                          State of New York
                   Supreme Court, Appellate Division
                      Third Judicial Department
Decided and Entered: February 19, 2015                   518807
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In the Matter of EDWARD A.
   BROWN,
                    Appellant,
      v
                                            MEMORANDUM AND ORDER
LINDA H. AKATSU,
                    Respondent.

(And Another Related Proceeding.)
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Calendar Date:   January 7, 2015

Before:   Lahtinen, J.P., Garry, Rose and Devine, JJ.

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      Poissant, Nichols, Grue & Vanier, PC, Malone (Luke J.
Babbie of counsel), for appellant.

      Conboy, McKay, Bachman & Kendall, LLP, Canton (Gerald J.
Ducharme of counsel), for respondent.

      Christopher R. Curley, DeKalb Junction, attorney for the
child.

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Garry, J.

      Appeal from an order of the Family Court of St. Lawrence
County (Morris, J.), entered June 14, 2012, which, among other
things, granted respondent's application, in two proceedings
pursuant to Family Ct Act article 6, for custody of the parties'
child.

      Petitioner (hereinafter the father) and respondent
(hereinafter the mother) are the parents of a child (born in
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2010). The father also has an older child from a previous
marriage. The mother and father lived together with both
children until May 2012, at which point the mother took the
subject child to California without notifying the father or
advising him of the child's whereabouts. The father then
commenced the first of these proceedings seeking custody of the
child. In September 2012, the father's investigator located the
mother and child in California and served the mother with the
father's petition and an order to show cause directing her to
return to New York with the child. She did so promptly, answered
the father's petition, and commenced the second of these
proceedings seeking custody of the child.1 Following a fact-
finding hearing, Family Court awarded sole legal and primary
physical custody to the mother, with shared parenting time for
the father pursuant to a schedule by which the child will spend
alternate weeks with each parent until he enters school and,
thereafter, if the parents do not reside in the same school
district, he will spend three weekends with the father each month
as well as holidays and vacations. The father appeals.

      In making an initial custody determination, "the paramount
concern is the best interests of the child" (Matter of Alleyne v
Cochran, 119 AD3d 1100, 1100 [2014]), which requires review of
factors such as the parents' relative fitness, past performance
and ability to provide a stable home environment for the child,
as well as each parent's willingness to foster the child's
relationship with the other parent (see Robert B. v Linda B., 119
AD3d 1006, 1007 [2014], lv denied 24 NY3d 906 [2014]; Matter of
Joseph G. v Winifred G., 104 AD3d 1067, 1068 [2013], lv denied 21
NY3d 858 [2013]; Matter of Jolynn W. v Vincent X., 85 AD3d 1217,
1217-1218 [2011], lv denied 17 NY3d 713 [2011]). The father's
appeal focuses on the mother's unilateral removal of the child to
California, which deprived the father of any contact with the
child for more than four months. The mother acknowledged in her
testimony that her initial intention in taking this action had
been to separate the child permanently from the father, to
prevent any contact between them and to remain in California


     1
        The mother initially sought permission to relocate with
the child to California, but later withdrew that request.
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until enough time had passed that she could petition for custody
in that state. However, Family Court – while criticizing the
mother's conduct, characterizing it as "extreme" and refusing to
condone it – noted that the mother had apologized and expressed
remorse for the distress her actions had caused. By the time of
the hearing, she was residing permanently in New York, had
obtained an apartment and had resumed her former employment. The
court found that the mother understood that she had made a
mistake in removing the child, that she had cooperated to
facilitate the father's contact with the child following her
return to New York, and that there was no reason to expect that
this would not continue.

      Family Court further credited the mother's testimony that
she left New York because she was afraid of the father as a
result of his angry and sometimes violent behavior. In her
testimony, the mother described several angry outbursts and
jealous confrontations, including incidents in which the father
kicked family pets. The mother testified that the father had
directed obscene expletives toward her, and that she had heard
him directing similar insults toward his mother. There was also
testimony describing angry altercations between the father and
his parents that, in the court's view, revealed a longstanding
family pattern of dealing with conflict in an aggressive manner.
Although the father offered different versions of events, the
court credited the mother's account, finding that the father
denied or minimized his behavior, and that the father had engaged
in acts of domestic violence against the mother. This Court
defers to such credibility determinations (see Matter of Leonard
v Pasternack-Walton, 80 AD3d 1081, 1082 [2011]), and we note that
a court is required to consider the effects of domestic violence
upon the best interests of a child in making a custody
determination (see Williams v Williams, 78 AD3d 1256, 1257
[2010]; Matter of Melissa K. v Brian K., 72 AD3d 1129, 1131
[2010]).

      As for the parties' relative fitness as parents, the record
reveals that both parents love the child, have been actively
engaged in caring for him throughout his life, and are capable of
providing him with a stable home. The mother has a Bachelor's
degree and was pursuing further education at the time of the
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hearing. The father had previously served in the military. Both
parents were employed, and the father had adjusted his schedule
to maximize the time that he was able to spend with the child.
Both parties used appropriate caregivers for the child when they
were at work, and both were in good health. There was no
evidence that either parent was affected by alcoholism or other
substance abuse issues.2

      However, the record reveals significant differences in the
parties' parenting styles that have led to tension and
disagreements between them in the past. The mother testified
that she attempted to talk with the child and explain the reasons
for discipline to him, while the father was not always reasonable
in his expectations of the child, tended to be impatient and
short-tempered and sometimes raised his voice. These
considerations, together with Family Court's finding as to the
history of domestic violence and the mother's fear of the father,
support the award of sole rather than joint custody (see Matter
of DiMele v Hosie, 118 AD3d 1176, 1177-1178 [2014]; Matter of
Darrow v Darrow, 106 AD3d 1388, 1390-1391 [2013]).

      The child shares an affectionate relationship with his
older half brother, who resides with the father. Unfortunately,
the award of physical custody to the mother separates the two
children, but application of the traditional preference for
keeping siblings together has become more complicated as a result
of changes in family dynamics (see Matter of Luke v Luke, 90 AD3d
1179, 1182 [2011]; Matter of Bush v Stout, 59 AD3d 871, 873
[2009]), and the liberal parenting time awarded to the father
offers ample opportunities for the half siblings to spend time
together. Considering the record as a whole, we find a sound and
substantial basis in the record for the court's award of sole
custody to the mother (see Moor v Moor, 75 AD3d 675, 677 [2010]).



    2
        One parent had a health condition that was medically
managed, with no impact on child care, and Family Court assigned
no weight to a prior driving under the influence conviction
dating from 2004, in the absence of any evidence of alcohol
abuse.
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      Finally, as the father correctly asserts, "there is no
presumption in favor of awarding custody of young children to
their mother" (Matter of Barkley v Barkley, 60 AD2d 954, 955
[1978], affd 45 NY2d 936 [1978]; see Matter of Vincent v Vincent,
47 AD2d 786, 786 [1975], appeal dismissed 37 NY2d 774 [1975]).
Nonetheless, based upon our review of the record, we reject the
father's assertion that Family Court's determination here was
inappropriately based upon a gender bias.

     Lahtinen, J.P., Rose and Devine, JJ., concur.



     ORDERED that the order is affirmed, without costs.




                             ENTER:




                             Robert D. Mayberger
                             Clerk of the Court
