                           ILLINOIS OFFICIAL REPORTS
                                        Appellate Court




                           Shinall v. Carter, 2012 IL App (3d) 110302




Appellate Court            JESSICA SHINALL, Petitioner-Appellee, v. JEREMY CARTER,
Caption                    Respondent-Appellant.



District & No.             Third District
                           Docket Nos. 3-11-0302, 3-11-0436 cons.


Rule 23 Order filed        November 9, 2011
Motion to publish
allowed                    January 5, 2012
Opinion filed              January 5, 2012
Held                       In proceedings on a paternity petition in which both parties sought an
(Note: This syllabus       order regarding custody, support and visitation, and petitioner sought an
constitutes no part of     order to remove the child to Colorado so she and the child could live with
the opinion of the court   the Colorado resident she was to marry, the trial court’s refusal to award
but has been prepared      joint custody was not against the manifest weight of the evidence where
by the Reporter of         the court found the parties lacked the level of respect for each other
Decisions for the          necessary for joint custody to succeed and the record also supported the
convenience of the         award of sole custody to petitioner, but the order granting removal of the
reader.)
                           child to Colorado was reversed where a reasonable visitation schedule
                           could not be reached and petitioner failed to meet her burden of proving
                           that removal was in the child’s best interest.


Decision Under             Appeal from the Circuit Court of Peoria County, No. 10-F-31; the Hon.
Review                     David J. Dubicki, Judge, presiding.



Judgment                   Affirmed in part and reversed in part; cause remanded.
Counsel on                 Richard W. Zuckerman (argued), of Law Offices of Richard W.
Appeal                     Zuckerman, of Peoria, for appellant.

                           Judith A. Serritella (argued) and Michael A. Fleming, both of Peoria, for
                           appellee.


Panel                      PRESIDING JUSTICE SCHMIDT delivered the judgment of the court,
                           with opinion.
                           Justices Lytton and O’Brien concurred in the judgment and opinion.


                                             OPINION

¶1          The respondent, Jeremy Carter, appeals from an order of the trial court denying joint
        custody and awarding his former girlfriend, Jessica Shinall, sole custody of their three-year-
        old daughter, Ava. Jeremy also appeals the trial court’s order granting Jessica’s petition for
        removal of Ava from Illinois to Colorado. We affirm in part and reverse in part.

¶2                                              FACTS
¶3          On September 26, 2008, Ava was born to Jessica and Jeremy, who lived together but
        never married. They separated in October of 2009. On January 14, 2010, Jessica filed a
        petition for paternity for an order declaring Jeremy the natural father of Ava. In his answer,
        Jeremy acknowledged paternity of Ava. Both parties requested an order regarding custody,
        support, and visitation. On April 27, 2010, a mediator’s report indicated that there was no
        realistic likelihood of a mediated agreement. On June 15, 2010, Jessica filed a petition for
        leave to remove Ava from Illinois to Colorado, due to her recent engagement and upcoming
        wedding in August of 2010 to Nate Johnson, who resided in Colorado. Evidentiary hearings
        began on October 28, 2010, and continued through February 16, 2011.
¶4          At the hearings, evidence indicated that Jessica had sole custody of her 11-year-old son,
        Cesar, from her first marriage, which had been dissolved in December of 2003. In 2007,
        Jessica had earned her license to be a licensed practical nurse (LPN) and had had 8 jobs in
        the past 10 years. Jeremy had served in the Navy as a hospital corpsman from 1992 to 2003.
        After the Navy, Jeremy worked for Caterpillar from 2003 to the present and currently earned
        $78,336 per year plus medical and retirement benefits.
¶5          In January 2006, Jessica and Jeremy began dating. In October 2006, Jeremy, Jessica, and
        Cesar started living together in Chillicothe, Illinois. On April 13, 2007, Jeremy and Jessica
        became engaged to be married. On September 26, 2008, Ava was born, and both Jeremy and
        Jessica equally participated in her care. In October 2009, Jeremy and Jessica mutually agreed
        to separate due to disagreements regarding Cesar. Jessica moved two blocks away with Cesar
        and Ava. Without court intervention, the parties agreed upon a visitation schedule and child
        support. Jeremy paid $900 per month in child support in addition to half of Ava’s day care.

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       Jeremy’s visitation schedule coincided with Jessica working 12-hour shifts as an LPN on
       Tuesdays and Thursdays and every other weekend, from Friday to Sunday. On Tuesdays and
       Thursdays Jessica took Ava to day care at 6:30 a.m., Jeremy picked her up at 5 p.m., and
       Jessica picked her up from Jeremy at 8 p.m.
¶6          On November 18 and 25, 2009, Jeremy’s two grandmothers passed away. Unbeknownst
       to Jeremy, the same week Jessica began dating Nate Johnson. For a few months after their
       breakup Jeremy had attempted to reconcile with Jessica, sending her numerous text messages
       and e-mails. On one occasion he sent her over 100 text messages in 2½ hours. On January
       7, 2010, Jeremy began crying uncontrollably while holding Ava and begged Jessica to get
       back together with him. In January 2010, Jeremy called Jessica’s mother, crying
       uncontrollably. On January 8, 2010, Jessica obtained an emergency order of protection
       against Jeremy, which was dismissed after the parties entered an agreed civil restraining
       order prohibiting each party from harassing, abusing, or threatening the other.
¶7          On November 23, 2009, Jessica had met Nate when he was in Illinois with his two sons
       visiting family members. Nate was in the Air Force and stationed in Colorado. He had joint
       custody of his two sons from a previous marriage, who resided with their mother in the same
       town as Nate, Colorado Springs, Colorado. After Nate and Jessica spent a few days together
       in November 2009, Nate left on deployment, and they continued to communicate long
       distance. They did not see each other again until March or April of 2010, and then tried to
       see each other once per month thereafter. In May of 2010, Jessica and Nate became engaged
       and married on August 10, 2010, in the Bahamas. On June 15, 2010, Jessica filed a petition
       to remove Ava from Illinois to Colorado. She also filed a similar petition to remove Cesar
       in a separate case.
¶8          After they married, Nate remained in Colorado, while Jessica continued to reside in
       Illinois. Jessica had been to Colorado twice since meeting Nate. Ava spent time with Nate
       whenever he visited Illinois and during her visits to Colorado. Ava had been to Colorado
       twice for a total of one week. Jessica planned to move to Colorado to be a stay-at-home
       mother until Ava went to kindergarten.
¶9          In February of 2010, Jeremy learned of Jessica’s relationship with Nate by discovering
       their e-mails in an e-mail account that Jeremy had set up for Jessica. Jeremy learned of their
       engagement in May of 2010 through friends.
¶ 10        In coparenting Ava, Jessica and Jeremy primarily communicated via text messages or e-
       mails, and spoke in person once per week. Since November 2009, they had sent each other
       hundreds or thousands of messages regarding Ava’s care. Various e-mail conversations
       between Jeremy and Jessica were entered into evidence, demonstrating they were cordial to
       each other while discussing issues regarding Ava, such as visitation arrangements, clothing
       items, doctors appointments, medication, and medical bills. Jessica acknowledged that the
       e-mails were not threatening or harassing; she testified that the e-mails were “fantastic.”
¶ 11        Jessica testified that she did not believe that she and Jeremy could communicate well
       enough to share joint legal custody. Jessica cited, for example, that Jeremy was petty in his
       requests for specific clothing items to be packed for Ava, such as nice clothes for church or
       a swimsuit. Jessica felt Jeremy was being “nit-picky” when he pointed out a hole in Ava’s
       sock. Jessica admittedly had taken Ava’s wardrobe when she and Jeremy separated, but she

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       believed that Jeremy was responsible for maintaining his own wardrobe for Ava. Jessica
       testified that at an exchange of Ava, Jeremy took a jacket and pair of shoes that he had
       purchased off of Ava, explaining to her that was the way Jessica wanted things.
¶ 12       Jessica and Jeremy also disagreed as to the proper treatment for Ava’s ailments, such as
       a diaper rash or chapped lips. Jessica had also disagreed with Jeremy bringing Ava to urgent
       care for a fever of 101.5 degrees and urine that smelled of ammonia, which he informed
       Jessica of afterward. Jessica thought Jeremy should have communicated with her prior to
       taking Ava to urgent care, although she admittedly had taken Ava to the doctor without
       consulting Jeremy.
¶ 13       According to Jessica’s witnesses, Jeremy had made disparaging comments about Jessica
       and Nate in front of Ava. Specifically, Jessica’s friend testified that Jeremy called her a
       “home wrecker” in front of Ava, which Jeremy denied. Jessica testified that on April 4, 2010,
       Jeremy called her an “F’ing whore” in front of Ava, which Jeremy denied. After that
       incident, both Jeremy and Jessica decided to bring witnesses to their exchanges of Ava.
¶ 14       In June 2010, Jeremy threatened to obtain a restraining order against Nate because he
       escorted Jessica to pick up Ava after Jeremy had requested that Nate not be present at
       exchanges due to the tension. Jessica testified that after Jeremy became upset at Nate’s
       presence, Jeremy attempted to pull his storm door closed, but it was propped against
       Jessica’s arm and she was holding Ava in that same arm. Nate testified that on July 6, 2010,
       Jeremy called him an “F’ing punk” and shoved Ava into Jessica’s arms, which Jeremy
       denied. Jeremy admitted that on that date he had told Nate to “go screw himself.” On
       November 16, 2010, Jeremy became irritated that Jessica’s parents arrived at his home to
       pick up Ava wearing Air Force jackets from Nate. Jeremy video-recorded the incident in
       Ava’s presence for evidence that Jessica’s parents were intentionally attempting to provoke
       him.
¶ 15       Jessica’s parents testified that Jeremy was not friendly with them when they picked up
       Ava and would not speak to them unless he had to relay information about Ava. Jeremy
       testified that but for relaying information about Ava, he did not want speak to Jessica’s
       parents because “everybody [was] supporting taking [Ava] away” from him and he did not
       want to say anything that could be wrongly interpreted as him having the wrong tone or
       demeanor.
¶ 16       In January of 2011, Jessica informed Jeremy and Ava’s day-care provider, Marilyn
       Geltmaker, that on Tuesday, January 11, 2011, her mother was going to pick up Ava from
       day care early and, implicitly, Jeremy was expected to pick up Ava from Jessica’s mother.
       At 2 p.m. on January 11, 2011, Jeremy called Geltmaker indicating that he was picking up
       Ava as usual that day. At 4 p.m., Geltmaker allowed Jessica’s mother to take Ava. The
       following day Jeremy informed Geltmaker that, on the advice of his lawyer, the next time
       Ava was not there when he was scheduled to pick her up he would call the police and report
       Ava as a missing person. Geltmaker quit her job as Ava’s day-care provider to avoid future
       problems that could risk her day care being shut down. After Geltmaker quit, Jeremy’s
       mother replaced Geltmaker as Ava’s day-care provider on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
¶ 17       Geltmaker testified that she had followed Jessica’s directions over Jeremy’s because
       Jessica told her that she had sole custody of Ava. Geltmaker also testified that Jeremy was

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       critical of Jessica and had stated that he hated Jessica. Geltmaker indicated that Jeremy
       would often complain about items Jessica packed, or failed to pack, for Ava.
¶ 18        Annette Monge, a friend of Jeremy’s, testified that she witnessed three to five exchanges
       of Ava between Jessica and Jeremy. Monge testified that Jessica and Nate were mean to
       Jeremy and laughed at him in a taunting manner in front of Ava. She observed a “smug”
       attitude from Jessica. After an exchange in May 2010, Jeremy was upset because Jessica
       handed Ava to him and instructed Ava to wave goodbye to “daddy” in reference to Nate.
¶ 19        Jeremy’s supervisor testified that Jeremy’s work performance was above and beyond that
       of the average worker. Jeremy’s uncle, Kevin Orman, testified that he lived across the street
       from Jeremy and saw Jeremy almost daily. Kevin described Jeremy’s extended family as very
       close and described Jeremy as a very loving and good person.
¶ 20        Jessica testified that she thought that Ava’s life would be enhanced by moving to
       Colorado because she would be a stay-at-home mom to the couple’s four children and Ava
       would be in a family environment. She also believed that Nate was an honest person, who
       was stable emotionally and financially. She noted that the school districts were good and the
       neighborhood was safe. Jessica did not look into the requirements of obtaining licensing for
       an LPN in Colorado.
¶ 21        Jessica’s mother and father testified that Ava was a happy, well-adjusted, and healthy
       child. Jessica’s mother and father had met Nate on six occasions. Jessica’s mother testified
       that there was good interaction between Nate and Ava and that Nate was sensitive to the
       needs of Jessica, Cesar, and Ava. Although Jessica’s mother had a close relationship with
       Ava and Cesar, she felt moving to Colorado to live with Nate would be tremendously
       beneficial for them. Jessica’s father described Nate as a “great guy” and indicated that Nate’s
       interactions with Cesar and Ava were extremely loving and close.
¶ 22        Nate testified that he was 38 years old and had been in the Air Force for 19 years. He was
       currently earning $65,000 per year. Nate was assigned to an Air Force base in Colorado as
       a space operator. He purchased a five-bedroom home close to the school his sons attended.
       Nate’s Internet research indicated that the school district was above average in Colorado.
       Nate had volunteered for a one-year deployment and did not think he would be up for a
       transfer for at least two years. After two years, Nate would retire early to avoid a transfer out
       of Colorado. He could receive a minimum pension for retiring at 20 years and a maximum
       pension for retiring at 30 years of service. Nate could earn additional income on top of his
       pension benefits if he retired. Nate would earn approximately $80,000 doing a similar job
       in the private sector in Colorado. Nate did not know of any comparable private sector jobs
       that existed in Illinois. If Jessica was not granted leave to remove Ava from Illinois, Nate
       would most likely retire early and move to Illinois to be with Jessica.
¶ 23        Jeremy testified that Ava was close to both his and Jessica’s parents and all of their
       extended family in Illinois. Jeremy testified that Ava was the most important thing in his life
       and his main focus. Jeremy requested full custody because he felt he had a more stable life
       than Jessica. Jeremy believed that Ava should be exposed to both parents on a frequent basis,
       as they were the people who loved her more than anything. He believed that Ava should
       know him as her dad and Jessica as her mother. As an alternative, Jeremy requested joint
       custody. He believed that he and Jessica could communicate about Ava’s care and needs.

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       Jeremy would be devastated if Ava left the state because he would not be able to be a
       frequent part of her life or be involved in her school activities. Jeremy wanted Ava to grow
       up around his and Jessica’s extended family in Illinois and know that she was loved and
       supported by family.
¶ 24        Jeremy believed that the travel back and forth to Colorado would be stressful on
       everyone. He also believed that being absent from Ava’s life for extended periods of time at
       Ava’s age would diminish their bond. Jeremy only had 15 days of vacation per year and 1
       week off at Christmas. Jeremy believed that Jessica did not have structure in her life, did not
       put Ava first, could not communicate effectively, and became defensive when asked
       questions. Jeremy tried to communicate with Jessica via phone, but she would not respond.
       Jeremy admitted that through the spring of 2010 he took the breakup of his family and
       relationship with Jessica very hard but had since moved past that period of his life. Jeremy
       was not aware that he had the option of filing for temporary custody of Ava during the
       pendency of this case.
¶ 25        The trial court found that awarding joint custody to Jessica and Jeremy would not be in
       Ava’s best interest because the parties could not resolve their issues in mediation and both
       parties wanted sole custody. The trial court found that there was a lot of friction between the
       parties to the point where they had to have other people witness their exchanges of Ava and
       could not deal with one another comfortably. The trial court found that Jeremy’s reactions
       of threatening police involvement for Ava not being at day care and for Nate being on his
       property was “a little bit over the top.” The trial court found that Jeremy’s resentment about
       the breakup and his statements that he hated Jessica and thought she was a bad mother were
       indicative of not having enough respect for Jessica’s child-rearing abilities in order to
       cooperate in joint parenting.
¶ 26        The trial court awarded sole custody of Ava to Jessica. The trial court found that Jeremy
       was still bitter toward Jessica, especially in light of his testimony that Jessica was a bad
       parent and was unstable. The trial court found Jessica to be more dispassionate than Jeremy
       and more willing and able to encourage and facilitate a relationship between Ava and Jeremy.
       The trial court also noted that Jessica had been Ava’s primary caregiver. The trial court
       continued the case for a ruling on Jessica’s petition for removal.
¶ 27        On April 5, 2011, a hearing took place on Jeremy’s motion for the trial court to
       reconsider its denial of joint custody and award sole custody to Jessica, and for a ruling on
       the removal issue. The trial court found the parties did not have the ability to cooperate and
       denied Jeremy’s motion to reconsider.
¶ 28        As for Jessica’s removal petition, the trial court found that Jessica proved that her quality
       of life would be enhanced by the removal, which would enhance Ava’s life. The trial court
       found that there was no showing of the schools being better in Colorado, but the removal
       would enhance Ava’s life because Jessica and Nate would not have to maintain two separate
       households and Ava would benefit from Jessica being a stay-at-home mother. The trial court
       found that reasonable visitation could be established, with Jeremy having eight weeks of
       summer visitation with a week break for Jessica to visit Ava in Illinois, in addition to one
       week of visitation in September, November, December, February, and April. When Ava
       started kindergarten, the visits during February and September would cease, and Jeremy’s

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       summer visitation would be shortened to seven weeks. Jeremy appealed.

¶ 29                                         ANALYSIS
¶ 30        On appeal, Jeremy argues that the trial court erred by: (1) denying joint custody; (2)
       awarding Jessica sole custody; and (3) granting removal of Ava. The standard of review in
       cases involving an appeal of a custody determination is whether the trial court abused its
       discretion. In cases regarding custody, a strong presumption favors the result reached by the
       trial court, and the trial court is vested with great discretion because of its superior
       opportunity to observe and evaluate witnesses when determining the best interests of the
       child. In re Marriage of Seitzinger, 333 Ill. App. 3d 103 (2002). Therefore, we will not
       disturb a trial court’s custody ruling unless it is against the manifest weight or is an abuse of
       discretion. Seitzinger, 333 Ill. App. 3d 103. Similarly, we will not disturb a circuit court’s
       removal decision unless it is against the manifest weight of the evidence. In re Marriage of
       Eckert, 119 Ill. 2d 316 (1988).

¶ 31                                        I. Joint Custody
¶ 32       On appeal, Jeremy first argues that the trial court erred in denying joint custody,
       contending that he and Jessica have demonstrated their ability to cooperate in parenting Ava
       under their informal arrangement.
¶ 33       Section 602.1 of the Act provides statutory guidelines for awarding joint custody. Section
       602.1(b) states that the court shall consider joint custody on the motion of either or both
       parents or upon the court’s own motion, and may award joint custody if doing so would be
       in the best interests of the child, taking into account the following:
               “(1) the ability of the parents to cooperate effectively and consistently in matters that
           directly affect the joint parenting of the child. ‘Ability of the parents to cooperate’ means
           the parents’ capacity to substantially comply with a Joint Parenting Order. The court shall
           not consider the inability of the parents to cooperate effectively and consistently in
           matters that do not directly affect the joint parenting of the child;
               (2) [t]he residential circumstances of each parent; and
               (3) all other factors which may be relevant to the best interest of the child.” 750 ILCS
           5/602.1(c) (West 2010).
       Consequently, “the standards for an award of joint custody are the best interests of the child,
       the agreement of the parents and their mutual ability to cooperate, the geographic distance
       between parents, the desires of the child if he/she is of suitable age, and the relationships
       previously established between child and parents.” Seitzinger, 333 Ill. App. 3d at 108.
¶ 34       The language of the joint parenting statute defines the ability of the parents to cooperate
       as “the parents’ capacity to substantially comply with a Joint Parenting Order.” 750 ILCS
       5/602.1(c) (West 2010). A joint parenting order is an order specifying each parents’ powers,
       rights and responsibility for the personal care of the child and for major decisions such as
       education, health care, and religious training. 750 ILCS 5/602.1(b) (West 2010). These
       statutory prerequisites evidence an intent that joint custody only be awarded in circumstances


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       in which the parents are willing to cooperate in the children’s upbringing. In re Marriage of
       Drummond, 156 Ill. App. 3d 672 (1987).
¶ 35       Awards of joint custody have been affirmed where each party desired to maintain
       maximum involvement with their child and the evidence demonstrated that the parties were
       able to cooperate. In re Marriage of Hacker, 239 Ill. App. 3d 658 (1992) (affirming joint
       custody where both parties were reasonably loving and capable parents who were sufficiently
       able to cooperate even though each party attempted to prove the other less capable); In re
       Marriage of Marcello, 247 Ill. App. 3d 304 (1993) (affirming a joint custody award over the
       mother’s objection where father was actively involved in the child’s activities, the mother
       testified the father should not be excluded from major decisions, and the parents live in close
       geographical proximity). On the other hand, awards of joint custody have been set aside on
       appeal where the evidence showed hostility and a lack of cooperation between the parties.
       See Drummond, 156 Ill. App. 3d 672 (reversing joint custody where there was no joint
       parenting agreement, mediation failed, evidence showed the parties lacked cooperation and
       were vindictive to each other, and the trial court failed to consider the geographic distance
       of the parties residing in Illinois and Texas); In re Marriage of Bush, 191 Ill. App. 3d 249
       (1989) (reversing award of joint custody where the parties repeatedly exhibited hostility
       toward each other, sometimes resulting in physical confrontations).
¶ 36       In this case, the record shows that Jeremy cooperated with Jessica on major parenting
       issues that directly affected Ava, such as support, visitation, and where Ava would reside
       during the pendency of this case. The majority of Jessica and Jeremy’s disagreements
       consisted of petty bickering that was not much different than any other parenting couple,
       whether married or unmarried. On this record, it could be said that the parents have
       demonstrated their ability to follow their own oral agreement such that they similarly would
       have the “capacity to substantially comply with a Joint Parenting Order” as required under
       the language of the joint parenting statute. See 750 ILCS 5/602.1(c)(1) (West 2010).
¶ 37       Nonetheless, the trial court did not abuse its discretion in denying joint custody. Here,
       the trial court found that awarding joint custody would not be in Ava’s best interest because
       the parties did not have the necessary level of respect for each other to cooperate in Ava’s
       child rearing, as indicated by their friction and need for third-party witnesses at their
       exchanges. Although Jeremy testified the parties were able to cooperate, Jessica contradicted
       Jeremy’s testimony with evidence of animosity that had manifested into disparaging
       comments being said in front of Ava and Ava’s day-care provider quitting to avoid being
       caught in the middle of the parties’ conflict. We defer to the trial court’s findings and, as
       such, cannot say that the trial court’s denial of awarding joint custody was against the
       manifest weight of the evidence.

¶ 38                            II. Sole Custody Awarded to Jessica
¶ 39       Jeremy additionally argues that the trial court abused its discretion in awarding sole
       custody of Ava. We disagree.
¶ 40       In a custody dispute, the primary consideration is the best interest and welfare of the
       child. Hall v. Hall, 226 Ill. App. 3d 686 (1991). Regardless of whether the parents have ever


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       been married, when determining what custodial order serves the best interest of the child, the
       trial court shall consider all relevant factors, including the statutory factors listed under
       section 602(a) of the Act, which are: (1) the parents’ wishes; (2) the minor’s wishes; (3) the
       minor’s interactions with parents, siblings, and others who may affect the minor’s best
       interest; (4) the minor’s adjustment to his home, school, and community; (5) the mental and
       physical health of all individuals involved; (6) physical violence, or threat thereof, by the
       minor’s potential custodian, whether directed at the minor or another person; (7) the
       occurrence of ongoing or repeated abuse, whether directed at the minor or another person;
       (8) the willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship between the minor and the other
       parent; and (9) whether one of the parents is a sex offender. Hall, 226 Ill. App. 3d 686; 750
       ILCS 5/602(a) (West 2010).
¶ 41        In this case, the record supports the trial court’s award of sole custody to Jessica. The
       court considered the evidence in its proper context and determined that most factors either
       favored neither party or were not applicable. The trial court properly focused on the factor
       of the willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship between the minor and the other
       parent. The trial court found that Jessica would be more likely to encourage a close
       relationship between Ava and Jeremy in light of Jeremy’s animosity toward Jessica and the
       disparaging comments he made about Jessica in front of Ava. The trial court additionally
       noted that Jessica had been Ava’s primary caregiver since the parties’ separation. In re
       Marriage of Hefer, 282 Ill. App. 3d 73 (1996) (although there is not a presumption in favor
       of the existing custodian when making an initial custody determination as there is in
       modification of custody cases, a court may consider the period of time a child has spent with
       a parent under a temporary custody order).
¶ 42        Essentially, the case was close, as indicated by the trial court, and the evidence did not
       strongly favor either party. Although the record could support a finding that Jeremy was
       more likely to encourage Jessica’s relationship with Ava in light of his testimony stressing
       the importance of Ava’s relationships with himself and Jessica as her parents and in light of
       Jessica’s instructing Ava to call Nate “daddy,” we must defer to the trial court’s findings. As
       such, we affirm the trial court’s decision to award Jessica sole custody.

¶ 43                                         III. Removal
¶ 44       Jeremy additionally argues that the trial court erred in granting Jessica’s petition to
       remove Ava from Illinois to Colorado. We agree.
¶ 45       The burden of proving that removal is in the best interests of a child is on the party
       seeking the removal. 750 ILCS 5/609(a) (West 2010). Section 609(a) of the Act provides that
       the court may permit a custodial parent to remove a child from Illinois if such removal is in
       the best interest of the child. 750 ILCS 5/609(a) (West 2010). “A determination of the best
       interests of the child cannot be reduced to a simple bright-line test, but rather must be made
       on a case-by-case basis, depending, to a great extent, upon the circumstances of each case.”
       Eckert, 119 Ill. 2d at 326.
¶ 46       When hearing the relevant evidence on the issue of removal, the court should consider:
       (1) whether the move would enhance the quality of life of the parent and the child; (2)


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       whether the custodial parent’s motivation to move is intended to defeat or frustrate the
       noncustodial parent’s visitation rights; (3) what motives the noncustodial parent has for
       challenging removal; (4) what visitation rights the noncustodial parent has; and (5) whether
       a realistic and reasonable visitation schedule can exist if the court allows the move. Eckert,
       119 Ill. 2d 316. The factors enunciated in Eckert are not exclusive. In re Marriage of Smith,
       172 Ill. 2d 312 (1996). The Eckert factors are to be considered and balanced when arriving
       at a best interest determination, and the weight given to each factor will vary according to
       the facts of each case. Smith, 172 Ill. 2d 312.
¶ 47        In this case, the trial court found that Jessica adequately proved that removal would
       enhance the quality of Ava’s life because Jessica and Nate would not have to maintain the
       expenses of two households and Jessica would be a stay-at-home mother for Ava. A move
       that enhances a custodial parent’s quality of life indirectly benefits a child’s quality of life.
       Eckert, 199 Ill. 2d 316. However, in order to prove that removal is in a child’s best interest,
       the custodial parent must prove more than his or her own desire to live with a new spouse.
       Eckert, 199 Ill. 2d 316. Here, the trial court’s finding that Ava’s quality of life would
       improve by having a stay-at-home mother was not supported by the evidence. Currently, Ava
       is only in day care twice a week with her paternal grandmother and has visitation with her
       father two to five days per week. There was no evidence presented that Ava having a stay-at-
       home mother was an improvement over her current situation of being able to see both of her
       parents on a regular basis and being in day care with her grandmother twice per week.
       Furthermore, under the removal schedule, Jeremy would have 13 full weeks with Ava but
       he only has 15 days of vacation time, meaning Ava would still be in daycare for at least 10
       weeks of the year.
¶ 48        Additionally, removal to Colorado would have a drastic adverse effect on Jeremy and
       Ava’s visitation. A child has an interest in maintaining significant contact with both parents
       following a divorce. Eckert, 119 Ill. 2d 316. When a parent has diligently exercised visitation
       rights, a court should be reluctant to interfere with those rights by allowing removal for
       unpersuasive or inadequate reasons. Eckert, 119 Ill. 2d 316. A reasonable visitation schedule
       is defined as one that will preserve and foster the child’s relationship with the noncustodial
       parent. Eckert, 119 Ill. 2d 316. In this case, Jeremy has assiduously exercised his visitation
       with Ava, and removal would vastly reduce the frequency and quality of his visitation and
       involvement in Ava’s life. Currently, Jeremy enjoys scheduled visitation with Ava on
       approximately 182 days with additional time around the holidays, which would be reduced
       to just 91 days if Ava were removed to Colorado. He currently enjoys 26 weekends with Ava,
       giving him 52 full days with her that he did not have to use vacation time, which would be
       reduced to 13 weekends or 26 full days. Also, given Ava’s tender age, the present bond and
       relationship between Jeremy and Ava would be substantially altered if they had to wait two
       months or more between visits.
¶ 49        Moreover, at Ava’s young age, the proposed schedule would deprive Ava of a stable
       home environment. Notably, the trial court awarded Jessica sole custody of Ava, finding that
       Jessica had been Ava’s primary caregiver. Under the removal visitation schedule, Ava’s
       primary caregiver, Jessica, would be absent from her life for eight weeks (with the exception
       of a week break) and five additional week-long periods throughout the year. Furthermore,

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       the burden of the frequent and time-consuming travel requirements to and from Colorado
       would fall upon a three-year-old. As proposed, Ava would be making six trips to Illinois per
       year, meaning that she would be required to take 12 flights per year if she were not burdened
       with a 15-hour car ride each way. The court’s allowing Jeremy eight weeks with Ava in the
       summer and sporadic week-long visits throughout the year is not reasonable or realistic given
       the young age of Ava, the time and expense of the travel involved, Jeremy is only having 15
       days of vacation, and the further diminishment of Jeremy’s visitation once Ava starts
       kindergarten in two years.
¶ 50       Furthermore, the Eckert factors are not exclusive, and we must consider all the
       circumstances of this case. As such, we find it necessary to acknowledge that, although
       Jessica and Nate were married, they had yet to live in one household as husband and wife or
       as a family with Ava and their other children. The record shows that Jessica’s marriage to
       Nate was her third serious relationship in six years, after having one child with her former
       husband and one child with Jeremy. Jessica married Nate after knowing him for 10 months
       and during the pendency of this case, prior to knowing if she would have custody of Ava or
       if removal would be approved. The evidence points to the indisputable conclusion that
       Jessica is somewhat impulsive. Based on the evidence presented, Jessica’s argument that
       Ava’s quality of life will be enhanced is little more than speculation at this point in time. See
       In re Marriage of Berk, 215 Ill. App. 3d 459 (1991) (providing that if the happiness that one
       spouse would receive from being able to live with a new spouse were sufficient to prove that
       removal was in the best interest of the child, the court supervision of the proceeding would
       be unnecessary and, at best, ceremonial).
¶ 51       In sum, given Ava’s young age and the fact that a reasonable visitation schedule cannot
       be reached, the trial court’s finding that Jessica met her burden of proving that it was in
       Ava’s best interest to remove Ava from her father and extended family members in Illinois,
       with whom she is strongly bonded, in order to place her in Colorado with Nate and Jessica,
       who had yet to establish a marital home together, was against the manifest weight of the
       evidence. We reverse the trial court’s order granting removal and remand for the trial court
       to reconsider the visitation schedule entered on May 23, 2011.

¶ 52                                     CONCLUSION
¶ 53       For the foregoing reasons, the decision of the circuit court of Peoria County is affirmed
       in part, reversed in part and remanded with directions.

¶ 54       Affirmed in part and reversed in part; cause remanded.




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