
471 S.E.2d 415 (1996)
122 N.C. App. 518
Evelyn Carol S. HANCOCK, Plaintiff,
v.
Cary Glenn HANCOCK, Defendant.
No. COA94-1415.
Court of Appeals of North Carolina.
June 4, 1996.
*418 Love & Love, P.A. by Jimmy L. Love, Sanford, for plaintiff-appellant.
Staton, Perkinson, Doster, Post, Silverman & Adcock by Norman C. Post, Jr., Sanford, for defendant-appellee.
McGEE, Judge.
We first note that the contempt order states the court "concludes that Plaintiff is in willful, criminal contempt of this court" (emphasis added). Criminal contempt orders are properly appealed from district court to the superior court, not to the Court of Appeals. N.C. Gen.Stat. § 5A-17 (1986). However, in civil contempt matters, appeal is from the district court to this Court. N.C. Gen.Stat. § 5A-24 (1986). In Bishop v. Bishop, 90 N.C.App. 499, 369 S.E.2d 106 (1988), this Court held that the character of the relief is dispositive of the distinction between criminal and civil contempt, and where the relief is imprisonment, but the contemnor may avoid or terminate imprisonment by performing an act required by the court, then the contempt is civil in nature. Bishop, 90 N.C.App. at 505, 369 S.E.2d. at 109. Since the order in this case allows plaintiff to purge the contempt by delivering the child over to defendant for his scheduled visitation and by turning over the coin collection or otherwise consenting to a search of her home, the contempt order is actually civil in nature. Therefore, the appeal is properly before this Court.

I. Visitation
Plaintiff first argues there was insufficient evidence to support a finding that she willfully refused to allow defendant his visitation with the child. Plaintiff contends there must be a showing that the custodial parent deliberately interfered with or frustrated the noncustodial parent's visitation before the custodial parent's actions can be considered willful. We agree and reverse this portion of the contempt order.
"In contempt proceedings[,] the judge's findings of fact are conclusive on appeal when supported by any competent evidence and are reviewable only for the purpose of passing on their sufficiency to warrant the judgment." Clark v. Clark, 294 N.C. 554, 571, 243 S.E.2d 129, 139 (1978). Although the statute governing civil contempt, N.C. Gen.Stat. § 5A-21 (1986), does not expressly require that a contemnor's conduct be willful, case law has interpreted the statute to require an element of willfulness. Smith v. Smith, 121 N.C.App. 334, 336, 465 S.E.2d 52, 53-54 (1996). The trial court found as a fact that "Plaintiff has willfully failed and refused to abide by the terms of the [consent judgment] ... [b]ecause of Plaintiff's willful refusal to allow the minor child to visit with the Defendant and/or the Plaintiff's inaction in not requiring the minor child to visit the Defendant...." Since a willful failure by plaintiff to abide by the consent judgment would support a finding of contempt in this case, we must review the record to determine if it contains competent evidence to support a finding of willfulness.
"Willful" has been defined as "disobedience `which imports knowledge and a stubborn resistance,' and as `something more than an intention to do a thing. It implies doing the act purposely and deliberately, indicating a purpose to do it, without authoritycareless whether [the contemnor] has the right or notin violation of law....'" Jones v. Jones, 52 N.C.App. 104, 110, 278 S.E.2d 260, 264 (1981) (citations omitted). Willfulness "involves more than deliberation or conscious choice; it also imports a bad faith disregard for authority and the law." Forte v. Forte, 65 N.C.App. 615, 616, 309 S.E.2d 729, 730 (1983). Evidence which does not show a person to be guilty of "purposeful and deliberate acts" or guilty of "knowledge and stubborn resistance" is insufficient to support a finding of willfulness. In re Dinsmore, 36 N.C.App. 720, 726, 245 S.E.2d 386, 389 (1978). Here, the record contains no evidence plaintiff acted with a bad faith disregard for the law by committing purposeful and deliberate acts or acted with knowledge and stubborn resistance in order to violate defendant's visitation rights.
Plaintiff, her daughter, and the minor child all testified that plaintiff encouraged the child to go on his scheduled visitations with *419 defendant. Plaintiff testified: "I have had Andrew ready, I've had Andrew's things ready, I've told Andrew he had to go, I've put Andrew outside so that [defendant] could get Andrew. I've even tried to stay inside so he would have a chance to get Andrew." When asked whether she had told her son he had to go visit his father, plaintiff replied: "I had told him he had to go ... I told him to get in the car." On direct examination, the child testified as follows:
Q. Okay. Has your mother, at any time, told you not to go and be with your father?
A. No.
Q. Has she always encouraged you to go see your father?
A. Yes.
Q. Has she physically restrained you or told you not to go visit your father?
A. No....
Q. Has your mother done anything to try to discourage your love for your father or discourage you visiting your father?
A. No.
The child also testified he loved his father and wished to spend time with him, but only if his father's second wife and her children would not be there. Upon cross-examination the child testified as follows:
Q. If [plaintiff] tells you to go visit with your father, are you going to do that?
A. I don't know.
Q. Well[,] has she told you to get in the car with your father and go home?
A. Yes.
Q. And you refused to do that?
A. Yes.
Q. Does she make you do it?
A. No. She tried to.
Q. How does she try to do it?
A. By telling me that I had to go, it was his weekend.
Q. And you didn't do that?
A. No.
The child also testified on cross-examination that he did not visit with his father because he "didn't feel comfortable" with defendant's wife or at defendant's house, that defendant's wife had called him "a spoiled brat," and that the beds at defendant's house were "uncomfortable." Plaintiff's daughter testified she had never heard her mother discourage the child from visiting his father and had instead always encouraged him to go. She said her brother refused to go because he "hated it down there" at his father's home and because the child "hated" defendant's wife's son. Defendant testified he thought plaintiff should "at least make" the child go for his visitation in the same way she made the child attend school. He also testified he had never seen plaintiff tell the child he did not have to go, and on one occasion, he saw her encourage the boy and tell him he had to go. Defendant stated the child said his psychologist, Rodney Jones, had told him he did not have to go.
Nowhere in the record do we find evidence that plaintiff acted purposefully and deliberately or with knowledge and stubborn resistance to prevent defendant's visitation with the child. The evidence shows plaintiff prepared the child to go, encouraged him to visit with his father, and told him he had to go. The child simply refused. Plaintiff did everything possible short of using physical force or a threat of punishment to make the child go with his father. While perhaps the plaintiff could have used some method to physically force the child to visit his father, even if she improperly did not force the visitation, her actions do not rise to a willful contempt of the consent judgment.
Willfulness in a contempt action requires either a positive action (a "purposeful and deliberate act") in violation of a court order or a stubborn refusal to obey a court order (acting "with knowledge and stubborn resistance"). See Dinsmore, 36 N.C.App. at 726, 245 S.E.2d at 389. Neither are present in this case. We find no evidence that plaintiff willfully refused to allow the child to visit with the defendant. Nor do we agree with the trial court's finding that "Plaintiff's inaction in not requiring the minor child to visit with the Defendant" amounts to contempt because there is no evidence plaintiff resisted defendant's visitation or otherwise refused to *420 obey the visitation order. She simply did not physically force the child to go. Absent any evidence she encouraged his refusal to go or attempted in any way to prevent the visitation, her actions or inactions, even if improper, do not rise to the level of contempt.
Defendant's frustration over not being able to have visitation with his child is certainly understandable. Where, as here, the custodial parent does not prevent visitation but takes no action to force visitation when the child refuses to go, the proper method is for the noncustodial parent to ask the court to modify the order to compel visitation. See Mintz v. Mintz, 64 N.C.App. 338, 307 S.E.2d 391 (1983)("if a parent `encounters unreasonable difficulty in exercising his visitation rights, he may apply to the trial judge, who can compel compliance with the order by making it more specific.'"). "[A] trial judge has the power to make an order forcing a child to visit the noncustodial parent." Mintz, 64 N.C. App. at 341, 307 S.E.2d at 394. In this case, the trial court attempted the functional equivalent of an order of forced visitation by sentencing plaintiff to jail but allowing her to purge herself of contempt by delivering the child over to defendant each and every time he was entitled to visitation. However, the order fails as an attempt at forced visitation.
[A trial judge has the power to enter an order of forced visitation,] but only when the circumstances are so compelling and only after he has done the following: afforded to the parties a hearing in accordance with due process; created a proper court order based on findings of fact and conclusions of law determined by the judge to justify and support the order; and made findings that include at a minimum that the drastic action of incarceration of a parent is reasonably necessary for the promotion and protection of the best interest and welfare of the child.
Mintz, 64 N.C.App. at 341, 307 S.E.2d at 394. Neither the consent judgment nor the contempt order contains any findings that the incarceration of the plaintiff is reasonably necessary to promote and protect the best interests of the child. Because the record contains no evidence the plaintiff's actions were willful, and therefore contemptuous, and because the contempt order fails as an order compelling visitation, the trial court improperly sentenced plaintiff to thirty days in custody for violating the consent judgment by preventing visitation. This portion of the contempt order is reversed.

II. Coin Collection
Plaintiff next argues the trial court improperly found her in contempt for failing to return all of the coin collection to defendant. Plaintiff testified she turned over all of the coins she had to defendant. Both the minor child and plaintiff's daughter testified they had seen the coin collection prior to their parent's separation and that plaintiff had turned over all of the coins in the collection to defendant and had not disposed of any of the coins. Plaintiff contends the record fails to show she had the ability to return any more coins than she had already given the defendant, and therefore she cannot be held in contempt for failure to return the "complete" collection. We disagree.
The trial court found as a fact that: "The Plaintiff has failed to produce the complete coin collection as agreed in the [consent judgment]. In fact, Plaintiff produced only bits and pieces of said very valuable coin collection and has refused to produce the complete collection." As stated above, these findings of fact "are conclusive on appeal when supported by any competent evidence." Clark, 294 N.C. at 571, 243 S.E.2d at 139 (emphasis added). The record contains evidence to support this finding.
Defendant testified plaintiff gave him a paper sack which contained some, but not all, of the coins. He testified the value of the entire coin collection would be approximately two to three thousand dollars. However, defendant stated the value of the coins he received from plaintiff was only approximately ten to fifteen dollars. This evidence supports the trial court's finding of fact and is therefore binding on this Court. This is so even if the weight of the evidence might sustain findings to the contrary. Monds v. Monds, 46 N.C.App. 301, 304, 264 S.E.2d 750, 752 (1980). "Credibility of the witnesses is for the trial judge to determine, and findings *421 based on competent evidence are conclusive on appeal, even if there is evidence to the contrary." Woncik v. Woncik, 82 N.C.App. 244, 248, 346 S.E.2d 277, 279 (1986) (citations omitted). Because the court's finding that plaintiff did not turn over the complete coin collection is based on competent evidence and supports the legal conclusion finding plaintiff in contempt of the consent judgment, under our standard of review we are bound to affirm this portion of the contempt order.[1]

III. Bias
Lastly, plaintiff contends the contempt order should be reversed because of bias on the part of the trial judge. Plaintiff argues the trial judge's comments at the end of the evidence shows the judge exhibited bias and prejudice against the plaintiff in such a way that it cannot be said she had a fair trial. We disagree and allow the portion of the order holding plaintiff in contempt for failure to return the complete coin collection to stand.
After all witnesses had testified, the trial judge ordered the minor child to return to the front of the courtroom, accusing him of being "a spoiled brat" and of manipulating his mother, father, and sisters. To the plaintiff the court said:
[Manipulation] is exactly what's going on and you don't have the common sense to see what's going on and [your daughters] probably don't have the wisdom to see. But that little boy right there, eleven and a half years old, he got [sic] all of you jumping around like a puppet on a string. No punishment when he disobeys you in terms of going. You've not punished him one bit. You've not grounded him, you've not curtailed any of his privileges and I think you've beat this man out of his coin collection.... I don't know what's going on in your warped mind, but it ain't right. I don't think this Methodist Minister [the defendant] would come in here and swear on the bible, get up here and tell about a valued coin collection ... and it not be in existence.
These and other statements made by the trial judge expressed his personal opinion as well as his decision in the matter. Trial judges are not barred from expressing their opinions in trials conducted without a jury, especially where the comments are consistent with the court's role as finder of fact. Smithwick v. Frame, 62 N.C.App. 387, 395, 303 S.E.2d 217, 222-23 (1983). The judge's comments here, while extremely pointed, do not show a preexisting bias against plaintiff or a prejudging of her case.
The judge's comments came at the end of all of the evidence. After announcement of the order holding plaintiff in contempt, plaintiff's attorney remarked that the trial judge had "heard something I haven't heard." In reply the judge said:
I've heard the evidence and I've watched the demeanor of the witnesses.... I heard [the plaintiff] from the first three questions she was asked, she wouldn't answer that question. It was a contentiousness in her voice, contentiousness in her answers and it set the theme for the whole thing....
Counsel then stated the judge had "drawn a lot of conclusions from evidence not before you." The court replied: "I didn't manufacture it, I saw it. I heard it.... I synthesized it, I must admit." The record shows the trial judge based his opinions and remarks upon the evidence presented at trial. Therefore, plaintiff has failed to show a personal bias or a prejudging of her case by the trial judge. See Koufman v. Koufman, 97 N.C.App. 227, 234, 388 S.E.2d 207, 211 (1990) rev'd on other grounds, 330 N.C. 93, 408 S.E.2d 729 (1991)(trial judge did not "pre-judge" plaintiff's case when stating in chambers what child support would be appropriate since he had already heard some evidence in the matter).
*422 For the reasons stated, the portion of the order holding plaintiff in contempt for failure to comply with the visitation provisions of the consent judgment is reversed. The portion of the order holding plaintiff in contempt for failure to turn over the entire coin collection is affirmed.
Reversed in part, Affirmed in part.
JOHN C. MARTIN and JOHN, JJ., concur.
NOTES
[1]  We note that plaintiff has purged herself of this contempt. The order allowed plaintiff to purge the contempt by turning over the collection to defendant "or otherwise consent to a search of her residence." Plaintiff did in fact consent to this search in open court, thereby purging the contempt. Plaintiff points out in her brief that a search was conducted by deputies of the Lee County Sheriff's Department and the search found no coins. However, this information is not part of the official record and has no bearing upon our decision.
