panel of our appellate court held that the Illinois Parentage
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       Act did not prohibit breach of contract and promissory estoppel claims. T.P.S.,
       2012 IL App (5th) 120176, ¶¶ 41, 61.

¶ 67        We agree with the appellate court that these cases are inapposite. Neither
       decision recognized the equitable parent doctrine as a basis to assert standing to
       petition for custody, visitation, and support. Indeed, T.P.S. expressly held that
       Illinois does not recognize the equitable parent doctrine. Id. ¶¶ 64-65. Further, both
       decisions expressly limited their holdings to cases involving children born by
       means of artificial insemination. M.J., 203 Ill. 2d at 541-42; T.P.S., 2012 IL App
       (5th) 120176, ¶ 23; see 2014 IL App (2d) 120266-B, ¶¶ 42-44.

¶ 68       We are not unsympathetic to the position of Jim, or even that of Scarlett.
       However, as Jim concedes, he lacks statutory standing to bring his claims for
       custody, visitation, and support. Legal change in this complex area must be the
       product of a policy debate that is sensitive not only to the evolving reality of
       “non-traditional” families and their needs, but also to parents’ fundamental liberty
       interest embodied in the superior rights doctrine. See, e.g., Debra H. v. Janice R.,
       930 N.E.2d 184, 193-94 (N.Y. 2010); Titchenal, 693 A.2d at 689.

¶ 69      In sum, we affirm that part of the appellate court’s judgment which upheld the
       dismissal of counts III through VI. We reverse that part of the appellate court’s
       judgment which reversed the denial of relief under counts I and II.



¶ 70                                   III. CONCLUSION

¶ 71       For the foregoing reasons, the judgment of the appellate court is affirmed in
       part and reversed in part, and the judgment of the circuit court of Du Page County is
       affirmed.



¶ 72      Appellate court judgment affirmed in part and reversed in part.

¶ 73      Circuit court judgment affirmed.




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