                    IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF IOWA

                                  No. 15-0186
                              Filed August 5, 2015


IN THE INTEREST OF A.M. AND M.M.,
Minor Children,

S.A., Mother,
Appellant.
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      Appeal from the Iowa District Court for Polk County, Louise M. Jacobs,

District Associate Judge.



      A mother appeals from an order terminating her parental rights.

AFFIRMED.



      Zachary C. Priebe of Jeff Carter Law Offices, P.C., Des Moines, for

appellant mother.

      Thomas J. Miller, Attorney General, Kathrine S. Miller-Todd, Assistant

Attorney General, John P. Sarcone, County Attorney, and Annette Taylor,

Assistant County Attorney, for appellee State.

      ConGarry Williams of the Polk County Juvenile Public Defender, Des

Moines, attorney and guardian ad litem for minor children.



      Considered by Vaitheswsaran, P.J., and Potterfield and McDonald, JJ.
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POTTERFIELD, J.

       The juvenile court terminated the mother’s parental rights to her children,

A.M., born in 2008, and M.M., born in 2009, pursuant to Iowa Code section

232.116(1)(b), (d), (e), (f), and (i) (2013). The mother appeals.

       We review termination-of-parental-rights proceedings de novo. In re A.M.,

843 N.W.2d 100, 110 (Iowa 2014).         We give weight to the trial court’s fact

findings, especially when considering the credibility of witnesses, but are not

bound by them. Iowa R. App. P. 6.904(3)(g).

       “The first step in our analysis is to determine if a ground for termination

exists under section 232.116(1).” In re P.L., 778 N.W.2d 33, 40 (Iowa 2010).

However, the mother does not dispute the existence of the grounds for

termination, and thus, “we need not address the first step of our review.” See id.

       The second step in the analysis is to consider the factors under
       section 232.116(2). Section 232.116(2) requires us to “give primary
       consideration to the child’s safety, to the best placement for
       furthering the long-term nurturing and growth of the child, and to the
       physical, mental, and emotional condition and needs of the child.”
       Iowa Code § 232.116(2).

Id.

       The mother contends termination of her parental rights was not in the

children’s best interests because they are in their father’s custody, and the

parties’ had reached a stipulated custody agreement. The mother claims she

was financially unable to obtain a custodial order from the district court, but the

record belies her claim that her financial circumstances are solely to blame for

the lack of a district court order. During a July 2, 2014 hearing, the mother

claimed she would have the money for filing the stipulated custodial order the
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next Friday. She did not follow through. The department of human services has

offered to reimburse the necessary fee. Again, there was no follow through from

the mother.

       The mother has not seen her children since December 2013. The last

time she called the children was August 25, 2014. She testified she had access

to telephones but did not call because “it’s very complicated as you’re thinking

about two small children who I have not seen basically for a year and wonder,

okay, do I want to—you know, it’s a hard fact to face.” Whatever bond the

mother and the children may have had has been eroded over time due to a lack

of contact.   The father testified the children do not ask about the mother

anymore. Under the circumstances presented here, termination of the mother’s

parental rights, and of her intermittent involvement in the children’s lives, will best

provide for the consistency and stability the children need.

       Finally, we must decide if any exceptions to termination exist under

section 232.116(3). P.L., 778 N.W.2d at 41. The mother claims termination is

unnecessary because the children are in their father’s custody and she is willing

to visit them at his discretion. See Iowa Code § 232.116(3)(a) (providing the

court “need not terminate the relationship between the parent and child if . . . [a]

relative has legal custody of the child”).      “A finding under [section 232.116]

subsection 3 allows the court not to terminate.” A.M., 843 N.W.2d at 113. But

the “‘factors weighing against termination in section 232.116(3) are permissive,

not mandatory,’ and the court may use its discretion, ‘based on the unique

circumstances of each case and the best interests of the child, whether to apply
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the factors in this section to save the parent-child relationship.’” Id. (citation

omitted). This is not such a case.

      We affirm the termination of the mother’s parental rights.

      AFFIRMED.
