                 IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE
                             AT NASHVILLE
                            Assigned on Briefs October 4, 2000

         MELISSA DANISE FOSTER KORNBLEE (JARAMILLO) v.
                   KEVIN RICHARD KORNBLEE

                      Appeal from the Circuit Court for Sumner County
                            No. 19043C     Thomas Gray, Judge



                   No. M2000-00379-COA-R3-CV - Filed February 9, 2001


In this post-divorce proceeding, Melissa Danise Foster Kornblee (Jaramillo) appeals the trial court’s
actions in ordering mental health counseling and treatment of the parties’ minor children by a court
appointed professional, declining to allow her to relocate with the minor children to Wyoming,
allowing Father unsupervised visitation with the children, and awarding Father attorney’s fees in
defending her motion to suspend unsupervised visitation. We affirm the trial court.

      Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed

WILLIAM B. CAIN , J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which BEN H. CANTRELL , P.J., M.S. and
WILLIAM C. KOCH , JR., J., joined.

Helen Sfikas Rogers and Lana Lennington, Nashville, Tennessee, for the Appellant, Melissa Danise
Foster Kornblee (Jaramillo).

Laura Y. Goodall, Gallatin, Tennessee, and Robert Todd Jackson, Nashville, Tennessee, for the
Appellee, Kevin Richard Kornblee.

                                             OPINION

       Melissa Foster Kornblee and Kevin Richard Kornblee are the parents of three minor children,
Jonathan born June 9, 1990, Steven born March 26, 1993, and Joseph born November 1, 1995. The
Mother was granted temporary custody of the minor children during the pendency of the divorce case
with specific visitation provided to Father.

        On August 5, 1999, Mother filed a petition requesting the trial court to require supervision
of any visitation with Father. The Mother attached to her petition the affidavit of Dr. Ruth A. Smith,
P.H.D., a licensed clinical psychologist, asserting certain physical, mental, and sexual abuse
allegedly committed upon the children by the Father.
         On September 25, 1999, Husband was favored by a five page, fifteen numbered paragraph
letter from Wife, providing in part as follows:

       This is being sent to inform you that it is my intent to move my residence outside the
       state of Tennessee.

       The location of my proposed new residence shall be within the South Central
       Wyoming Region.

       Reasons for relocation are as follows:

       1.     It is my intention to be able to establish a web design service for a particular
              market niche catering to Brides/Engaged couples. There is a tremendous
              void in this distinctive arena. Upon completion of extensive research and
              self-training, I conclude that I can broach this area and thus provide an
              income to support my children and myself. I have chosen to focus on a
              certain niche rather than a broad-based web design service. By concentrating
              primarily upon this section of the population, the business will not be easily
              influenced by sways in the economy or other external conditions.

                                                ...

       5.     I am establishing a new business in which the market is extremely more
              favorable within the West region, particularly within the areas of Denver, CO
              and Salt Lake City, UT. The same marketing opportunities do not exist
              within a six-hour drive from the Nashville, TN area and thus would prevent
              the success of my business. Whereas Nashville and surrounding area have
              only two bridal events per year, Denver alone has 16 major Bridal Shows,
              and approximately a dozen more events. Salt Lake City has eleven major
              bridal shows on schedule at this time. Other opportunities also exist in
              Laramie, WY; Cheyenne, WY; Jackson Hole, WY; Boise, ID; & Billings,
              MT. At this time, there is no known competition catering to this specific
              marketing area; thus, providing an excellent time to reach into this niche and
              establish a credible business.

       6.     Cost of living is comparatively cheaper. The Cost of Living Index rates list
              Nashville at 96.86, while Casper, WY (a general city example of the area) is
              listed as 89.63. A 3-bedroom house in Nashville has an average price of
              $130,356; in Casper, WY it is at $92,500. A 2-bedroom apartment rents in
              Nashville for approx. $895; in Casper, WY for $425. The property tax rate
              in Nashville is 1.13%; in Casper, WY it is 0.8%. Sales tax in Nashville (state
              and local) is 8.25%; in Casper, WY it is 5.0%.



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7.     The crime rate index for the Nashville Area is listed at 282. For Casper, WY
       it is at 44. This information is based upon a national average being at 100.
       A value of 200 means that the city has twice the crime-rate as the average
       city. A value of 50 means that the city has half the crime rate of the average
       city.

8.     Cultural opportunities abound for the children’s exposure. Many educational
       experiences are available within the area that are found primarily only in
       places such as New York or Chicago, yet without the cost of living; crime;
       etc. associated with those areas. Historical sites, top-rate museums, art
       exhibitions, music, theaters, a brand new Aquarium, amusement parks, etc.
       are all within easy access.

9.     The Rocky Mountains provide some of the most fantastic scenery in the
       world. The children and I greatly enjoy the snow and have always found
       peacefulness and serenity in the mountains. There are many chances to view
       wildlife; herds of antelope, buffalo, elk, moose, wild horses, and deer. Since
       we enjoy being outdoors and exploring nature, this area would grant us a
       wonderful lifetime experience to do so.

10.    The children would continue to be home-schooled; thus preventing further
       disruption of their lives. There are several home-schooling groups in the
       area, which afford ample “socialization” as well as being able to participate
       in extra-curricular programs such as sports and band if they so choose
       (something that they are not able to do here in TN).

                                        ...

15.    We are presently without a home of our own, living with my parents since
       August 23, 1999 until the finalization of the proceedings. Since our business
       is to be focused in the West region, it would be in our best interests to settle
       in that area; rather than buying another home and then uprooting the children
       once again. All of us need to have some stability and a home of our own.

In short, the relocation is what I feel would provide the children and I with an
excellent option for establishing and maintaining a successful business; ensuring not
only my future, but theirs’ as well. We would live in an area with many opportunities
for both educational and entertainment experiences. Our costs of living will be much
cheaper, enabling me to better provide for the children. The crime rate is
tremendously less (over 6.4 times LESS!!!). We would simply have a much better
quality of life available to us versus if we were to remain in TN.




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       Pursuant to TN CODE 36-6-108, you have been given notice of intent to move; the
       location of the proposed new residence; & reasons for the relocation. You may file
       a petition in opposition within thirty (30) days of receipt of this notice.

       Sincerely,


       Melissa D. Kornblee

       CC: Helen Rogers

       By a somewhat remarkable coincidence, the discovery deposition of the Mother revealed that
in April 1998 she had established an internet relationship with Art Jaramillo, who lived in South
Central, Wyoming, and introduced him to the children of the parties by way of internet
correspondence beginning in September 1998. The relationship progressed and in December 1998,
unbeknownst to Father, she took the children on a fourteen day vacation to the home of Mr.
Jaramillo where the children slept in one bedroom and Mother shared a bedroom with Mr. Jaramillo.

        Following the discovery of Mother’s relationship with Mr. Jaramillo and her September 25,
1999, ultimatum, disclosing her intent to relocate to South Central Wyoming, with “my children,”
Father filed his petition on October 5, 1999, to restrain Mother from relocating with the parties’ three
minor children.

       The trial of the divorce case was held on October 7, 1999. At the conclusion of the trial, the
court declared the parties divorced pursuant to Tennessee Code Annotated Section 36-4-129,
awarded custody to Mother, and specified parental rights, including extensive visitation and
communication with Father. Property was divided, child support was set, and a restraining order was
issued restraining and prohibiting Mother from relocating the children from Tennessee without
approval of the court.

        The final decree of divorce further provided:

               IT IS FURTHER ORDERED AND ADJUDGED by the Court that the
        Mother’s request for a Restraining Order against the Father taking the children to his
        church is hereby denied.

               IT IS FURTHER ORDERED AND ADJUDGED by the Court that the Court
       hereby appoints      Celia Woolverton Peak Phone: 615-327-1264           as a family
       therapist to counsel both parties and the three (3) minor children. The Court further




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        requires both parties1 and the three (3) minor children to go to the therapist and
        participate in the sessions as determined by the therapist. The therapist will file a
        report with the Court on or before January 30, 2000, and the Court will thereafter
        consider overnight visitation for the Father.

Mother did not appeal from the final decree of divorce.

        On November 29, 1999, the trial court addressed to counsel for both parties, a letter
disclosing in part:

                On the 23rd day of November, 1999, Celia Woolverton Peak made an inquiry
        as to the role and function of Ms. Michael Murphy2 and Dr. Ruth Smith.

               It was my intent that Celia Woolverton Peak would work as a Court
        appointed neutral in the best interest of the minor children, and that she would be the
        only one serving as counselor/therapist for the children.

               It was not my intent to prohibit Kevin Kornblee from continuing counseling
        with Ms. Michael Murphy; it was not my intent to prohibit Melissa Kornblee from
        seeing Dr. Ruth Smith.

                 Dr. Smith nor Ms. Murphy are to provide service to the children.

       On December 14, 1999, counsel for Mother filed a motion questioning the authority of the
Court to appoint Dr. Peak asserting in part:

                 7.      Plaintiff believes that the Court’s actions in seeking the
        recommendation, first of all, of Father’s counselor who is a lesser qualified, lesser
        experienced and lesser skilled health care provider rather than Dr. Ruth Smith who
        has a Doctorate in clinical psychology as well as extensive skills in treatment, or
        consulting a completely neutral psychiatrist or clinical psychologist independent of
        this action to obtain a recommendation, was improper given the circumstances of this
        case and does not demonstrate the neutrality necessary from the Bench.

                8.     Moreover, the Court’s letter of November 29, 1999 is an attempt by
        the Court to dictate mental health care of the minor children in a non-emergency
        situation and interfere with their long-term therapeutic relationship with Dr. Ruth

        1
                Melissa Danise Kornblee shall within 10 days of October 19, 1999 call Ms. Peak for appointm ent.
Kevin Richard Kornblee shall within 10 days of October 19, 1999 call Ms. Peak for appointment. ss Tom Gray, Judge
10-19-99.

        2
                   Ms. Michael Murphy was a psychologist employed by Mr. Kornblee to help him make whatever
changes in his p ersonal be havior that wo uld assist in his relatio nship with the ch ildren.

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       Smith in violation of the very strong and long line of cases and authority in
       Tennessee that establish a parent’s right to raise their own children as they see fit and
       without outside interference. Hawk v. Hawk, 855 S.W.2d 573 (Tenn. 1993); Simon
       v. Simon, 900 S.W.2d 682 (Tenn. 1995); Ellison v. Ellison, 994 S.W.2d 623 (Tenn.
       App. 1998); Rust v. Rust, 864 S.W.2d 52 (Tenn. App. 1993); Baker v. Baker, 1997
       W.L. 731939 (Tenn. App. 1997). Simply put, this Trial Court has no basis to change
       the children’s pediatrician, dentist, or clinical psychologist without strong,
       compelling, life-threatening reasons. The Court’s confusion in its letter of November
       29, 1999 is obvious when the Court states it does not intend to “prohibit” Melissa
       Kornblee from seeing Dr. Ruth Smith since Dr. Smith has never treated the Mother
       but only the children.

               9.      For all the above-mentioned reasons, Plaintiff/Mother asks this Court
       to review its appointment of Ms. Celia Woolverton Peak, to reconsider whether or
       not the Court needs to have another health care provider involved in this family
       situation and, in any event based on the very clear authority presented, withdraw its
       instruction of the letter issued on November 29, 1999.

         On this same December 14, 1999, Mother filed a petition seeking to suspend unsupervised
visitation with Father based on another affidavit of Dr. Ruth A. Smith.

        The Father responded to the December 14, 1999 petition and motion by Mother denying the
allegations thereof and seeking an award of attorney’s fees for the defense of the motion and petition.

       Following a lengthy hearing on January 19, 2000, of all pending motions, the trial court
entered its order of February 2, 2000, holding that:

       [A]fter hearing the testimony of the parties, of Ms. Celia Peak, Ms. Michael Murphy,
       and of Mr. and Mrs. Foster, refused to consider the Affidavit of Dr. Ruth Smith or
       to grant a continuance to depose Dr. Smith. After hearing the testimony of those
       parties present, including the testimony of Ms. Peak that she no longer wished to be
       involved in this case, the Court denied the Mother’s Motion to Suspend
       Unsupervised Visitation or to allow her to select mental health care providers for the
       minor children rather than the Court.

The court further held:

              ORDERED, ADJUDGED and DECREED that the Court denied the Mother’s
        Motion to determine the children’s mental health care provider and determined that




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          it did have the authority to make those decisions1 and, thus, enjoined and restrained
          the Mother from taking the children to visit with Dr. Ruth Smith, pending further
          orders of the Court, and it is further

                  ORDERED, ADJUDGED and DECREED that the Motion to Suspend
          Unsupervised Visitation is denied, and awards Mr. Kornblee reasonable attorney’s
          fees against Ms. Foster2 in the amount of $2640.00 which shall be a judgment in
          favor of Kevin Richard Kornblee against Melissa Danise Foster for which execution
          may issue, if necessary . . . .

From this order of February 2, 2000, Melissa Foster Kornblee (Jaramillo) has appealed.

         On appeal from this non-jury trial, the applicable standard of review is de novo upon the
record of the trial court accompanied by a presumption of the correctness of the findings of fact of
the trial court unless the preponderance of the evidence is otherwise. Tenn.R.App.P. 13(d).

       Appellant first asserts that the trial court was in error and exceeded its authority “by directing
who will provide mental health counseling or treatment for the parties’ minor children by refusing
to allow Dr. Ruth Smith to continue treatment and counseling of the minor children and by
preventing the custodial parent from seeking mental health care treatment for her minor children.”

        On this issue, Appellant relies primarily on Hawk v. Hawk, 855 S.W.2d 573 (Tenn. 1993).
Such reliance is misplaced. Hawk involved an attempt by grandparents to obtain visitation with
grandchildren under the Grandparents’ Visitation Act (T.C.A. 36-6-301 (1985)). The record in
Hawk, as stated by the Tennessee Supreme Court, reflected “a family history of bickering and
personality clashes that ultimately resulted in a decision by the appellants, Bob and Bay Hawk, that
neither they nor their children, Megan and Steven, would associate with Bob’s parents, appellees Bill
and Sue Hawk.” Hawk, 855 S.W.2d at 575 (Tenn. 1993).

       In declaring grandparent visitation unconstitutional over the joint objections of fit parents,
the Supreme Court stated:

                 In this case, the paternal grandparents directly challenge this fundamental
          privacy interest by seeking court-ordered visitation. Bill and Sue Hawk argue that


          1
                    At the hearing on the 7th day of October, 1999 this Court ordered therapy for the children by a court
appointed neutral menta l health prov ider. Pare nts were ordered to participate. The purpose was to attempt strengthening
the bond between children and father and included was for the Court to take action lessening impact of divorce on the
children and to try to provide professional assistance so the children could grow an d develop as secu re stable individuals.
A short time frame was included . ss Tom Gra y, Chancellor.


          2
                   Mrs. Kornblee resumed use of her maiden name Melissa Foster after the October 19, 1999 divorce
decree.

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       grandparent visitation is a “compelling state interest” that warrants use of the state’s
       parents patriae power to impose visitation in “best interests of the children.” They
       insist that a judicially determined finding that visitation is in the best interests of the
       children is a sufficiently compelling justification to override the parents’ united
       opposition, regardless of the fact that the parents’ fitness is not challenged and that
       the parents’ domestic situation has never been the subject of judicial concern. We
       find, however, that without a substantial danger of harm to the child, a court may not
       constitutionally impose its own subjective notions of the “best interests of the child”
       when an intact, nuclear family with fit, married parents is involved.

Hawk, 855 S.W.2d at 579 (internal footnotes omitted).

        In a divorce and custody situation, the nuclear family is destroyed and the authority of the
court is clear. Tennessee Code Annotated Section 36-6-101 provides:

                Decree for custody and support of child-Enforcement-Juvenile court
       jurisdiction-Presumption of parental fitness-Educational seminars. -(a) (1) In a suit
       for annulment, divorce, or separate maintenance, where the custody of a minor child
       or minor children is a question, the court may, notwithstanding a decree for
       annulment, divorce or separate maintenance is denied, award the care, custody and
       control of such child or children to either of the parties to the suit or to both parties
       in the instance of joint custody or shared parenting, or to some suitable person, as the
       welfare and interest of the child or children may demand, and the court may decree
       that suitable support be made by the natural parents or those who stand in the place
       of the natural parents by adoption. Such decree shall remain within the control of the
       court and be subject to such changes or modifications as the exigencies of the case
       may require.

         Melissa Foster Kornblee did not appeal the final decree of divorce entered October 19, 1999,
that appointed Celia Peak as family therapist for the family including the children. She waited until
December 14, 1999, before filing her untimely objections to the action of the court in appointing a
therapist. At the October 7, 1999, final divorce hearing, the trial court was clearly not impressed by
the testimony of Dr. Ruth Smith. The trial court observed: “I was a little bit concerned about Dr.
Smith’s testimony that she always takes what someone tells her at face value. She took at face value
what Mrs. Kornblee told her, and she said, ‘I always take that at face value,’ and I expressed to her
that I thought perhaps she should have an honest touch of scepticism relative to certain situations.”

        It was after hearing the testimony of Dr. Smith at the trial and after hearing and adjudging
the credibility of all of the witnesses that the trial court made its decision to appoint Ms. Peak as an
independent and unbiased family therapist. At the conclusion of the January 19, 2000 hearing, the
court reiterated its purpose to appoint an independent and unbiased therapist:




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       The court explained on October 7th that the therapy was for the purpose of
       attempting to strengthen the bond between the children and the father. And I am
       going to exercise what I consider to be the authority of the Court to take action that
       the Court finds is in the best interest of the children.

               So I don’t find the motion well taken. I find that this Court is supported by
       the case law that exists in what the Court was attempting to do with helping to mend
       the bond between the father and the children.

        The issue before the court was not the vesting of custody in Mrs. Kornblee. Rather, the issue
was the relationship between the minor children and their father. The trial court, listening to all of
the testimony and viewing all of the witnesses, concluded that Mrs. Kornblee was engaged in a
studied effort to destroy the relationship between the children and their father and that Dr. Smith,
who was Mrs. Kornblee’s selection for therapy with the children, was not only biased but ready to
accept at “face value” anything Mrs. Kornblee told her about Mr. Kornblee.

              Where the trial judge has seen and heard witnesses, especially where issues
       of credibility and weight of oral testimony are involved, on review considerable
       deference must still be accorded to those circumstances. Humphrey v. David
       Witherspoon, Inc., 734 S.W.2d 315 (Tenn. 1987). Where the issue for decision
       depends on the determination of the credibility of witnesses, the trial court is the best
       judge of the credibility and its findings of credibility are entitled to great weight.
       This is true because the trial court alone has the opportunity to observe the
       appearance and the demeanor of the witnesses. Royal Insurance Co. v. Alliance
       Insurance Co., 690 S.W.2d 541, 543 (Tenn.App. 1985). Tenn-Tex Prop. v. Brownell-Electro, Inc., 778 S

Brewer v. Brewer, 869 S.W.2d 928, 934 (Tenn.Ct.App. 1993).

        Given the circumstances in this case, the trial court certainly did not abuse its discretion in
appointing an unbiased therapist who could in the words of the trial court be “new and neutral to this
situation, and who would work from the perspective of the Court.”

        As to the effort of Mrs. Kornblee to move the children to Wyoming, the trial court
specifically found that there was “not a compelling reason for the mother to relocate the children.”
Indeed, at the January 19, 2000, hearing Mrs. Kornblee testified that she “has no plans to take the
children to Wyoming.”

        The relocation issue is best discussed in the second issue raised by the Mother which asserts
that the trial court erred in allowing Mr. Kornblee unsupervised visitation.

       At the conclusion of the January 19, 2000, hearing, the trial court observed:




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                 Now, on the motion to suspend unsupervised visitation, that is denied. The
        evidence does not preponderate that the father has sexually abused or in any other
        way physically abused these children. The credibility of Ms. Foster, the mother, is
        lacking. She testified, No, I’m not trying to prevent a relationship with the father.
        I’m trying to get it to be appropriate. I don’t find that credible. She is not trying to
        get it appropriate. She wants to limit, restrain, interfere with the visitation.

                On the make up visitation where the Court was being reasonable, Ms. Foster
        was unreasonable. She wants to take the day away and then call the day that he can
        have his make up visitation. That’s not being reasonable. It’s not within the spirit
        of the final decree.

        The only evidence that the Father had sexually abused, or in any way physically abused, these
children came from Mrs. Kornblee and her selected therapist who accepted anything Mrs. Kornblee
told her at “face value.”

         Here again we are faced with a credibility issue addressed by the trial court. When the
testimony of Ms. Peak, the court appointed therapist, is considered in contrast to the testimony of
Dr. Smith relative to the actual relationship between the children and the father, it cannot be said that
the trial court abused its discretion, either in preventing Mrs. Kornblee from relocating the children
to Wyoming or in refusing to restrict Mr. Kornblee to supervised visitation. Given the vindictive
spirit displayed in the record by Mrs. Kornblee, the trial court did not err in refusing to allow the
children to relocate to Wyoming and in declining to restrict the visitation of the children with their
father to supervised visitation.

         The last issue asserted by Mother is the award of attorney’s fees to Mr. Kornblee in resisting
the second effort by Mrs. Kornblee to restrict his visitation to the children on allegations of sexual
and physical misconduct which the trial court found to be groundless. Trial courts in Tennessee are
vested with wide discretion in the award of attorney’s fees in post-divorce domestic proceedings and
this Court will not set aside the action of the trial court unless an abuse of discretion is shown. See
Aaron v. Aaron, 909 S.W.2d 408, 411 (Tenn. 1995) (citing Storey v. Storey, 835 S.W.2d 593, 597
(Tenn.Ct.App. 1992); Crouch v. Crouch, 385 S.W.2d 288, 293 (Tenn.Ct.App. 1964)). In this case
the trial court did not abuse its discretion.

       The judgment of the trial court is in all respects affirmed and costs are assessed to Appellant,
Melissa Danise Kornblee (Jaramillo). The case is remanded to the trial court for such further
proceedings as may be necessary.




                                                         ___________________________________
                                                         WILLIAM B. CAIN, JUDGE


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