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                    COURT OF APPEAL, FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

                                                  DIVISION ONE

                                           STATE OF CALIFORNIA



In re MADISON W. et al., Persons Coming
Under the Juvenile Court Law.
                                                                 D063971
SAN DIEGO COUNTY HEALTH AND
HUMAN SERVICES AGENCY,
                                                                 (Super. Ct. No. J517870A-B)
         Plaintiff and Respondent,

         v.

MARY W.,

         Defendant and Appellant.


         APPEAL from orders of the Superior Court of San Diego County, Cynthia

Bashant, Judge. Affirmed.



         Alice C. Shotton, under appointment by the Court of Appeal, for Defendant and

Appellant.
       Thomas E. Montgomery, County Counsel, John E. Philips, Chief Deputy County

Counsel, and Patrice Plattner-Grainger, Deputy County Counsel, for Plaintiff and

Respondent.

       Mary W. appeals juvenile court orders denying her petition for modification under

Welfare and Institutions Code section 388 (statutory references are to the Welfare and

Institutions Code), and terminating her parental rights to her minor daughters, Madison

W. and Elizabeth W. (together, the minors), under section 366.26. Mary contends the

court erred by denying her section 388 modification petition by which she sought to have

the minors returned to her custody or, alternatively, to have unsupervised visits with

them. She further asserts the court should have applied the beneficial parent-child

relationship exception to adoption to preclude terminating her parental rights. We affirm

the orders.

                  FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND

       In September 2010, six-year-old Madison and one-year-old Elizabeth became

dependents of the juvenile court under section 300, subdivision (b) and were removed

from parental custody based on findings Mary and the minors' father, Heath W., exposed

them to domestic violence. The home contained a loaded shotgun, narcotics and drug

paraphernalia. Mary had a history of alcohol abuse and had been arrested recently for

driving under the influence (DUI). The court placed the minors with the paternal

grandmother and ordered reunification services for Mary.

       During the next six months, Mary completed a parent education course and

domestic violence treatment. She had only one positive test for alcohol and completed

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her outpatient substance abuse treatment program. At the six-month review hearing, the

court placed the minors with Mary. In September 2011, the court terminated its

jurisdiction.

       Six weeks later, the San Diego County Health and Human Services Agency

(Agency) filed a new petition under section 300, subdivision (b), alleging the minors

were at substantial risk of harm as a result of Mary's alcohol abuse. The minors were

detained with the paternal grandmother, with whom they had lived during the first

dependency case.

       Agency's investigation showed Mary had been drinking vodka at a friend's home

and attempted to drive home with the minors in the car. She ran into a guardrail on the

freeway and hit another car. The police arrested her for child endangerment, hit and run,

and DUI. Mary was on probation for her prior DUI conviction. She denied having a

problem with alcohol, and claimed she drank beer only a few times a week. The social

worker noted Mary, who admittedly began drinking when she was 15 years old, was

unable to remain sober and had gained very little insight into how her alcohol abuse

impacted her parenting. Mary continued to minimize the seriousness of the DUI incident

and denied that she needed services. Despite completing drug court services in the earlier

dependency case, she continued to drink alcohol. She was having supervised visits with

the minors twice a week.

       At the jurisdiction and disposition hearing, the court sustained the allegations of

the petitions, declared the minors dependents, removed them from parental custody and

placed them with the paternal grandmother. The court ordered reunification services for

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Mary, including supervised visits, with the possibility of unsupervised and overnight

visits.

          During the next six months, Mary was visiting the minors three times a week and

having overnight visits on weekends, supervised by the maternal grandmother. Mary was

enrolled in substance abuse treatment and had been testing clean. She was also

participating in a parenting class, individual therapy and a DUI program. She attended

four 12-step meetings a week and had a sponsor. At the six-month review hearing, the

court ordered further services and unsupervised visits for Mary.

          Two months later, Agency successfully petitioned under section 388 to have

Mary's visits with the minors revert to supervised. Mary had recently tested positive for

alcohol and methamphetamine, and she twice submitted diluted urine tests. The social

worker noted Mary's substance abuse was increasing, despite her recent treatment. The

social worker was concerned because Mary was in denial and refused to accept

responsibility for her substance abuse. Mary's therapist and her probation officer shared

the social worker's concern, and recommended a residential recovery program for Mary.

Mary continued to test positive for methamphetamine and alcohol, and eventually entered

an inpatient substance abuse treatment program.

          Minors' counsel filed a section 388 petition, seeking to have the court terminate

Mary's services and set a section 366.26 selection and implementation hearing. Counsel

alleged it was not in the minors' best interests to keep them on an emotional roller

coaster, and they deserved permanency and stability. Madison was having difficulty

adjusting to the changes since Mary's relapse, but her temper tantrums and behavioral

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issues improved once she began individual therapy. Elizabeth seemed more relaxed

when there were no visits with Mary. When the minors did visit Mary, they reacted

negatively. Elizabeth screamed and cried before visits. She was anxious and had

enuresis. Elizabeth viewed the paternal grandmother as her protector, and had difficulty

separating from her. Madison acted out after visits, and reverted to infantile behavior.

She felt unstable as a result of Mary's relapse and inconsistent behavior. Following a

contested hearing, the court granted the section 388 petition, terminating Mary's services

and setting a selection and implementation hearing.

       Agency assessed the minors as generally and specifically adoptable. They had

been living with the paternal grandmother for the past 17 months, and had also lived with

her for eight months during the first dependency. The paternal grandmother, who was

able to meet the minors' needs, was committed to adopting them.

       Mary had regularly visited the minors throughout the case. She completed her

residential drug treatment program in December 2012, attended an aftercare program

once a week and had clean drug tests between January and March 2013. The social

worker observed two visits between the minors and Mary, noting the minors appeared

happy to see her and greeted her by calling out, "Mommy." Mary brought food for the

minors. They were comfortable in her presence and enjoyed the attention they received

from her. At the end of visits, the minors hugged Mary and said goodbye. Neither child

showed any distress when separating from her. In the social worker's opinion, it would

not be detrimental to the minors to terminate parental rights.



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         Mary filed a section 388 modification petition, seeking to have the court place the

minors with her or, alternatively, to have unsupervised visits with them. The petition

alleged Mary's circumstances had changed because she had substantially complied with

her case plan, and it would be in the minors' best interests to grant the requested

modification. The court ordered a hearing on the petition.

         Agency opposed the modification, noting Mary had a history of completing

treatment programs and then relapsing. She still had not enrolled in a child abuse class as

required in her criminal case. After completing inpatient substance abuse treatment,

Mary did not have to drug test. She was no longer in individual therapy, but was now

participating in a group that met twice a week to learn about the various symptoms of

bipolar disorder and how to manage them. Supervised visits between Mary and the

minors continued to go well. The minors experienced no emotional distress when visits

ended.

         At the combined section 388 and section 366.26 hearing, social worker Lerone

Jenkins testified he had confirmed that Mary completed residential treatment and an

aftercare program. He observed six to eight visits between Mary and the minors, which

he described as positive. Mary was currently living with the maternal grandfather and his

wife. Their home had a bedroom available for the minors. When Jenkins asked Madison

where she wanted to live, she vacillated between wanting to stay with the paternal

grandmother and wanting to be with Mary. She also vacillated about whether she wanted

to be adopted. Although Jenkins stated Madison was very bonded to Mary, he believed



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the benefits of adoption outweighed any detriment Madison would experience from

terminating that relationship.

       Jenkins testified Mary had a history of complying with the requirements of her

case plan followed by actions that showed she had not made the changes necessary to

mitigate the protective issues. Mary continued to have inappropriate discussions with the

minors about where they would live, and she was unable to put the minors' needs before

her own. Despite having received therapy, Mary could not manage her coping skills.

       Jenkins assessed Mary's relationship with Madison as one of siblings. They were

physically affectionate with each other, but boundaries were poor. They conversed about

their respective boyfriends. Madison had had to keep Mary's secrets with respect to

drinking and drug use. She was very loyal to her mother and wanted to fix her situation.

If Madison were returned to Mary's custody, it was unlikely that she would report any

unsafe behavior. When visits decreased, Madison did not complain and her negative

behaviors improved. In Jenkins's opinion, Madison was in need of stability.

       Jenkins further testified Mary did not have a parental role as to Elizabeth. Mary

could not redirect Elizabeth during visits. When visits decreased, Elizabeth's negative

behaviors improved. Elizabeth viewed the paternal grandmother as her primary

caregiver, and she saw Mary as an extended family member.

       In recommending adoption, Jenkins noted the minors were in need of stability

with a caregiver who could ensure their safety. They had experienced much turmoil,

causing them emotional distress. Adoption would allow them to thrive in a stable

environment.

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       Mary testified, stating she had been sober for eight months. She completed a

residential substance abuse program and an aftercare program, attended Alcoholics

Anonymous (AA) meetings and had a sponsor. All her drug tests had been negative. She

continued to take her medication for bipolar disorder and had also been diagnosed with

posttraumatic stress disorder. Mary admitted she needed individual therapy but had not

completed it.

       Mary visited the minors once a week for three hours. She brought them snacks

and enjoyed interacting with them. She denied telling Madison to keep secrets.

       After considering the evidence and arguments of counsel, the court denied Mary's

section 388 petition. The court then found the minors were likely to be adopted and none

of the exceptions to adoption applied to preclude terminating parental rights.

                                      DISCUSSION

                                             I

       Mary contends the court erred by denying her section 388 modification petition by

which she sought to have the minors returned to her care or, alternatively, to have

unsupervised visits with them. Mary asserts she showed changed circumstances when

she entered residential substance abuse treatment and her mental health needs were

properly diagnosed. She further asserts the proposed modification was in the minors' best

interests because they were strongly bonded to her and she was now able to maintain a

healthy lifestyle.




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                                             A

       Under section 388, a party may petition the court to change, modify or set aside a

previous court order. The petitioning party has the burden of showing, by a

preponderance of the evidence, there is a change of circumstances or new evidence, and

the proposed change is in the child's best interests. (§ 388; In re Jasmon O. (1994) 8

Cal.4th 398, 415-416.) Whether a previous court order should be modified and a change

would be in the child's best interests are questions within the sound discretion of the

juvenile court. (In re Stephanie M. (1994) 7 Cal.4th 295, 318; In re Casey D. (1999) 70

Cal.App.4th 38, 47.) The order will not be disturbed on appeal unless the court has

exceeded the limits of legal discretion by making an arbitrary, capricious or patently

absurd determination. When two or more inferences reasonably can be deduced from the

facts, we have no authority to reweigh the evidence or substitute our decision for that of

the juvenile court. (In re Stephanie M., at pp. 318-319.) In ruling on a modification

petition, the court may consider the entire factual and procedural history of the case. (In

re Justice P. (2004) 123 Cal.App.4th 181, 189.)

                                             B

       Mary's petition alleged her circumstances had changed because she completed

residential drug treatment, participated in an aftercare program, attended AA meetings,

completed a parenting class, had been clean and sober for eight months and regularly

visited the minors. However, Mary's petition and supporting documentation show, at

most, her circumstances were "changing," but had not changed. (In re Casey D., supra,

70 Cal.App.4th at p. 47.) Mary had a lengthy history of substance abuse and child

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neglect. Six weeks after successfully completing services and reunifying with the minors

in the first dependency case, Mary relapsed and the minors once again became

dependents. She participated in more services and remained sober for nine months but,

despite making progress toward reunification, she again relapsed on alcohol and began

using methamphetamine. At the time of the section 388 hearing, Mary had not yet

enrolled in a DUI program, was no longer in therapy and was not required to submit to

random drug tests. Based on this evidence, the court could reasonably infer Mary's

pattern of participating in services, getting sober but then relapsing showed she had not

made the changes necessary to mitigate the protective issues. A petition like Mary's that

alleges changing circumstances promotes neither stability for the child nor the child's best

interests because it would mean delaying the selection of a permanent plan to see if a

parent, who has failed to reunify with the child, might be able to reunify at some future

point. (In re Casey D., at p. 47.) "Childhood does not wait for the parent to become

adequate." (In re Marilyn H. (1993) 5 Cal.4th 295, 310.)

       Even had Mary shown changed circumstances, she did not meet her burden of

showing it would be in the minors' best interests to be returned to her custody or to have

their permanent plans delayed by offering her unsupervised visits. For more than two

years, the minors had experienced much emotional turmoil, due in part to Mary's inability

to maintain her sobriety, manage her coping skills and put the minors' needs before her

own. The minors desperately needed stability and permanence. A parent's high risk of

relapse into drug use puts his or her interest in reunifying with the child directly at odds

with the child's compelling right to a " 'placement that is stable, permanent, and that

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allows the caretaker to make a full emotional commitment to the child.' " (In re William

B. (2008) 163 Cal.App.4th 1220, 1228.)

       The court could reasonably find that placing the minors with Mary or ordering

unsupervised visits would postpone stability for the minors, and would not be in their

best interests compared to the certainty of a permanent home. (In re Angel B. (2002) 97

Cal.App.4th 454, 464.) The proper focus of this case was on the minors' need for

stability and permanency, regardless of Mary's interest in reunification. (In re Stephanie

M., supra, 7 Cal.4th at p. 317; In re Brittany K. (2005) 127 Cal.App.4th 1497, 1507.)

The court acted well within its discretion by denying Mary's section 388 modification

petition.

                                             II

       Mary challenges the sufficiency of the evidence to support the court's finding the

beneficial parent-child relationship exception of section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i)

did not apply to preclude terminating parental rights. She asserts she maintained regular

visitation and contact with the minors, who would benefit from continuing the parent-

child relationship.

                                             A

       After reunification services are terminated, the focus of a dependency proceeding

shifts from preserving the family to promoting the best interests of the child, including

the child's interest in a stable, permanent placement that allows the caregiver to make a

full emotional commitment to the child. (In re Fernando M. (2006) 138 Cal.App.4th

529, 534.) At the selection and implementation hearing, the court has three options: (1)

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terminate parental rights and order adoption as the permanent plan; (2) appoint a legal

guardian for the child; or (3) order the child placed in long-term foster care. (Ibid.)

       "Adoption, where possible, is the permanent plan preferred by the Legislature."

(In re Autumn H. (1994) 27 Cal.App.4th 567, 573.) If the court finds a child cannot be

returned to his or her parent and is likely to be adopted if parental rights are terminated, it

must select adoption as the permanent plan unless it finds a compelling reason for

determining that termination of parental rights would be detrimental to the child under

one or more of the enumerated statutory exceptions. (§ 366.26, subd. (c)(1)(A) & (B)(i)-

(vi); In re A.A. (2008) 167 Cal.App.4th 1292, 1320.) "The parent has the burden of

establishing the existence of any circumstance that constitutes an exception to

termination of parental rights." (In re T.S. (2009) 175 Cal.App.4th 1031, 1039.) Because

a selection and implementation hearing occurs "after the court has repeatedly found the

parent unable to meet the child's needs, it is only in an extraordinary case that

preservation of the parent's rights will prevail over the Legislature's preference for

adoptive placement." (In re Jasmine D. (2000) 78 Cal.App.4th 1339, 1350.)

       Section 366.26, subdivision (c)(1)(B)(i) provides an exception to the adoption

preference if terminating parental rights would be detrimental to the child because "[t]he

parents have maintained regular visitation and contact with the child and the child would

benefit from continuing the relationship." We have interpreted the phrase " 'benefit from

continuing the . . . relationship' " to refer to a parent-child relationship that "promotes the

well-being of the child to such a degree as to outweigh the well-being the child would

gain in a permanent home with new, adoptive parents. In other words, the court balances

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the strength and quality of the natural parent[-]child relationship in a tenuous placement

against the security and sense of belonging a new family would confer. If severing the

natural parent[-]child relationship would deprive the child of a substantial, positive

emotional attachment such that the child would be greatly harmed, the preference for

adoption is overcome and the natural parent's rights are not terminated." (In re Autumn

H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 575; accord In re Jason J. (2009) 175 Cal.App.4th 922,

936-937.)

       To meet the burden of proof for this statutory exception, the parent must show

more than frequent and loving contact, an emotional bond with the child or pleasant

visits. (In re Jason J., supra, 175 Cal.App.4th at pp. 936-937.) The parent must show he

or she occupies a parental role in the child's life, resulting in a significant, positive

emotional attachment from child to parent. (In re Derek W. (1999) 73 Cal.App.4th 823,

827; In re Elizabeth M. (1997) 52 Cal.App.4th 318, 324.)

       We review the court's finding regarding the applicability of a statutory exception

to adoption for substantial evidence. (In re Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 576.)

In this regard, we do not consider the credibility of witnesses, resolve conflicts in the

evidence or weigh the evidence. Instead, we draw all reasonable inferences in support of

the findings, view the record favorably to the juvenile court's order and affirm the order

even if there is substantial evidence supporting a contrary finding. (In re Baby Boy L.

(1994) 24 Cal.App.4th 596, 610.) On appeal, the parent has the burden of showing there

is no evidence of a sufficiently substantial nature to support the court's finding or order.

(In re L.Y.L. (2002) 101 Cal.App.4th 942, 947.)

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                                               B

       Here, the evidence showed Mary maintained regular visitation and contact with

the minors. However, she did not meet her burden of showing there was a beneficial

parent-child relationship sufficient to apply the exception of section 366.26, subdivision

(c)(1)(B)(i).

       Although the minors enjoyed visits with Mary and knew she was their mother, the

relationship was not parental. To Elizabeth, Mary was like an extended family member.

Although Madison had a strong bond with Mary, their relationship had negative aspects:

they were more like siblings than parent and child, and there was some indication

Madison had become parentified. The minors separated easily from Mary after visits and

there was no evidence they were negatively impacted by the absence of Mary from their

daily lives. "A biological parent who has failed to reunify with an adoptable child may

not derail an adoption merely by showing the child would derive some benefit from

continuing a relationship maintained during periods of visitation with the parent." (In re

Angel B., supra, 97 Cal.App.4th at p. 466.) Any positive bond, warmth and affection the

minors shared with Mary was not enough to show they had a "significant, positive,

emotional attachment" to her such that terminating the parent-child relationship would

result in great harm to them. (In re Autumn H., supra, 27 Cal.App.4th at p. 575; In re

Jason J., supra, 175 Cal.App.4th at p. 938.)

       Further, Mary did not show that maintaining the parent-child relationship

outweighed the benefits of adoption for the minors. At the time of the selection and

implementation hearing, the minors had been dependents for more than two years and

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had experienced much turmoil and instability. They were thriving in the home of the

paternal grandmother, who was committed to adopting them. The minors need and

deserve the stability, continuity and permanence that only an adoptive home can provide.

The court was entitled to accept the social worker's opinion that the benefits of adoption

for the minors outweighed the benefits of maintaining a relationship with Mary. (In re

Justice P., supra, 123 Cal.App.4th at p. 191 [child's interest in stable and permanent

home is paramount once a parent's interest in reunification is no longer at issue].) The

court was required to, and did, weigh the strength and quality of the parent-child

relationship, and the detriment involved in terminating it, against the potential benefits of

an adoptive home for the minors. We cannot reweigh the evidence or substitute our

judgment for that of the juvenile court. (In re Casey D., supra, 70 Cal.App.4th at p. 53.)

Substantial evidence supports the court's finding the beneficial parent-child relationship

exception did not apply to preclude terminating parental rights.

                                      DISPOSITION

       The orders are affirmed.



                                                                             MCINTYRE, J.

WE CONCUR:



HUFFMAN, Acting P. J.



NARES, J.

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