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                                                        SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
                                                        APPELLATE DIVISION
                                                        DOCKET NO. A-4860-18T2

A.C.,

          Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

C.D.,

     Defendant-Respondent.
________________________

                   Submitted June 2, 2020 – Decided June 17, 2020

                   Before Judges Fisher and Rose.

                   On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
                   Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket
                   No. FV-20-0440-19.

                   Legal Services of New Jersey, attorneys for appellant
                   (Shoshana E. Gross and Mary M. Mc Manus-Smith, of
                   counsel and on the brief).

                   Antonelli Kantor PC, attorneys for respondent (Daniel
                   Antonelli, of counsel and on the brief).

PER CURIAM
        In this appeal of the custody aspect of a domestic violence final restraining

order, we conclude the trial judge erred by allowing the children's aunt to retain

residential custody – which she obtained temporarily only as a result of the chaos

triggered by the domestic violence incident and its aftermath – instead of

conducting a plenary hearing to explore whether it was better for the children to

live with their father. We, thus, remand for a plenary hearing.

        Plaintiff A.C. (Andrew) and defendant C.D. (Carol) 1 filed complaints

against each other under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act, N.J.S.A.

2C:25-17 to -35, alleging predicate acts arising from the same incident in their

Elizabeth apartment on September 21, 2018. By this time, the parties had lived

together for four years and were the parents of two children. 2 Their living

situation was then in flux; they were to be evicted the following month.

        After the incident that prompted their domestic violence complaints,

police were called, Andrew left the premises to reside with friends in Little Egg

Harbor, and Carol's sister – M.G. (Megan) – took the children to her home in

Roselle. The next day, September 22, Carol overdosed and was hospitalized, an




1
    All names used are fictitious to protect the participants' privacy interests.
2
    The children were born in June 2016 and October 2017.
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event that prompted the Division of Child Protection and Permanency's

involvement.

      On September 26, 2018, the unrepresented parties appeared in court on

these matters for the first time. Carol had been released from the hospital's

psychiatric ward that same morning. After hearing separately from the two

parties about the alleged acts of domestic violence – they both alleged they were

assaulted and harassed by the other – the judge entered temporary restraining

orders in favor of both and scheduled a final hearing date. In considering the

children, the judge took telephonic testimony from a Division caseworker, who

testified she had met with both parties and that it appeared to her, when she met

with Andrew and the children, that "the children were safe in the[ir] father's

care." The caseworker also said that "both parents can parent the children [b ]ut

[Carol] would need some assistance at this time with her sister." She testified

the Division: was aware of Andrew's decision to move to Little Egg Harbor to

live with a couple he had known for many years; had not yet done an assessment

of the Little Egg Harbor home or the couple; understood that Carol would be

residing with Megan; and that Megan's home had been assessed and approved.

Because both parties' living arrangements were not deemed stable, the judge

decided not to disturb the temporary arrangement unilaterally put in place by


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Carol the night of the domestic violence incident.3 So, residential custody 4 of

the children was temporarily placed with Megan; because Carol would also be

residing in that home, the judge asked Megan to agree to supervise Carol "24/7."

Andrew was permitted supervised visitation.

        The judge made it clear that this arrangement was only temporary: "I'm

just giving you residential custody[, Megan]. Obviously it's from now till

October 11th." Andrew did not object to this arrangement, perhaps because it

was designed to last only for the fifteen days between then and the final hearing.

         On October 11, 2018, both parties appeared for the final hearing before

a different judge. Carol, who was without counsel, as was Andrew, asked for

an adjournment so she might retain an attorney.           The judge reviewed the

circumstances of the earlier proceeding, noted that some but not all information

about its continuing investigation had arrived from the Division, and adjourned

the final hearing for three weeks.




3
  We note that the judge heard each party's testimony when the other was outside
the courtroom. It also appears from the transcript that the testimony of the
Division representative was heard when Andrew was outside the courtroom; no
apparent effort was made to allow him to be in the courtroom during that
testimony.
4
    The parents continued to share joint legal custody.
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      On November 1, 2018, the parties appeared for the rescheduled final

hearing. Andrew was with counsel, Carol was not, but she did not immediately

seek another adjournment. After the judge advised the parties of the nature and

potential consequences of domestic violence proceedings, Carol again sought an

adjournment to retain counsel. The judge granted that request, as well as

Andrew's request to add a claim of false imprisonment to his domestic violence

complaint.    Through counsel, Andrew also sought greater visitation than

previously permitted and questioned the need for supervised visitation, arguing

the TRO's supervision requirement was mistaken and that it was Carol who

needed supervision. This argument morphed into consideration of the temporary

residential custody situation, Andrew arguing that the children should reside

with him. Apparently because the Division wanted these parents to undergo

substance abuse and psychiatric evaluations, the judge viewed the uncertain

circumstances as a reason to leave things unchanged, saying, "it[] [would] be

improvident of me to change the status quo until I have such reports in my hand."

      Two more weeks passed. By the time of the November 15, 2018 final

hearing, Carol still had not retained counsel; this time she did not seek a further

adjournment, so the hearing took place. The judge heard from both parties as

well as from Megan, and K.P. (Ken). Andrew had lived with Ken and his wife


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in Little Egg Harbor since the September 21 incident.         Andrew and Carol

testified about the alleged acts of domestic violence. The testimony from Megan

and Ken was limited. Megan testified briefly about the marks she saw on Carol

immediately after the domestic violence incident, as well as her claim that

Andrew, on an earlier occasion, was "verbally abusive" toward Carol. Megan

also testified that, after the incident in question, she learned from Andrew that

he intended to pursue a restraining order, and that she relayed that information

to Carol. Ken testified only about the bruises and marks he saw on Andrew the

night of the domestic violence incident.

      The judge made thorough factual findings on each party's claim against

the other and about the September 21 incident that prompted their complaints.

He found Andrew more credible than Carol, but he also concluded that neither

engaged in harassment as defined in any of the subsections of N.J.S.A. 2C:33-

4. He found instead that each had assaulted the other. N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1. The

judge also found Carol committed the predicate act of false imprisonment,

N.J.S.A. 2C:13-3, during that incident.

      Having recognized that the parties' relationship fell within the Act's scope

because they resided in the same household and had children in common, see

N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(d), and that each assaulted the other, thereby committing


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predicate acts, N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(2), the judge considered the final prong in

such matters: whether a final restraining order (FRO) was necessary to protect

the victim from an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse. See Silver v.

Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 127 (App. Div. 2006). In applying that last prong

to the facts he found, the judge determined that Carol was not in need of an FRO

because she was not in fear of Andrew as evidenced by the communications she

sent to Andrew after the assault; in fact, the judge was convinced that Carol only

sought a restraining order to counter Andrew's attempt to seek one, as he had

told Megan was his intention. On the other hand, the judge concluded that

Andrew was in need of an FRO because Carol's past actions had caused him to

lose a job; he also found that Andrew had reason to have a "fear [of] further acts

of domestic violence, further phone calls, harassments, further interference with

his employment, further interference with his life" and, so, the judge entered an

FRO in Andrew's favor and against Carol. Neither party contests any of these

findings or determinations.

      Instead, once the judge made his findings, the focus immediately turned

to and has ever since remained on the issue of residential custody. Andrew's

counsel again asserted – the moment the judge finished uttering his findings –

that Andrew was entitled to custody, reprising the argument from earlier


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proceedings that "[h]e's the victim[, and] [t]here's a presumption of custody

[going] to the victim." In response, the judge noted that the Division was

involved and had yet to complete its investigation. And while counsel argued

that Andrew had established a place to live with Ken and his wife in Little Egg

Harbor, that he was employed, and that he had fully responded to all the requests

of the Division, which had expressed no concerns about Andrew, the judge

determined it was appropriate to order a best interest evaluation and to await the

Division's evaluations of both parties' living arrangements. For those reasons,

the judge refused to disturb the existing arrangement that had the children

residing with Megan, who had also taken in Carol. This was memorialized in

the FRO, which stated that "custody subject to best interest, custody shall be

under the supervision of [Megan] pending court determination of custody."

      The parties returned to court on December 6, 2018, in anticipation of the

resolution of the pending issues. But because all anticipated reports had not

arrived, little was accomplished except for the further refining of visitation for

Andrew, who, through counsel, again argued he should be given residential

custody in the interim because the "starting point" in resolving such a dispute

was a presumption of entitlement to custody in his favor, particularly when

compared to the fact that Megan was "not a biological parent." The judge


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rejected this, stating that the starting point should be a maintenance of "the status

quo pending" receipt of the outstanding reports. In the midst of the colloquy,

the judge referred to one report, stating without specificity that it contained

"issues . . . regarding attitudes and whatnot." Andrew's counsel argued that the

writer of that report only expressed suppositions and what the writer believed

"may happen" if Andrew received residential custody 5; moreover, Andrew relied

on the fact that the Division investigation had not resulted in any concerns about

Andrew or his living arrangements. Opting for preserving what he viewed as

the status quo, the judge refused to disturb the temporary custody arrangement;

he did amend the FRO to provide for Andrew's payment of child support and

further adjusted Andrew's visitation rights.

      The parties next appeared in court on January 10, 2019, when Carol

applied for an order curtailing Andrew's visitation rights on the allegation that

Andrew had not complied with previously imposed visitation conditions. The

judge rejected that assertion and denied relief.

      The next appearance was on February 28, 2019, at which time the judge,

who had presided over the final domestic violence hearing and all proceedings



5
  The record is unclear as to the identity of the report referenced. It also is not
in the record on appeal.
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since, advised the parties he was required to recuse himself because of a past

relationship with the attorney just retained by Carol. Because this unexpected

event was seen as the likely cause of additional delay, Andrew's counsel urged

the judge, despite his recusal, to turn residential custody over to Andrew because

he "is a victim of domestic violence," which carries "a strong presumption that

the best interest of the children are served by being in his custody." The judge

rightly refused to enter any order in light of his recusal.

      The parties next returned to court – this time before the judge who heard

the parties' applications for temporary restraining orders six months earlier – on

March 28, 2019. The judge advised the parties that while the evaluators had

taken all steps, "[t]he report is just not complete yet." Andrew insisted on his

entitlement to residential custody, urging again the presumption in his favor as

a victim of domestic violence; he also argued that the Division had raised no

concern about him. The judge made no change; she entered an order that

required, among other things, the production within twenty days of the best

interest evaluation as well as a status report from the Division.

      These materials were eventually provided to the court, and the parties

appeared on May 28, 2019, to finally resolve the FRO's custody component.

What they got instead was a decree – without a hearing or proofs – that the


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temporary arrangement that started nine months earlier when Megan took the

children to her home for the night after the domestic violence incident had

become the "status quo," which the judge would not consider altering until such

time as either parent applied for residential custody "with a comprehensive plan

via written motion."

      In short, after all this time, no hearing occurred, no testimony taken, and

no findings were made. As the transcript reveals, and as the amended FRO

states, the judge based her decision only on the written reports; the individuals

who supplied information for that report or who rendered opinions contained n

that report were not called to testify or required to submit to cross-examination.

Indeed, the reports relied on by the judge were not even marked for

identification, and they do not appear in the record on appeal.

      Properly viewing this domestic violence action as having finally reached

a point of finality, Andrew filed this appeal, arguing the judge: (1) failed to

apply "the statutory presumption and award custody to [Andrew] after he was

found to be the victim of domestic violence"; (2) erred in granting residential

custody to a third party instead of the children's parent; (3) deprived Andrew of

due process by granting residential custody to Megan without Megan having

filed a complaint or a motion, without a plenary hearing, and with undue reliance


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on Andrew's child-support payment record; and (4) improperly imposed on

Andrew an obligation to undergo "a battery of evaluations" despite the absence

of evidence that the children were unsafe in his care. We agree with much of

what Andrew argues in his second and third points as well as parts of his other

points; accordingly, we remand the matter for a plenary hearing.

        Most obvious among the defects in the trial court's ruling is the

deprivation of Andrew's right to a plenary hearing.         In rejecting Andrew's

arguments, the judge relied only on a report prepared by one or more absent and

unnamed individuals. The report was not identified or put in evidence, the

materials gathered or interviews conducted that formed the basis for the report

were not identified, the report's authors were not called to testify or subjected to

cross-examination, and the report's content was not placed on the record. 6 The

judge relied only on the report's out-of-court assertions and rejected Andrew's

attempts to dispute whatever the report contained. There is no question but that

in these circumstances Andrew was entitled to a hearing, and the judge erred by

refusing to conduct one. See, e.g., J.G. v. J.H., 457 N.J. Super. 365, 372-74

(App. Div. 2019).




6
    The report is also not in the appellate record.
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      We could stop here, but we think it would also be helpful to discuss some

of the other obstacles the judge placed in front of Andrew. First, Andrew

correctly argued then and argues now that the judge's unwillingness to disturb

the status quo misapprehended the fact that the residential arrangement left in

place was only intended to be temporary – only from the entry of the TROs on

September 26, 2018, until the October 11, 2018 final hearing then scheduled –

and it was perpetuated only because of delays caused by Megan and by the delay

caused by the court's interest in an evaluation that was slow in arriving. The

judge's only response was that if Andrew was aggrieved, he should have

appealed. The fact is, however, that the orders entered up until this last hearing

were interlocutory as each custody disposition was temporary and anticipated a

final disposition at a later date. Andrew could not file an appeal as of right

because finality had not been achieved. He would have had to move for leave

to appeal; such relief, however, is only sparingly granted, State v. Reldan, 100

N.J. 187, 205 (1985), and would not likely have been granted.7



7
  We think it is highly likely that if Andrew so moved after any one of the earlier
proceedings we would have denied leave to appeal because, in each instance, a
final disposition of the custody component of the domestic violence proceeding
– presumably after a plenary hearing – seemed right around the corner. It would
not have made sense for this court to enjoin that eventuality for the purpose of
determining whether it was error for the judge to deny him interim relief.
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      Second, the judge seems to have denied Andrew residential custody

because Andrew was apparently in arrears on his child support obligation. It

was well-established long ago that just as a parent retains the obligation to

support a child who may not desire a relationship with the parent, Martinetti v.

Hickman, 261 N.J. Super. 508, 513 (App. Div. 1993), a parent's right to the love

and companionship of a child (and vice versa) must not be withheld simply

because of unpaid child support, Daly v. Daly, 39 N.J. Super. 117, 123 (J. &

D.R. Ct.), aff'd, 21 N.J. 599 (1956). Yet, the judge mentioned Andrew's failure

to pay child support repeatedly throughout the May 28, 2019 hearing.

      Third, there is no doubt that the only parent of these children who sought

residential custody was Andrew. Carol's attorney acknowledged this; when the

judge asked whether Carol was seeking custody, Carol's attorney said, "we're

not." So, the dispute was one between the child's other parent – Andrew – and

a non-parent, the child's aunt. In ruling against the natural parent, the judge

seems to have given little or no consideration to Andrew's constitutional right

to the care and companionship of his children. Santosky v. Kramer, 455 U.S.

745, 753 (1982); In re Guardianship of K.H.O., 161 N.J. 337, 346 (1999); Wilke

v. Culp, 196 N.J. Super. 487, 496 (App. Div. 1984). Megan's position with

respect to these children pales in comparison to Andrew's. Indeed, Megan never


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sought custody; she never filed a complaint for custody and never filed a motion

in this action seeking such relief. And yet the judge allowed the indefinite

maintenance of that temporary arrangement even beyond the extraordinary nine

months that had already elapsed. And all without ever conducting a plenary

hearing.

      Fourth, the judge erred by failing to fully consider the realities of her

decision.   While the judge adamantly expressed a disinclination to grant

residential custody to Carol, she indirectly allowed that very thing to occur. By

leaving unchanged the temporary arrangement that commenced when the

domestic violence complaints were filed nine months earlier, the judge left the

children in Megan's home where Carol also resides. To repeat, Carol did not

seek custody, and the judge insisted "[Carol] is not walking out of this courtroom

today with custody of these children," and yet, by allowing Megan to maintain

residential custody of the children, the judge in essence awarded Carol – who

was living with Megan – de facto residential custody. So, the one parent who

expressly declined to seek relief indirectly obtained residential custody, while

the only parent seeking custody was denied relief and wasn't even allowed to

testify or participate in a hearing on that subject.




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      The fifth aspect of these proceedings that we should discuss concerns

Andrew's repeated assertion that, as a parent who was awarded a domestic

violence FRO against the other parent, he was entitled to a presumption in his

favor on the custody issue. To be sure, the Act declares that an FRO may

encompass an order "awarding temporary custody of a minor child," but the

presumption is somewhat different than what Andrew repeatedly argued. The

Legislature did not say that the presumption belongs to a victim of domestic

violence; the presumption is awarded only to "the non-abusive parent." N.J.S.A.

2C:25-29(b)(11). As noted, the judge found that both parties committed acts of

domestic violence in that they each assaulted the other; in short, they were both

abusers. Carol was denied an FRO only because the judge found that Carol did

not require an FRO, not because of any finding that Andrew was not an abuser.

                                      ***

      To summarize, the judge erred in concluding, without a hearing and proper

factfinding, that Andrew was not entitled to residential custody of the children.

We thus remand for a plenary hearing. Because the temporary arrangement had

existed longer than expected by the time the order under review was entered,

and now another year has gone by since the erroneous disposition, we direct the

conducting of the hearing as soon as possible.


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      That part of the May 28, 2019 amended FRO that denied Andrew's request

for residential custody is vacated and the matter remanded for further

proceedings in conformity with this opinion. The restraints contained in the

FRO, as well as all other aspects, remain in place.

      Vacated in part and remanded. We do not retain jurisdiction.




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